r/gaybathhouse

I am possibly going to Flex Cleveland this coming Friday for my first visit ever to a bath house. I consider myself an exhibitionist but this will be a first for me. Not looking to have sex with anyone but masturbate with one or multiple people. The thought of that gets me very excited. Is this a thing that is ok or is that frowned upon? And are all the facilities operational? Pool, hot tub, sauna… I can’t find a definite answer to this question.

For context, I usually go to Club Orlando on Tuesdays for the locker special mainly just to tan my body and maybe get fucked…
For the first time in a while I went to Club Orlando on a Saturday night, specifically 4th of July. I’m 21M now and I’ve been going to Club Orlando since I’ve been 18 and have had some pretty good experiences. But yesterday was insane. The funniest part is that I got less loads but had the best sex.
I walk in to Club Orlando and check in around 1:00AM after the club. When I pulled into the lot, it was packed but there was no line out the door which was perfect. I strip down and don’t even use my towel; i just had my lube in my hand and started walking. I don’t purchase a room because I love showing off, I like the feeling of people watching me get fucked and seeing them want to be next. I started off walking around the dark room and didn’t really see any tops for me. The slings were pretty much all taken already but one. So I go to the man cave outside. I walk in and it’s already a party. Everyone is in the man cave and the noises of men moaning was just amazing. Then, a very tall black man (about 6’4-6’5 maybe?) grabbed my ass and I looked down at his huge cock. Of course I couldn’t resist so I asked him to fuck me on the sling.

We go back to the sling and there’s only one left. Four other bottoms were next to me as well. I give him lube and he puts my legs in the sling. I ask him “how big is it?” because I haven’t really explored huge dicks before as I have never really gotten the chance. He confidently says “8 Inches”. I told him I’ve never really taken that before and he started off slow. He inserted it in while I was in missionary and it slid in easy even though I’ve never taken a cock that big. He went back in forth, thrusting until he could finally fit the whole 8 inches in me. He fucked me good for bit while I was moaning about how much I loved big black cock and that it was his pussy now. I asked him if he wanted to breed me and he said we’ll do that later because he loves longer sessions. I agreed and told him that the next time he fucked me, I’d have multiple loads in me.

Now that I’m fully stretched out, I wasn’t worried about any other dicks really. If I could take his big black cock, I could conquer pretty much any dick there. Just after the BBC left, I was still sitting in the sling… a latino guy comes up to the sling and doesn’t even hesitate fucking me. We didn’t even exchange words and my hole didn’t need any lube as I was so loose and wet. He fucked me good and clapped my cheeks hard until he came. I was so insanely horny. He came in me and grunted loudly, stroking my cock and up and down my body. I asked him if he came, knowing he did, just to see what he would say. As I felt the warm sensation of his nut in me, he said “of course I did, how could I not nut in a pussy like this.” He pulled out and I fingered my gaping hole and licked his cum from off my fingers. He kisses me and walks away.

Not even 1 minute passes by and a silver fox comes up to the sling. He talks about how he just watched me take their dicks so good. He was packing, it was 7 inches and thick! He fucked me for 5 minutes at least and gaped my hole even more. He nutted in me quick and left.

Finally catching my breath, I take my legs out the sling and get up. I can see on the bench the nut that leaked out of my hole. I walk to the man cave and even more people are in there than before. A famous pornstar I think was getting railed in there near the tv section and had an audience. But I wasn’t there to watch! I walk through the crowd to the dark section and a guy with a beard slapped my ass. I love hairy men as that is my type. He had a nice hairy cock and kissed up all on my body. He then bent me over and was about to fuck me. He had a condom on though and asked me if I wanted to use it. Of course, I said “fuck no, i want you to breed my hole sir.” i needed more loads in me, I only had two at the time. He fucked me in front of 8 guys and we had our own little crowd as my moans attracted more testosterone filled men. A guy on the other side was petting my hair as I was bent over, so I grabbed his cock and started deepthroating it. The hairy guy eventually nutted in me and I could feel his warm load penetrating my insides. I felt full and amazing. But I wasn’t going to stop there. I was open for anyone, it didn’t matter what they looked like or the size of their cock, I just wanted more loads.

