r/realsoftmaledom

There’s nothing better than catching you completely off guard after a long day.

You were totally knocked out under the sheet, taking a late evening nap. The bedroom was so quiet and dark, with just the dim light from the streetlights coming through the curtains. You looked incredibly soft, breathing slow and even, without a single clue that your evening was about to completely change.

I didn't wake you up with words. I just slid onto the bed next to you and pulled the sheet down past your hips.

I poured some warm oil into my hands, rubbed my palms together, and placed them flat against the small of your back. The sudden heat made you flinch a little in your sleep, and you let out this low, groggy murmur as you started to stir.

I didn't give you time to fully wake up or ask what time it was. I just leaned my weight into you, my thumbs tracing the tight muscles along your spine, working out the tension with slow, heavy pressure.

You let out a deep, breathy sigh and buried your face deeper into the pillow, completely melting under my hands. You thought this was just a gentle, relaxing evening massage.

You were completely wrong.

I slid my hands lower, tracing the curve of your hips and moving all the way down to your knees. I kept the rhythm incredibly slow, letting the heat build until your skin was flushed and slick.

I leaned right over you, pressing my chest flat against your back, and dragged my lips along your neck. I whispered right against your ear, "Wake up. You're not done with me yet."

You let out a sharp gasp as my weight registered. Before you could even turn around, I hooked my arm under your waist to lift your hips, sliding my hand between your thighs from behind. You were already so warm and completely wet for me, your body waking up and responding way faster than your brain could catch up.

I pushed my fingers deep inside you, instantly setting a heavy, demanding rhythm that shattered the quiet room.

A loud, desperate moan hit the pillow. Your head rolled back against my shoulder, your eyes half-closed and heavy with sleep and pure arousal. You tried to shift your hips against my hand to chase a faster release, but I wrapped my other arm around your ribs, pinning you flat against the mattress.

I bit the soft skin on your shoulder and whispered, "Don't chase it. Just lie still and take my pace."

I kept going, moving in a steady, heavy rhythm, listening to the wet sounds filling the quiet room. You were vibrating, your chest heaving against the sheets, your legs shaking violently as you realized you were completely trapped under my weight.

I keep driving into you, riding right over the edge, completely ignoring your breathless cries until we are both completely spent.

I pulled the sheet right back over us, wrapping my arms around you while you drifted right back to sleep against my chest.

At some point in life we all had a taste of this dynamic and felt "i enjoyed this a lot, i liked it" and started exploring, researching and probably seeking more of it.

Mine happened when i was still dating my second girlfriend, at the time we were dating for a year and lived in neighbouring cities, which meant that we couldnt see each other very often. During summer break she came to visit for a whole week, we were both still in our 17s and were sleeping in different rooms. Every morning i would sneak into her room so we could have some private time, and i bet you can guess what a curious and horny couple are up to. We both still had our v cards, but we were always exploring, touching and learning what the other liked and what made us feel good.

On the very last day of her stay, she consentend for me to give her some oral pleasure for the first time and thats where it all began...

Being able to hear her trying to hold her moans, see her hands gripping tight on the sheets or reaching for my hair, her body squirming and moving closer for more. Until she squeezed her thighs around my head and pulled me closer by the hair, she came just like that.

When she finally released me and i got to lay on her side, she was already a sobbing mess. At first i thought i did something wrong and immediatly pulled her closer to my chest to try and giver he some consolation, but that was when she reassured me that it was alright and that she was crying because she was happy, she told me that on that very last day she felt comfortable and secure enough to let me do it and she enjoyed every moment of it.

There is a bit more to this story but in that moment i first "awakened" to be a pleasurer, all that intimacy, trust and giving that kind of joy to someone i loved and cared made me feel soo good.

So, how about you? When did you first "awakened" to this?

Hello!

I recently discovered this subreddit and I'm amazed by it, I love reading all the posts, they're super sweet and sexy.

I'm a submissive girl, I'm 18 years old, 5 ft tall (155cm), 45 kg, my hair is blond and reaches past my chest, my eyes are brown and I'm half spanish half swiss.

I'm looking for a dom or a daddy that's not too much older than me, between his 20s and his early 30s, I'm not dominant at all so I'm not very interested in switchs, I hope I can find a man who's honest, dominant, playful, sweet and who's interested in getting to know me too.

Also, if any girls (either dom or subs) want to talk to me, my dms are open too! I'm straight but I would love to talk to other women who like this dynamic.

I apologize in advance if this post is inconvenient in this subreddit, I don't use reddit much so I'm a bit clumsy with the rules (but i read them).

Thank you! 🩷

After 9.1k views in a week, we have results!

686 votes (7.5% of views)
239 (35%) identify as Male
391 (57%) identify as Female
56 (8%) identify as Non-Binary

This means that a bit over a third of users are men, with women dominating (pun intended) the men by 1.6x!

Obviously, I did not ask about trans identities or things of that nature. Similarly, I’m not sure if views are individual views or it counts duplicates (eg I’ve seen this poll 10 times, is that one view for one user or ten views?). Assuming it’s pure views, this in theory could represent a significant portion of users.

There are caveats like people who only use this community as porn or to sext are less likely to respond. Especially if we include accounts created for a day or two and then delete, or even views from users not signed in. My hypothesis is that those non-voting users skew male. Because of that, results should be taken with a grain of salt.

(Original Poll: https://www.reddit.com/r/softmaledom/s/giTASbK2Pe)