u/AMG1206

easily one of the topics which are forgotten, neglected, not spoken about enough. I saw a post today on reddit which actually talked about aftercare and It was so refreshing to see this topic being addressed.

today, when everyone's main focus is sex and related activities, where pleasure is placed above feelings, emotions, wellbeing of a partner, etc, its so easy to forget that aftercare can sometimes be more important that the act itself. its human nature to have messed up emotions where they are all over the place, alot of people can feel extremely emotional and cry, other's can feel low, especially subs who have been so vulnerable for the entire act.

at that moment, it can feel so beautiful as a dom to just hold her, cuddle her, caress her, tell her how amazing, adorable, and warm she is. how much I enjoy my time with her and how good she is at pleasing me. how she makes me so happy and what a good girl she is.

the act can be as simple as bringing her a glass of water or something that I like to do is bring her a cup of iced coffee :)

its really not something specific that works for everyone. every sub is different and its okay to ask her what she would like. but the important thing is being there for her, emotionally. giving her the safe, comfortable space to let out her emotions and actually feel like she's taken care of.

older, married women, who arent really happy with their husband or are looking for some enthusiasm in their sex life really deserve a younger guy who can actually keep up with their needs and urges.

I never really paid attention to this feeling that much but scrolling through reddit and reading stories turned me on and made me realise how much I find older women (possibly mothers) who still have a fun and active sex life. just the sheer thought of how much experience they carry and how mature and forgiving they can be. the thought of pleasuring someone like that, being at her service.

I regularly crave a connection thats comforting, sensual, passionate and which brings me and my partner calm. I imagine us cuddling and us holding each other so tightly that we both feel each other's warmth.

I'd honestly love to chat about it, I'm feeling kinda low and would love some company

since the time I discovered what freeuse is, what the dynamic looks like, i have always had this idea that if a two people were to adopt this dynamic, it shouldn't be limited to one partner.

I have always felt that freeuse should be bi-directional, giving both the partners the liberty to use the other as a little toy for their own pleasure. I have always fantasised about my girl catching me using my phone and would gently take my phone and keep it aside and just plant herself on my face and straddle it and grind on my tongue and tell me that this is a much better use of my time. and then some day I get a chance to extract my revenge and get what I need from her.

im really looking forward to hearing your views on this dynamic :)

the devotion, the desperation, the sheer greed for pleasure i crave to see in my sub, my precious. I come home to her, telling her how i was thinking of her all day, how she hasn't left my mind.

I want her to feel the way I felt, I want her to crave me the way I craved her all day. I want to let her show her desperation and cravings to me. before we ever fuck, I would spread out my leg and let her straddle it, grind on it, put her hands on me and feel daddy on her bare pussy. feel his love, feel his care and warmth. say "thank you daddy" as you grind on daddy's thigh.

my precious girl.