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33 [F4M] Why is it so hard to find a loud and vocal man? I want to hear you enjoy it

READ THE POST PLEASE

I plan to tease you into an incredible orgasm while I listen to you on a call (I'll be typing, not talking). I need to hear you moan and explode. I'm open to dom/sub, denial and teasing (but not required). USA preferred.

Can't wait to hear you ;)

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u/daisybaby5544 — 3 hours ago

27 M4F HFO for first time

Come and help me figure out how to have a hands free orgasm for the first time. I've tried a couple times but haven't quite gotten there with my edge 2.

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u/SlowDoor0 — 1 hour ago

39M from Spain. I have a diamo and max. Ask for user in DM

me abres DM y nos damos los usuarios? Me gusta chatear y conocer un poco antes del juego.

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u/NewBlueberry69 — 2 hours ago

30 [M4F] Stress relief needed

Seeking that special someone who will help liberate me (at least temporarily) from some stress I've been going through.

I've got a Gush 2 and a Diamo. We'll be focusing on the Gush 2 bc it's easier to put on and feels really good.

Tease me, edge me if you must, just make sure I erupt and then keep going bc I do enjoy some overstimulation.

Experience not necessary, but it helps. Please don't be drunk or high. No age preferences, just be 18+, older is preferred.

Reach out if you're interested, use more than two words, and we'll see if it leads to a control link or adding each other on the app.

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u/scrumpula — 3 hours ago

M4A - Sub that is planning to keep my hush in for a while today. Would love to have someone control it

Dm me and I’ll add you.

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u/DrWhoNerd04 — 4 hours ago

33 [M4F] Switch leaning sub looking for a dominant switch to explore both sides together

I’m 33, based in Southern Germany, and looking for a female switch with a dominant leaning who enjoys playful control, teasing, and exploring dynamics from both sides.

Most naturally, I lean submissive. I respond strongly to calm dominance, teasing, edging, denial, bondage, and the psychological tension that builds when someone knows exactly how to keep me on edge. I enjoy structure, anticipation, and that slow mental shift where pleasing someone starts taking over your thoughts.

But I also genuinely enjoy my dominant side, especially in a playful, attentive way. I love teasing someone slowly, touching sensitive places just enough to make them squirm, building tension over time, edging again and again until they’re desperate and begging for release. I enjoy being attentive to reactions, learning what makes someone melt, and using that knowledge carefully.

Bondage is a big interest for me on both sides. I enjoy the trust, vulnerability, and control involved whether I’m the one tied up or the one guiding the experience. Toys are another big plus, especially interactive play and teasing dynamics where control can build gradually over time.

I’m not looking for instant intensity or a performative dynamic. I’d rather build chemistry naturally, explore both sides together, and create something that feels exciting, relaxed, and genuine.

If you’re a switchy woman who enjoys both teasing and being teased, being in control but occasionally letting go too, I’d love to hear from you.

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u/bluepumpkin139 — 4 hours ago

27 [M4F] Looking to control older F x

Hey, 27 m here. I've been horny since I woke up..I'm just chilling, smoking some weed, horny aff.

I've got a huge kink for older women..

I'd love to have some fun and make each other feel good xx

I love controlling toys! I don't have my own but I enjoy controlling others!

I'm quite experienced at this point x

Soo hmu if you're interested xx

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u/Worth-Buffalo9268 — 5 hours ago

M4f 25m uk x

looking to edge you until the very end and keep you pent up until the next session, can you hold it?

or maybe ill make you squirt over and over, who knows?

message me asl

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u/Accomplished-Lynx510 — 5 hours ago
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25 [F4A] trying this again lol

hi trying this again bc i’m down bad n horny atm lol. would like to be controlled by a lady ideally, but since that’s rare now, a man will MAYBE do. would like if i could find someone consistent/active on the app is well! and someone preferably in my age range. i’m on the east coast as well.

pls don’t be weird or demanding, order me around to do xyz. let’s just talk n vibe 😭 i love to be edged/teased & like begging. love praise + pet names as well. i’m very subby. i enjoy calling a domme mommy n a dom dad lol (just saying that in advance, i’m just a baby). and pls have experience with controlling! i don’t send photos/videos, i can maybe do audio when i feel comfortable. thank you :)

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u/BusyDoctor3191 — 12 hours ago

[M4F] pleasure dom looking to control!

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Hi! 29M pleasure Dom here looking for people to talk to :) dm if interested or add me : sealing30001

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u/ContestPhysical7096 — 6 hours ago

19[F4M] - Looking for control...

Looking for boys, who want to be teased and denied on repeat.. until they tap out hehe..

Will verbally tease you.. as I take control and watch you squirm and maybe moan hehe.

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u/dadalinka21 — 9 hours ago

38M UK (M4F)looking for long term!

As the title suggests I'm looking for a female lontlg term play partner, text/voice

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u/Deathlymoo — 6 hours ago

M26[M4F] need someone that wants to get controlled by me until you cum for me on cam/voice?

I need someone I can control and that is comfortable with turn on their cam/voice, I just love making/watching people cum so much. Preferably female or trans but open to anyone.

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u/Alexdude666 — 6 hours ago

Please help me squirt??

Bbw f 25 need someone to control me while my hubby is at work I might even go run some errands in public

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u/lovelybbw4743 — 9 hours ago

27 [M4F] Aching to cum any girls wanna control my max2 ;)

Recently got ahold of max 2 looking to try it out ~ any girls looking to control or sync? Been absolutely throbbing looking for a bit of fun! Dm me

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u/No-Molasses3477 — 7 hours ago

34 [M4F] Soft Dom looking for a needy lady who likes voice

Hi there stranger

Are you looking for a Soft Dom to please you ? A pleasure giver who wants to make you cum ? Then you've come to the right place !

I'm the type of man who takes control without degradation. I'm here to tease you, make you all wet and moaning.. You'll beg me for more, and I'll drive you to the edge.. And when the time comes, I'll make sure you cum over and over again until you can't take it anymore...

I'll guide you with both my vibrations and my voice, while I make sure you're having the time of your life

It can be a one time thing, but I'm open to develop something long-term if the chemistry is here

Just so you know, I've been told I have an amazing voice, and I'll let you guess my accent... Also, my fingers are magical when it comes to control toys

Interested ? Don't be shy and drop me your lovense username

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u/Dirty-Thoughts-153 — 7 hours ago