I get up and walk over into the more lit up section of the cave… not even 3 minutes go by from the last guy and another guy grabs my ass. I instantly grab his cock and tell him to fuck me right then and there. We fucked in front of a giant crowd and the moans of the other men turned me on even more. He had an average cock but an amazing body. He fucked me the longest out of anyone and put on a show for the other guys. He finally nutted in me and was slapping my ass. I felt so used and I knew that my young hole was just there to please all the older men. That’s all I was good for. Finally I get up from doggy after being nutted in and a guy comes up to me and starts talking. He fingered my ass and could instantly tell, saying “oh your pussy has been used tonight huh?” Of course I told him yes and he kept fingering me. As hot as it was, i wasn’t there for fingering, I needed more cum.

I eventually walk to the entrance section of the man cave again and just as I was about to leave, I saw a buff white brunette hairy male with a hat on. He had a towel over his cock but I could see him touching it still. I’m very non confrontational as I let the guys usually come to me as I’m attractive but, I couldn’t miss out on a man like that. I walked up to him and all I said was “do you wanna fuck me?” He said yes and we went to a private gloryhole section of the man cave. We didn’t use the gloryhole, but we just stayed in the same room. He pulled out his hard cock and it was THICK AND HAIRY, about 6.5-7inches in length and uncut! This is my ideal cock. I dream about dick like this. I finally got it. He slid his cock in, easily, to my loose hole and started fucking the shit out of me standing. I’ve never felt this level of euphoria before. I understood what I was made for. I was made to serve hairy cocks. I was made to just be a hole for masculine men like this. He made me scream and I started crying tears or joy. After he pounded me, finally shot his load in me. I could tell in was a lot as the warmth in my hole was insane. He pulled out and immediately cum dripped out to the ground. I walked out and started searching for my next guy.

I go back to the sling room and get back on. Two friends fucked me back to back, taking turns. They were latinos with hairy 7 inch cocks and they laughed and spoke in Spanish to each other while fucking me. I felt used and it was amazing. They both nutted in me back the back and my hole was flooded. I took 3 more dicks in the sling and didn’t even use lube once. I had so much cum in my hole and it was so gaped that every dick I took, no matter the size, slid in and made me feel perfect. Finally the last guy, i had sex with was an older, buff man watching porn on the tv in the sling room. I could tell he wanted my hole as he was eyeing me down the whole time. I eventually walked over and didn’t even say anything. I straddled him and put his big white cock in my hole and started riding him till he came in me. I strutted away around 3:30AM and felt satisfied. I didn’t even cum. I didn’t need to. Knowing that I made all these guys cum and flood my hole was enough for me.

I checked out of the club and walked out fully naked into the parking lot with cum still dripping from my ass. I had about 11 loads in me from the night which is pretty low. Every year for my birthday, I get as many loads as my age so 18 loads for 18 etc. My 22nd is coming up and I’m so excited to celebrate it there. Sadly I never got to meet up again with that big black cock, but I’ll probably see him again sometime.

Overall, even though I got less loads, I had the best sex of my life with some of the most attractive men.

Anyone know of any good bathhouses by Philly? Want to go soon. Also is there a lot of muscular guys there? Cause that’s what I’m into.

how do I go about asking someone if they’d wear a condom to get a BJ? is this normal at the bath house? I figure almost no one wears a condom to get a BJ. so is it okay for me to ask? and how do I go about asking? what can I expect in terms of response to asking someone to wear a condom for a bj?

thanks!

For those in NYC, surrounding or those visiting. There is a Reddit group for the club

https://www.reddit.com/r/NYCEastSideClub/s/nZY6qMCE3T

I'm 53, white, living in an East-Asian city. I'm a complete slut, and am trying to hook up with as many guys as I can before the last vestiges of attractiveness leave me. I'm doing OK - around 350 guys this year.

Just a quick story from yesterday. My arse is still throbbing.

I finished work early and went to a large gay sauna I've frequented for a while. It's popular with locals who like foreigners, foreigner residents like myself, and tourists too.

I was somehow in demand as a top yesterday - I'd fucked and bred two young local guys and was pretty spent - but I was aching for a pounding as well. I went to have a final look around and, in the main 'dorm' style room where a lot of the action happens, there was a group of guys crowded around a couple fucking. I went to have a look too, and found myself next to a handsome Arabian-looking man.

He was slim, toned, with dark grey hair and a beard, maybe around 60. He was wearing a bath robe, but it didn't hide his thick cock (which he was stroking to the guys fucking loudly on the bed). I got out my own (smaller) dick and locked eyes with him. He started pumping his fist harder. I then grabbed his member and went down on him.

