u/whistlewinkwink

Reposting. Our last bull and uni are now missing in action. So we’re looking for new ones. Open to couples too!

We’re a married couple from QC. 34M and 30Bi MILF. Kinky and experienced, average body build, both wears glasses, and easy to get along with. She’s curvy in the right places and he’s packing an good sized tool. Regularly tested, non smokers, and occasional drinkers. Long term playmates preferred.

Please be around QC or within Metro Manila. Not in a rush and willing to vibe first. Please be the same age (30-35). Pass on newbies. **Send a decent intro, low effort ones will be ignored.** Bulls will be filtered by wifey. Bi Unis preferred.

Open to foreigners. Check in preferred, we can split the bill. Couples to be prioritized.

Cross posting this here since mas appropriate dito.

Been seeing a few posts with the same questions as to how to get into it pati mga tips daw. So allow me to share how me and my wife got into it.

If you wanna back read some of my previous posts about our swinging stories, check my profile.

So we started a few years back, magfubu pa lang kami that time. She was always bi curious, and part of our dirty talk during missionary was what if may girl na nakaupo sa face nya, habang binabayo ko siya kakainin nya yung pussy nung girl and I would eat the girl’s ass. Bilis namin magcum parehas with that idea. Until nadevelop further into what if she had another guy join. May dildo siya and we would role play that i was another guy fucking her habang ginagamit ko bibig nya.

So hanap kami dito sa reddit, pero no luck and wala maka vibe. Eventually naging magjowa na kami, and that’s when we had our first experience. (Check nyo yung First Bull story sa profile ko)

Before everything else, magusap muna. Nagset kami ng understanding sa isa’t isa na it’s purely sex and nothing emotional. After ng play ang importante is yung happy pa din kami parehas sa isa’t isa. Swinging isn’t for everyone. Meron iba na kapag nakita na nila may ibang gumagamit sa partner nila, nagsisisi o nagbabago tingin sa partner nila. Siguraduhin nyo muna kung ano talaga gusto nyo pasukin kasi there’s no turning back once it’s done. If you can’t separate love from lust, this might not be the lifestyle for you.

Next, hindi pwedeng kung sino sino lang. Vanilla yung mga real life friends namin so malabo na sila ang maging partners namin, so online kami naghahanap. Important yung maayos kausap. Wag pushy. Hindi yung nagmamadali kumantot at umalis yung tao, big red flag samin yun. This goes both ways for thirdies and couples.

Dapat tested for STD and honest enough to share sexual history. Kasi mahirap na magkasakit. May experience kami parehas with hook ups so hindi mahirap samin yung doing it with strangers. Madaming curious and first timers, pero most of them can’t perform properly or don’t match our energy, madalas magaling lang sa salita. So manage your expectations and be patient with the people you play with. Ang ending namin madalas, kapag hindi satisfied sa naka play namin, lalabas namin yung gigil namin sa isa’t isa paguwi haha.

Third, establish ground rules with each other and with who you’re playing with. Magusap kayo ng do’s and don’ts. Make sure to follow para walang maging issue. If hindi kayang sumunod sa rules, red flag agad yan. The best plays we’ve had is with those na madali kausap and respects boundaries. Again, this goes both ways. Kahit kayo yung couple dapat respectful kayo sa magiging partners.

Last, if may pinagdadaanan kayo sa buhay or relationship nyo, swinging might not be for you. The encounters are supposed to be enjoyable. If hahaluan ng drama at magkakagulo lang sa dulo, wag nyo na gawin. Swinging is done with consent, anything that breaks consent is simply cheating. May iba nagsasabi na bull sila pero may asawa pala na walang idea sa nangyayari. Or may iba who will ask for solo play with the wife, without consulting the hubby. That’s disrespectful.

Always aim for mutual enjoyment and respect.

Yun lang. Cheers!

Ako yung first anal ni wife. She’s had partners before but she never really liked anal so hindi siya pumapayag na itry despite some of them begging for it.

Anal is my biggest kink, and I’ve done it with my past partners. Kaya nung pumayag si wife na itry namin, gamay ko na how to ease her into it. Mahabang foreplay, rimming her, teasing the hole with my finger, using plugs, and lots of lube.

During the first time, di ko napigilan labasan sa loob ng pwet nya kasi sobrang sikip and libog na libog ako sa sarap ng ungol nya. Kaso nung lalabasan na ko sabi nya wag ko daw iputok sa loob kaya after namin mga ilang araw din nya ko hindi kinausap.

Nagkabati naman kami pero after nun never ko na siya kinulit ulit to try.

Eventually we started swinging and the idea of double penetration came up. She was open to it since natry naman na niya ang DP with a plug. So it became a part of our dirty talk. She also got really into getting rimmed so kinakain ko pwet nya every chance I get.

Later on, dahil madami daw siya napapanood sa reddit nya na anal videos she asked me na what if try namin ulit. Pero tinanong ko muna siya bakit siya nagalit nung last time na nagcum ako sa loob nya. Sabi niya “akala ko kasi magkaka problem kapag pinutok sa loob” natawa na lang kami when I told her na wala naman effect ang cum sa ass.

So we tried it again. Same prep, mahabang foreplay and lots of lube. This time gumamit kami ng condom para mas comfy na siya, less friction for her. That was the first time makita ko siya magsquirt during anal. Sarap na sarap siya to the point na siya na mismo gumagalaw!

