r/Swinger_Vacations

Heya, thank you to so many great posts out here comparing the resorts, great info!

Help - what is “older crowd” in all of these posts? I’m not looking for a wild night life like I hear at RM but also don’t want to end up surrounded by a bunch of 80-90 year old hippies! (All the power to you people, but you’re just not my type!)

First timers - Husband and I are 50’s fit/muscular, fully into the Ls (swap, group, etc) would love to find a crowd that is similar, age isn’t the factor but … need to know where to find the crowd that takes care of themselves, sexy, open to play without a bunch of drunk / wrecked people around (our biggest turn off).

Any thoughts? Thank you in advance!!!! 🙏

Going on a cruise with my other half, where on board Royal Caribbean will we find our fellow Swingers at and how do I discreetly ask if another couple is in the lifestyle or not ?? Thanks !

Hey guys! Me and my wife are interested in doing a resort. We're not really party people, we don't drink. However we wouldn't mind being in a resort with this lifestyle. Even if we don't participate we may just like to watch the go back to our room to each other.

Our ideal resort would be low key, quite and we wouldn't like to be pressured to participate.

This will be our first lifestyle cruise. We are not new to the lifestyle, just haven’t been on a lifestyle cruise yet

What type of door decorations should we bring?

I am in my late 40’s, and want to go on my first swinger vacation. I just don’t want a cruise. Advise? I live in the West Coast