r/SwingerPhilippines

Cross posting this here since mas appropriate dito.

Been seeing a few posts with the same questions as to how to get into it pati mga tips daw. So allow me to share how me and my wife got into it.

If you wanna back read some of my previous posts about our swinging stories, check my profile.

So we started a few years back, magfubu pa lang kami that time. She was always bi curious, and part of our dirty talk during missionary was what if may girl na nakaupo sa face nya, habang binabayo ko siya kakainin nya yung pussy nung girl and I would eat the girl’s ass. Bilis namin magcum parehas with that idea. Until nadevelop further into what if she had another guy join. May dildo siya and we would role play that i was another guy fucking her habang ginagamit ko bibig nya.

So hanap kami dito sa reddit, pero no luck and wala maka vibe. Eventually naging magjowa na kami, and that’s when we had our first experience. (Check nyo yung First Bull story sa profile ko)

Before everything else, magusap muna. Nagset kami ng understanding sa isa’t isa na it’s purely sex and nothing emotional. After ng play ang importante is yung happy pa din kami parehas sa isa’t isa. Swinging isn’t for everyone. Meron iba na kapag nakita na nila may ibang gumagamit sa partner nila, nagsisisi o nagbabago tingin sa partner nila. Siguraduhin nyo muna kung ano talaga gusto nyo pasukin kasi there’s no turning back once it’s done. If you can’t separate love from lust, this might not be the lifestyle for you.

Next, hindi pwedeng kung sino sino lang. Vanilla yung mga real life friends namin so malabo na sila ang maging partners namin, so online kami naghahanap. Important yung maayos kausap. Wag pushy. Hindi yung nagmamadali kumantot at umalis yung tao, big red flag samin yun. This goes both ways for thirdies and couples.

Dapat tested for STD and honest enough to share sexual history. Kasi mahirap na magkasakit. May experience kami parehas with hook ups so hindi mahirap samin yung doing it with strangers. Madaming curious and first timers, pero most of them can’t perform properly or don’t match our energy, madalas magaling lang sa salita. So manage your expectations and be patient with the people you play with. Ang ending namin madalas, kapag hindi satisfied sa naka play namin, lalabas namin yung gigil namin sa isa’t isa paguwi haha.

Third, establish ground rules with each other and with who you’re playing with. Magusap kayo ng do’s and don’ts. Make sure to follow para walang maging issue. If hindi kayang sumunod sa rules, red flag agad yan. The best plays we’ve had is with those na madali kausap and respects boundaries. Again, this goes both ways. Kahit kayo yung couple dapat respectful kayo sa magiging partners.

Last, if may pinagdadaanan kayo sa buhay or relationship nyo, swinging might not be for you. The encounters are supposed to be enjoyable. If hahaluan ng drama at magkakagulo lang sa dulo, wag nyo na gawin. Swinging is done with consent, anything that breaks consent is simply cheating. May iba nagsasabi na bull sila pero may asawa pala na walang idea sa nangyayari. Or may iba who will ask for solo play with the wife, without consulting the hubby. That’s disrespectful.

Always aim for mutual enjoyment and respect.

Yun lang. Cheers!

Hi. We are a couple looking for a good looking bull to try our first threesome.

Wife is very pretty.

**You must be willing to share pics on T-E-L-E-G-R-A-M.**

We will share ours as well.

**You must be willing to take an STD test. We will handle all expenses. This is NON negotiable.**

We will provide a test voucher you can use at My Health Clinic.

**If you are unwilling to take a test pls DO NOT message and waste both our time.**

We can host. We are from BGC Taguig.

T-E-L-E-G-R-A-M: [curiouscouple252](https://www.reddit.com/user/curiouscouple252/)

Hi everyone! I'm not bi curious but I feel like I wanna experience being a watcher like live ah. QC area only. Hmu!

I'm open to car fun too - individual to not for couples.

Hi! Looking for a well-endowed hung guy to do a photoshoot with me 🤍

Photoshoot Pegs:
- Me holding your tool
- POV like you’re about to enter me
- POV like I’m about to suck you
- You holding my titties
- Bondage / BDSM

Absolutely no penetration or anything of sorts

About me:
- Petite 5 flat, ~40kgs
- Currently in a relationship but I want to cuck my partner
- You can check my profile for pictures of me

About you:
- Respectful, knows boundaries
- Has a great body, since photoshoot ito
- Preferrable BWC/BBC, or pinoy with >6” tool
- Preferrably in Makati, Pasay area

DM me if you’re interested!

Any specific bar, or coffee shop?