I'd been on my knees barely 5 seconds when he pulled me up and took me to a bed on the other side of the room. He threw me down on my front and, without a word, lubed my hole up, put on a condom, and shoved it in.

He was relentless and began a sticky, sweaty pounding.

Although he was quite a bit older, he was in much better shape than me and didn't tire. His thick 7-inch dick stayed hard as rock and it had a slight curve, which is rarely a bad thing. In this case it was as if it were built to hit my prostate, whichever position he did me in.

And he did do me.

Down flat on my front.

Doggy.

Front down, one leg up.

Missionary.

Back on my front, legs spread out.

On my back, legs on his shoulders.

In the end, I didn't really care. He completely dominated me.

Then, after 20 minutes or so, 'I'm cumming!' and it was done. I held him in, grinding to make sure he'd fully emptied himself.

He held me for a while and we chatted. He called me 'beautiful' which, as a tubbyish 53-year old guy, I was pretty chuffed about. Then he left. I lay there naked and panting, a few guys came up to touch me, my arse still pulsating.

Bi guy, MWM, early 60's. Never been, but thinking about trying it with a long weekend coming up.

I've seen their website, but want some opinions on it.

How aggressive are the guys there? Apparently, I look submissive, and I've had situations in the past where guys try to push too much and don't take no for an answer.

How will I be received if I'm chubby? 5'8" & 174 lbs - beer gut, not exactly fit much less ripped.

Am I correct in assuming condoms and lube are available on site?

What are the rooms like vs. just renting a locker? Do they have beds, sofas, private bathrooms?

How is the crowd during the day?

I'd appreciate any insight you can give me, plus any tips/tricks.

Hi guys, I always get curious about getting on the swing to get fuck hard. But people seems to be bb in the sauna. I want to slut out taje all dick but im scare of getting sti. So I would much rather that they fuck me with condom then cum on my face.

Is this weird? also how should I set the rules non verbal?

30M Planning on going to my first ever visit. Any advice?

I know there are a lot of posts on Club Dallas, and I’ve read a lot of them, but still have some questions.

I’m looking to go to Club Dallas the week of July 5. It’ll be a weeknight, I understand weeknights are slower but how do you think the traffic will be the week after the Fourth of July?

I’ve been to a couple bathhouses but never Club Dallas or another in the franchise. How is it generally? How big is it? How many different rooms? How are the facilities?

I see on the website that towels are provided, but are flip flops provided? If not, would you bring and wear them there?

What’s the crowd like? Average age, body type, ethnicities?

Anybody planning to go that week?

Happy to hear any other insights anyone has!

I honestly thought they were gonna drag this out for years. But the ban has been reversed. Now we wait for one to open up. I hope one does soon and can't wait to see some of you there.

Hey guys, heading to FLEX for my first visit. Honestly, a little nervous. Not super comfortable with my body but doing this as a bit of a “therapeutic” adventure. This will be my first bathhouse visit ever. For those who have been to FLEX, can you give me some helpful tips? Also, curious about the layout (heard it’s massive), and if anyone is willing, a “step-by-step” understanding of what to do from entering to exploring. Any information is helpful, really. Thank you in advance for your help. It’s much appreciated.

I love the idea and want to be one. But how do u prepare your ass for this encounter? I want to be fucked but not ripping my anal.

sorry for the broken English

I’m planning on taking a Wednesday off work in the next couple weeks and want to be a cumdump for several hours during the day at either Akron Steam or Flex Cleveland - which bathhouse do you guys like? I need help picking which one to go to. I live much closer to Akron but not sure if driving up to Cleveland would be better worth my time.

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Planning to make the drive out to Club Dallas this Thursday (July 2nd) around noon. This is my very first visit to a bathhouse. I’m 46, newly divorced vers bottom, 6ft 205 and looking to make some new friends and have a good time.

​A couple of questions for the regulars:

​How busy does it usually get on a Thursday?

​Are there any unwritten rules or recent changes I should know about?

​I’m definitely down to meet up, hang out, and see where things go. If you’re going to be around, let me know what you're into and let's connect.

25m Going this weekend to Chicago with my husband 21m might check out Steamworks anyone going to be there? Would love to hear stories and what to check out when visiting