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So.. this happened a few weeks ago and it still plays in my mind.
I live in a metropolitan city here in South East Asia.
Im in my mid 40s, on PREP, on cholestrol tablets. The doctor that usually attends to me recently retired so i got assigned a new doctor to take over my files.

He's a nice guy. Probably around my age.
VERY chatty.

The second time i went to see him.
We were talking about my liver/kidney functions and he asked how are the quality of my erections.
I told him.. it could be better.

He asked if i did my self examination.
I said rarely.
Then he said.. would it be okay if he did a quick one now?
Im like.. oh okay.

So we got behind the curtain. He asked if i would like a nurse present, I said no.

He got me to lie down.
Pulled up my tshirt.
And started palpating around my lower abdomen etc.
Then he asked me to pull my pants down. Which i did..
He looks at my cock.
Moves my balls around, feeling for lumps.
Then he asks permission to pull my foreskin down.
Which he then does.. feels around for it.

I did get abit hard.

The whole time im just avoiding eye contact with im until one point when he is holding my cock and he asks me about a small little scar i have on it. I said.. that was a zipper accident from a looooong time ago. He laughs about it.

And i somehow found it abit sexy.
And got abit harder.

He then says.. okay we're fine here.
And got me to pull my pants back on.

Then we went back to his table and continued out medical chat.

Yes.. yes.. nothing sexual came out of it.
Haha.
Just wanted to share this.

I'm not sure if this is cmnm, but I feel kinda the vibes. I will delete it otherwise.

I (30) moved out recently to a house that was not inhabited for too long. We live in Spain, so it is quite hot in summer.

My room and bathroom upstairs are at the of the house and through the window of the bath you can see neighbours's house patio that is uptstairs too. This patio is partly covered with a awning, so most buildings around cannot see it properly.

So I'm an early bird and I was pissing (standing) and the window of the bathroom happens to be just behind the toilet, so I heard some water outside and looked then through my window.

I saw this man (over 50 or even 60) showering naked. He is bald and with some belly. There was a bed there too, so I guess he spent nights outside due to the heat.

I got bewildered. Does he know I live now here and I can see him? I stood a little time while he was drying off and looked towards my window.

Dunno if he saw me or not, since my window happens to have a mosquito net and there is a long roof and long wall outside too that must make hard see through it from that long distance...

Anyway, dunno if he saw me or not, but he keeps showering naked or dressing there like nothing happens.

I have never been into old men, but there's something about his naivety or extroversion that draws my attention too badly.

Guess I should not wake up that early from now on 🙈

Edit: guess at least one of my neighbour should be able to see him too, but I don't want to discuss it.

I’d posted in the past about going to the beach with a white speedo that accidentally went see-through when it got wet. One night, after several drinks, I confessed this to a guy I was on a date with. We were back at my place playing cards and were both getting a little tipsy and horny.

First, he asked to see the speedo. Then as things progressed, it became a bet that whoever lost our current game would have to be the one to wear it to the beach the next day.

Well, I lost. I could feel myself blushing with embarrassment. Grinning, he handed me the thin speedo and told me to try it on. He told me to get in the shower and get it soaking wet so he could see the full effect.

Humiliated, I went into the bathroom and stripped naked. I slipped on the tiny white swimsuit and started the water, stepping inside. I was so horny, but my heart was pounding because he was essentially about to see me naked for the first time. The suit hid nothing.

He opened the bathroom door and pulled back the shower curtain. I was soaking wet and wearing the speedo, but covering myself, still embarrassed. He gently but firmly told me to move my hands and I felt myself obeying.

“Wow.” was all he said at first as his eyes ran up and down my body. “You weren’t kidding. I can see all of you.”

My heart was racing and my penis was straining against the all but clear fabric. Of course he teased me at how excited I appeared to be, reminding me how naked I was going to feel the next day.

We got to the beach and I was wearing the swimsuit under my shorts. He had a pair of small black trunks under his. We got undressed as we laid down our towels, both of us down to our swimsuits. I already felt more bare than him, seeing his black trunks.

There were a few attractive guys scattered around us nearby, so I knew I wasn’t getting out of this without somewhat of an audience.

He wasted no time getting us to the water. We splashed and played around and for a moment, I forgot what was inevitably bound to happen to me. I was hit with a big wave and as it passed, I could see him almost gleeful as he looked at me.

My suit was almost completely clear. There wasn’t a detail of my naked body you couldn’t see. I quickly dove into the water to hide, and he was fast to follow. We play-wrestled a little, and all I could think was how much I wished he was the one wearing this.

Without warning, he tore the swimsuit off of me, stripping me completely naked under the water. I almost gasped as he held my suit up, spinning it around like his trophy.

I jumped toward him to try and get it back, but he grabbed my cock with his other hand and I felt like instantly lost all fight. He had me beat. My swimsuit in one hand, my hardening cock in the other.

He shifted behind me, stroking me gently and playing with my nipples. I tried not to moan but at that point I wasn’t even trying to get my swimsuit back.

I came so hard, my body shuddering in his arms, grateful to be covered by the water as there were some other guys swimming a little closer at that point.

My head was still spinning as he started leading me towards the shore, my swimsuit still in his hand. I protested as I saw the water level was now just barely covering my penis.

“Let’s go lay out,” he grinned at me. I asked for my suit back and he simply held it out, demonstrating how torn it was.

“One way or another, they’re going to see you naked.” He was thrilled at my misfortune and I already had a semi at the thought of it.

Finally, I gave in and marched up the beach next to him, utterly naked. I could hear a few whistles and claps from guys nearby but couldn’t bear to look up at them.

Feel free to message or comment if I should share more. I loved reliving this.

27 CM here would like to examine the lips and tips of NMs to know if they are of the same color

Genuine question from a CM here.

CMNM feels surprisingly hard to find “in the wild” because most people don’t even know the term exists. Before communities like this one, I honestly thought I was almost alone in enjoying the dynamic.

How are others finding people who enjoy this?

I like it when clothed male forcefully takes my clothes and my pride.

I identify as a CM and love this role on so many levels. I thought it might be fun to share the things I enjoy about the dynamic and see how it resonates with the NM / nude male counterparts out there! Here are some things I genuinely enjoy:

• Making nudity the normal state.....Not just “get naked for a moment,” but nudity as the default. Watching TV, cooking, playing a game, just hanging out. You’re nude because that’s how you’re most comfortable. I stay clothed and we just enjoy the dynamic together.
• Taking care of you.... If things ever go deeper, I like being someone who looks after you while you’re open and exposed...helping you relax, slow down, and feel safe in various ways.
• Letting arousal build without pressure...No rushing. No need to “perform” or finish anything. Just letting feelings, reactions, and sensations exist while you stay nude and present.
• Encouraging you to get and stay nude.... I think there’s something deeply connecting about inviting a man to strip and watch him do so.

I’m really curious about the NM side of this now.

• Do these things resonate with you?
• What feels missing from this list that really matters to you as a nudist or NM?

This morning I was feeling super horny and I wanted to do some public stuff and record some videos. So I went to a park that always empty in the morning and went all the way to the back to the tennis court where I thought no one would see. I was getting ready and had my pants off, shoes and sweater on playing with my cock when an old man with his two dogs came out of a path I didn’t see. I quickly pulled my sweater down to hide anything. BUT HIS SIG CAME UP TO ME AND WANTED TO PLAY so I had to do my best to put in my pants as quickly as possible with no place to hide since the tennis court was in a chain fence. After putting my pants on I went to go apologize but he was confused and said what for? So I think he liked what he saw. When he left I recorded my videos