r/Throuplesonly

I have soooo many questions and don't know where to begin. I approached this first. Not him. I'm bisexual and have been a long time now. He knew that when we got together, we have been dating going on 3 years now. I completely trust him, but have several trust issues with women. When talking about it he stated he's okay with it but there has to be equality. So more like a throuple I guess? I told him I wanted a girl to come have sleepovers with me, crafts, dress up, and sex occasionally. I stated I didn't just trust anyone so I wanted to build a friendship with someone first. I'm confused how to go about any of this. Idk what any of the "rules" to being a throuple are. I don't want them doing stuff behind my back right away as that makes me mad uncomfy but he's right I can't go putting a bunch of rules and regulations on it or then it's just me wanting to sleep with women. And in a way yes, but also I do want to share I just have so many fears and worries but no one with any experience in these types of things to voice that with.. If it doesn't work out I don't think it'll be then end of my partner and I, but I'd love a girl bestie to help keep me motivated, do girly things with, and help raise our kids together. I just don't know how to go about any of it and if anyone has any pointers please let me know! I just don't want anyone to get hurt. I don't want to be hurt anymore and I don't want to hurt anyone else. I've expressed all my concerns with my partner and he says he understands but the more I think about it the more I'm unsure if I'll be able to handle it emotionally or how can I begin to?

Hey! My gf (36F) and I (35F) have been together for 13 years. We have been slowly learning about polyamory and throuple relationships and are curious about it.

We're not currently looking to "add a third" or anything like that. We would just like to talk to individuals or couples with experience with this dynamic. There is so much information out there but we would love to hear from people themselves.

Ideally, we'd love to talk with individuals in healthy relationships or who have had healthy relationships in this domain (specifically in a FFF dynamic if possible).

What we are looking for is friends who are emotionally and financially stable like us that we can learn from and feel comfortable asking questions to. And maybe we could meet in the future if possible.

We are a pretty chill couple. We don't like drama, partying, or smoking of any kind. We are what people might consider a boring couple haha. We're currently trying to learn gardening and growing our own food. We love our furbabies, music, dnd, video games, walking in nature, going to the zoo, crystals, trying out new restaurants, escape rooms, and more things I can't currently recall lol.

We value open communication and respect above all else. 😊

Hi, I’m single living in phoenix… but honestly give me a reason to move! I have a few dogs, so you gotta like animals! I am pretty shy at first, love being outside, concerts, thrifting. I’m open to anything, have been with couples before not in a serious/romantic way, and would really love to explore that dynamic more. I would consider myself pansexual & submissive :)