Dumalas na yung anal play namin to the point na siya na mismo nagsasabi na kantutin ko pwet nya.

Nakakagigil kapag sinasabi nya “gamitin mo lahat ng butas ko” pati “cum ka sa ass ko”. Sino ba naman ako para tumaggi?

Kaya sa mga guys na gusto magtry ng anal, patience and communication is key. 👌

First time namin ni wife magswing was before we got married. Wild na ang sexlife namin ever since and gusto namin magexpolore further. Originally gusto sana namin ng uni kasi bi curious pa si wife that time (ngayon bi na talaga siya nung nakatikim na siya ng pussy haha). Pero since mahirap humanap, we said bull na lang muna. Since kasama naman talaga yun sa bucket list namin.

We made a post sa ibang sub using her account, and I helped filter out the guys. Yung low effort di man lang matuto magintro, matic ignore agad. We found a guy same age as me. Halos same body build din so okay. Sabi ko kay wife (gf ko pa siya during this time) kausapin nya muna. That night, nag SOP sila. Di pa kami magkasama sa isang bahay nito. First time daw ni guy mag SOP and she had fun naman. Nung kinwento nya sakin yung usapan nila nangigil agad ako kinantot ko agad siya.

We planned the meetup. Dinner muna, vibe check. Tapos may place si guy, so he offered to host. During dinner, nung medyo comfy na, binulungan ko si gf na suotin nya yung remote controlled vibe nya, sumunod naman siya. Pumunta siya sa cr para isuot. Di alam ni guy na she had it on. Gusto ko kasi mabuild up agad libog ni gf para mabilis na agad kantutan nila. We dropped by a convenience store to buy drinks. Si gf nanginginig na legs pero I was edging her not to cum.

Pagdating sa place ni guy, it was a one bedroom condo unit. So inom muna and small talk. Libog na si gf so she pulled the guy to bed. Sabi ko sila muna. I’ll give them a bit of privacy para di ma awkward si guy. First time din kasi nya maging bull. Mixed emotions na kaba, libog, selos, at takot. I would occasionally peek at what they were doing. Una momol lang sila tapos naghubad na si gf. Nagulat pa si guy na she had a vibe on. Seeing how wet she was kinain siya ni guy. Nakakalibog yung image na yun first time ko to see her get eaten out. She looked at me standing beside the door tapos she did the “come here” motion with her finger para sumali na ko.

Hubad na ko agad, tigas na tigas na agad pinasubo ko sa kanya. Si guy naman positioned to fuck her. She was lying on her back, head was on the edge of the bed. He fucked her pussy while i was fucking her throat. The first time matry ni wife maspitroast, hinanap hanap na nya after.

We did a few more positions after. May time na pahinga si guy so kami muna ni wife. Or sila muna tapos pahinga ako. Doggy na si guy naman subo nya was so hot nilabasan ako. Naka ilang beses ng cum si guy, dalawa or tatlo ata. Di nya napigilan. Yung last nila pinahubad ni gf yung condom ni guy kasi he couldn’t keep his erection ng may condom. Guy came on her tits.

Overall okay naman na experience. Hindi na naulit with that guy due to a few reasons, mostly kasi feel namin he was awkward after the post nut clarity hit haha. Pero that was our first time. We’ve had a few more since.

And since malapit na birthday ni wife, baka matuloy na yung plan namin na gangbang.

Busy month sa work namin dalawa ni misis kaya wala masyadong oras para maglabas ng init. HIndi pa nakatulong na hindi natuloy yung mga play namin dun sa dapat uni namin kasi hindi nagtugma ang mga schedule.

So nung isang gabi sabi sakin ni wife, "pa-hit naman, isa lang. Kailangan ko lang, pantanggal stress," which translates to "BJ kita." Daig pa yung nanghihingi ng yosi e. Nakakatawa pero minsan ganun si misis, kailangan lang nya sumubo haha. Nung hoe phase niya, before pa naging kami, may mga guys siya na kinita kasi need niya lang sumubo. Of course hindi lang subo ang nangyari pero that's a story for another time.

Kaya kagabi nung natapos ako sa work ng maaga, naka higa ako sa kama namin, bigla siyang pumasok, yun agad sabi nya “pa-hit muna, bago ako magwork ulit.” Binaba nya agad shorts ko tapos nagsimula na siya isubo. She knows how I like it. Sloppy and messy. Sinimulan nya sa ulo, nilaro nya ng dila nya bago nya isubo ng buo. Nung tumulo na laway nya papunta sa bayag, hinimas na nya ng kamay nya habang sinusubo nya. Napaungol ako sa sarap! Akala ko lalabasan ako sa bibig nya pero tinigil nya bigla. Nag-smile sakin biglang sabi “work na ko ulit hahaha” napatawa na lang ako pero hinayaan ko muna. Minsan masarap din yung nag edge muna e. Kaso nakatulog na ko di ko na siya naantay.

Nung umaga, ayun na, laban na agad pagkagising. Di na nakapag antay. Foreplay ng konti tapos bakbakan na agad. Binayo ko siya ng matindi kasi buong gabi ako pinagantay. Squirt siya ilang beses bago ko putukan sa loob.

Saktong hit lang bago magtrabaho ulit. Hahaha

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We’ve been manually changing those who have unable to put the incorrect flair but recently it feels like a lot of posts have been unable to follow.

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