r/TheKcBookClub

Hi all! My husband and I (36F/39M) are new to the lifestyle but have been wanting to visit the KC Book Club for awhile now. My main question is (to put it bluntly) we are both people of size, chubby, overweight, fat...whatever you want to call it lol. Will we feel out of place here?! It won't offend us if so but we realize not everyone is into that so figured we might as well just ask beforehand. We're mostly interested in mingling and watching at first.

Any other couples in our "situation" possibly interested in meeting for drinks before heading to the club one Saturday?!

Just wanted to share that we attended for the first time Saturday and had a great time!

We had decided beforehand that we were going to ease into it, as we are not in the lifestyle and are monogamous, but both have voyeur/exhibitionist kinks so we decided to check out Bookclub.

Others have done a good job of describing the scene and layout, so I just wanted to reiterate that we enjoyed conversations with several couples but didn’t play with any and there was no pressure at all to do so.

We initially hung out upstairs and watched some others play Jenga (with “actions” assigned to each block), and eventually moved downstairs to where more action was.

We enjoyed watching others and were turned on enough to start touching each other, with me fingering her to orgasm and her leading me to a couch for an incredible blow job, which she continued on our drive home where we ended with “the best sex of my life” according to her.

Our visit was fun, exciting, stimulating, and successful for what we wanted to get out of it.

We plan to come back (maybe Halloween?) and have already discussed expanding our willingness to be more open with ourselves and with others.

Hi, we're excited to come for the first time soon... maybe even Saturday! A couple of questions:

- How do we dress for Enchantment Under the Sea? Do people go all out on the themes each week?

-She has a favorite toy. Can we bring, and are there plenty of outlets?

- What else should we know or ask beforehand to ease our comfort level? We're very excited, but I'm sure we'll be a bit nervous walking in for the first time!

Thanks!