u/AMG1206

I have always carried this feeling with myself and it was just about now that I decided to put it to words which i find difficult sometimes, putting my feelings into words.

i have always felt a sense of pleasure in making my partner feel pleasured, desired, wanted and loved. I've never bothered to give it a name, I liked the feeling and that was it. I had told my previous partner that I liked being at their service but that wasnt exactly what it was. what I liked was taking the responsibility of my partner's pleasure. her desires and her cravings.

i just absolutely love seeing my partner enjoying herself to the things I do to her, I love that she trusts me enough to have handed over the responsibility of her pleasure to me. I feel like im honoured to provide her with pleasure and honestly just seeing my partner satisfied and fulfilled lights up a spark in me and gives me a thrill that cannot be described in words.

the cravings i feel to just sit between her legs and kiss her pussy and eat her properly, without rushing it, initiating giving oral and being passionate about it. bringing her a cup of coffee or a glass of wine as aftercare, after an intense session, not just physically but mentally.

I never really paid attention to this feeling that much but scrolling through reddit and reading stories turned me on and made me realise how much I find older women (possibly mothers) who still have a fun and active sex life. just the sheer thought of how much experience they carry and how mature and forgiving they can be. the thought of pleasuring someone like that, being at her service.

I regularly crave a connection thats comforting, sensual, passionate and which brings me and my partner calm. I imagine us cuddling and us holding each other so tightly that we both feel each other's warmth.

I'd honestly love to chat about it, I'm feeling kinda low and would love some company

i recently was browsing through reddit and I noticed how these sex clips, gifs that are being posted on various subreddits have gotten more and more hardcore, rough and fast. I dont think this is a new problem in the adult film industry but seeing them on a subreddit like this one, thats new.

and it feels so wrong, it feels like taking out the one thing that makes it special, EMOTIONS! and replacing it with performative and visually appealing aspects which are only good for driving the adult film industry business and nothing else.

men and women are naturally sexual beings. craving a good, hard fuck is not what im against. I choose my words very carefully when i write "its not pleasurable in most scenarios". it definitely can be. im sure we can agree that we would want someone to pounce at us out of raw sexual desire.

what im against is the standards that have been set that it should be rough and hard and fast. why? why cant it be slow and loving and simply beautiful. not caring about how one looks but caring about how it feels.

people have been so desensitised, they have adopted standards that simply do not exist in the real world. why are people being robbed of the fun of enjoying the one most naturally beautiful activity that helps two human beings bonds on a level that cannot be put to words.

sex is indeed a beautiful, natural process and it shouldve been celebrated in its truest form instead of being commercialised. every aspect of it is so deeply optimised to look good.

I believe that the best sex is when you and your partner agree to not be performative, when you agree to communicate at every point. you dont care about the way you look or the way you taste or the sounds you make.

the best sex is when you dont change a single thing or try to change a single thing about the kind of person you are in bed.

that doesnt mean dont try to learn and get better over time but the physical aspects, the things you feel insecure about, the things you change in order to be someone who you're not.

I have made a habit out of kissing those parts of her first which she feels insecure about. and kissing them alot. complimenting the way she tastes, the way it smells. complimenting the way her pussy looks, doesnt matter if its bushy or bald.

i recently was browsing through reddit and I noticed how these sex clips, gifs that are being posted on various subreddits have gotten more and more hardcore, rough and fast. I dont think this is a new problem in the adult film industry but seeing them on a subreddit like this one, thats new.

and it feels so wrong, it feels like taking out the one thing that makes it special, EMOTIONS! and replacing it with performative and visually appealing aspects which are only good for driving the adult film industry business and nothing else.

men and women are naturally sexual beings. craving a good, hard fuck is not what im against. I choose my words very carefully when i write "its not pleasurable in most scenarios". it definitely can be. im sure we can agree that we would want someone to pounce at us out of raw sexual desire.

what im against is the standards that have been set that it should be rough and hard and fast. why? why cant it be slow and loving and simply beautiful. not caring about how one looks but caring about how it feels.

people have been so desensitised, they have adopted standards that simply do not exist in the real world. why are people being robbed of the fun of enjoying the one most naturally beautiful activity that helps two human beings bonds on a level that cannot be put to words.

sex is indeed a beautiful, natural process and it shouldve been celebrated in its truest form instead of being commercialised. every aspect of it is so deeply optimised to look good.

