u/Gloomy-Log1711

I fear orgasms, because after that I feel like a different person. Before I was so horny and energetic und felt love, but afterwards I feel like I want to be alone and just want sleep and the other person makes me cringe a little bit. Sometimes I enjoy cuddling afterwards, but most of the time I have this urge to have my space. Sometimes it goes the whole next day, and the person I am dating and had sex with is making me feel uncomfortable and I am not attracted anymore. Even when I know on a cognitive level, that this is a person I am matching with, my positive emotion towards the person are nearly gone for a while. I love to orgasm, but the after effects are so weird. It is probably not only on chemical level, but also on a psychological level, but I wanted to share it here.