r/SubsShowingOff

There's nothing better than being owned. And there's no one better than my owner, Goddess Kenz. I am obsessed with her, and I always will be. All I ever want is her attention and to make her happy. Six months into her ownership of me and I still think about her all day, every day. It's impossible not to. ​she is my everything. 🥰🥰🥰

Thank you to the best Goddess ever!!!

Goddess Aria, aka u/urdreamgirl813791, can't keep getting away with this. She can't keep getting away with being so amazing and perfect. She's so fun and sweet and makes me melt just cuz she finds it cute. She doesn't push my boundaries and is just so damn good to me. Sending to her makes me feel warm and fuzzy inside, fulfilled and happy to be hers. She blesses me with her presence even when I get tied up with life troubles that keep me away. I love every opportunity to be hers and she just CAN'T KEEP GETTING AWAY WITH THIS

without getting the praise and worship she deserves.💖💙

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That they secretly want gfe experience but with a bratty girl who gives them nothing

I'm banning bucketsfull of men and women each day because people apparently can't tell the difference between a suggestion and a rule (I'm looking at you, dommes) and horny subs can't read the prompt THAT POPS UP BEFORE YOU CAN POST that says if you aren't a finsub, this isn't the right subreddit.

Please. Read this post ↓ (https://www.reddit.com/r/SubsShowingOff/s/WL0mmKSW4Z) if you're not familiar with how to use this subreddit. It's also pinned at the top of the sub itself. It's not that hard.

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What subreddit is best for it.

Where can I play pass on the piggy

$5 per comment

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Making a debt at the end!

I've already posted this, but I'm going to post it again. Free will. But let's yap a bit before I hit the good ole copy and paste.

It's so important not just in kink space but just as adults to be able to have functional reasoning skills. And yet, this space is devoid of fundamental common sense and reasoning. One topic that I see argued time and time again is "I hate men". Guess what? I agree with both sides. But not fully, because both sides tend to lack common sense. Yes, it makes sense to hate a group of people who have caused countless people harm for centuries. So yes, I agree , "hate men". But I also agree that you shouldn't judge someone nor hate them for being born a specific way. Very few men CHOSE to be men. "Not all men but always a man" applies, but still doesn't change the fact that we cannot reasonably hate every man around us and expect them to respect us in this space.

So, without further ado, here is my post from months ago, on separating men as individual people from men as an idea. Enjoy.

Edit: I have gone in and snipped out the parts of the original post that don't apply to today's argument, you can still find the original post on my profile by searching the word "misandrist"

•••••• Men (the idea) and men (the individual) are separate entities and hating one does not constitute removing the other from your life, and does not invalidate your identity as feminist/misandrist.

Point one, men as a concept versus men as the individual.

Men as a concept is in reference to, partially, but not exclusively, the patriarchy, centuries of entitlement, centuries of abuse, centuries of power imbalances, historical violence, and modern day harm.

Men as the individual is in reference to, partially, but not exclusively, unique people who are a product of the world in which they were raised, be it good or bad.

You can, in fact, be against a system without being against each individual that builds up that system, and without assuming that each individual behaves and thinks the same way. This is not cognitive dissonance, this is critical thinking, which some of us do in fact possess the ability to perform. Examples include but are not limited to: "I hate America, but I do not hate every American". "I hate organized religion, but I do not hate every religious person".

Men, as a concept, have historically and are currently causing real and dangerous harm to women. Men, once again, as a concept, do things such as abuse, harass, and strip freedom of choice from women. This does not mean that you, a man, have personally done these things. This does not mean that my father, or partner, or classmate, has personally done these things. What this does mean, is that an overwhelming amount of men HAVE done these things, and we recognize that, and we call it out.

If I say the sky is blue and your rebuttal is "sometimes it's grey", sure, your argument is sound, but that does not mean that the vast majority of the time, the sky is blue, we discuss the sky being blue, and when we think of the sky, we think of blue.

Point two. Judging men on a case by case basis is more fair and less hypocritical than just ignoring the issue altogether.

We know there are more bad men than good men. Hence this entire argument. What we don't know, is who is who? We can know a man our whole lives and think he's a good person, and then something changes, and he no longer is. If I'm in a group of 10 people as the only woman and there are 9 men in the room with me, I'm going to feel outnumbered, unsafe, and anxious. Not because I know that every single one of these men is some horrible monster... But because I know the statistics means that most of them are.

No one is saying YOU are bad, YOU are trash, YOU are evil. What we are saying is that men, as a concept, are more often than not, horrible beings who genuinely don't deserve time in the sunshine.

•••••••• Now, back to August 2026. This post didn't solely focus on men (individual) vs men (collective). It delved deeper into some other topics that I still stand behind. But today I'm leaning hardest into how we HAVE to be able to separate these two in order to function in this space. You cannot walk around screaming that you hate men if you expect the majority of your submissives to be men. The basis of bdsm is trust and mutual respect. Humiliation dynamics stem from the fact that you trust each other first. You respect each other first. You cannot respect someone that you claim to hate.

Edit: I have gone in and snipped out the parts of the original post that don't apply to today's argument, you can still find the original post on my profile by searching the word "misandrist"

turns out that I make a lot more money than some naysayers told me I would but I don't end up keeping any of it lol