I believe that the best sex is when you and your partner agree to not be performative, when you agree to communicate at every point. you dont care about the way you look or the way you taste or the sounds you make.

the best sex is when you dont change a single thing or try to change a single thing about the kind of person you are in bed.

that doesnt mean dont try to learn and get better over time but the physical aspects, the things you feel insecure about, the things you change in order to be someone who you're not.

I have made a habit out of kissing those parts of her first which she feels insecure about. and kissing them alot. complimenting the way she tastes, the way it smells. complimenting the way her pussy looks, doesnt matter if its bushy or bald.

I recently saw a video on r/softmaledom and it inspired me, it reminded me that jackhammering is simply glorified by the p*rn industry, for its visual appeal and nothing else. that video reminded me that its not important to move in a way thats visually pleasing but moving in a way that feels right is what's really important.

slowly slipping inside of her, balls deep and moving my hips, grinding into her in a way so that the tip rubs off and reaches her juiciest, most senstive spots, all while kissing her with the raw passion that flows through my veins everytime I see her. our bodies so in sync that it almost feels like a tidal wave. and then, when we both are ready, we let our human selves go and tap into the most primal parts of ourselves and see where the high takes us.

if you've reached this far then I want to thank you, I would love to hear from you about your thoughts :)

I never really paid attention to this feeling that much but scrolling through reddit and reading stories turned me on and made me realise how much I find older women (possibly mothers) who still have a fun and active sex life. just the sheer thought of how much experience they carry and how mature and forgiving they can be. the thought of pleasuring someone like that, being at her service.

I regularly crave a connection thats comforting, sensual, passionate and which brings me and my partner calm. I imagine us cuddling and us holding each other so tightly that we both feel each other's warmth.

I'd honestly love to chat about it, I'm feeling kinda low and would love some company

i recently was browsing through reddit and I noticed how these sex clips, gifs that are being posted on various subreddits have gotten more and more hardcore, rough and fast. I dont think this is a new problem in the adult film industry but seeing them on a subreddit like this one, thats new.

and it feels so wrong, it feels like taking out the one thing that makes it special, EMOTIONS! and replacing it with performative and visually appealing aspects which are only good for driving the adult film industry business and nothing else.

men and women are naturally sexual beings. craving a good, hard fuck is not what im against. I choose my words very carefully when i write "its not pleasurable in most scenarios". it definitely can be. im sure we can agree that we would want someone to pounce at us out of raw sexual desire.

what im against is the standards that have been set that it should be rough and hard and fast. why? why cant it be slow and loving and simply beautiful. not caring about how one looks but caring about how it feels.

people have been so desensitised, they have adopted standards that simply do not exist in the real world. why are people being robbed of the fun of enjoying the one most naturally beautiful activity that helps two human beings bonds on a level that cannot be put to words.

sex is indeed a beautiful, natural process and it shouldve been celebrated in its truest form instead of being commercialised. every aspect of it is so deeply optimised to look good.

I believe that the best sex is when you and your partner agree to not be performative, when you agree to communicate at every point. you dont care about the way you look or the way you taste or the sounds you make.

the best sex is when you dont change a single thing or try to change a single thing about the kind of person you are in bed.

that doesnt mean dont try to learn and get better over time but the physical aspects, the things you feel insecure about, the things you change in order to be someone who you're not.

I have made a habit out of kissing those parts of her first which she feels insecure about. and kissing them alot. complimenting the way she tastes, the way it smells. complimenting the way her pussy looks, doesnt matter if its bushy or bald.

I recently saw a video on r/softmaledom and it inspired me, it reminded me that jackhammering is simply glorified by the p*rn industry, for its visual appeal and nothing else. that video reminded me that its not important to move in a way thats visually pleasing but moving in a way that feels right is what's really important.

slowly slipping inside of her, balls deep and moving my hips, grinding into her in a way so that the tip rubs off and reaches her juiciest, most senstive spots, all while kissing her with the raw passion that flows through my veins everytime I see her. our bodies so in sync that it almost feels like a tidal wave. and then, when we both are ready, we let our human selves go and tap into the most primal parts of ourselves and see where the high takes us.

if you've reached this far then I want to thank you, I would love to hear from you about your thoughts :)

I recently joined a serious, on site 6 month long internship and it is basically a full time job. I have been working with dedication and achieving my targets. I barely have time for myself. I barely have time to play with myself and explore like I used to. it kills me and also, for some reason, makes me feel alot more turned on than usual.

I had time to channel my sexual energy, in some way or the other, now I dont. I have all this pent up energy flowing through my veins, waiting to be released but I dont want to release it. I want to channel it. I want to feel it and share it with someone. someone facing similar things, someone who understands. if you try to get to know me through my posts, you will understand how much in touch I was with my sexuality. I want to feel that again without releasing this energy, essentially wasting it away, no.

would love to hear your thoughts on the same. you people are genuinely amazing and I hope to hear from you. if you have made it this far, it doesnt matter if you reach out, I thank you anyway, have a great dayyy :)

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I recently saw a video on r/softmaledom and it inspired me, it reminded me that jackhammering is simply glorified by the p*rn industry, for its visual appeal and nothing else. that video reminded me that its not important to move in a way thats visually pleasing but moving in a way that feels right is what's really important.

slowly slipping inside of her, balls deep and moving my hips, grinding into her in a way so that the tip rubs off and reaches her juiciest, most senstive spots, all while kissing her with the raw passion that flows through my veins everytime I see her. our bodies so in sync that it almost feels like a tidal wave. and then, when we both are ready, we let our human selves go and tap into the most primal parts of ourselves and see where the high takes us.

if you've reached this far then I want to thank you, I would love to hear from you about your thoughts, (just as a fun fact, im in the office right now and feeling extremely naughtyyy)

I never really paid attention to this feeling that much but scrolling through reddit and reading stories turned me on and made me realise how much I find older women (possibly mothers) who still have a fun and active sex life. just the sheer thought of how much experience they carry and how mature and forgiving they can be. the thought of pleasuring someone like that, being at her service.

I regularly crave a connection thats comforting, sensual, passionate and which brings me and my partner calm. I imagine us cuddling and us holding each other so tightly that we both feel each other's warmth.

I'd honestly love to chat about it, I'm feeling kinda low and would love some company

I recently saw a video on r/softmaledom and it inspired me, it reminded me that jackhammering is simply glorified by the p*rn industry, for its visual appeal and nothing else. that video reminded me that its not important to move in a way thats visually pleasing but moving in a way that feels right is what's really important.

​

slowly slipping inside of her, balls deep and moving my hips, grinding into her in a way so that the tip rubs off and reaches her juiciest, most senstive spots, all while kissing her with the raw passion that flows through my veins everytime I see her. our bodies so in sync that it almost feels like a tidal wave. and then, when we both are ready, we let our human selves go and tap into the most primal parts of ourselves and see where the high takes us.

​

if you've reached this far then I want to thank you, I would love to hear from you about your thoughts :)

I recently saw a video on r/softmaledom and it inspired me, it reminded me that jackhammering is simply glorified by the p*rn industry, for its visual appeal and nothing else. that video reminded me that its not important to move in a way thats visually pleasing but moving in a way that feels right is what's really important.

​

slowly slipping inside of her, balls deep and moving my hips, grinding into her in a way so that the tip rubs off and reaches her juiciest, most senstive spots, all while kissing her with the raw passion that flows through my veins everytime I see her. our bodies so in sync that it almost feels like a tidal wave. and then, when we both are ready, we let our human selves go and tap into the most primal parts of ourselves and see where the high takes us.

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if you've reached this far then I want to thank you, I would love to hear from you about your thoughts :)

I regularly workout and sometimes it can be really intense which is normal for anyone who works out. but on those days after im done and back home, I feel so insanely feral and wild and "playful" haha. I see myself all sweaty, worked up and still catching my breath and i feel so primal. I crave having someone who's in a similar state, sweating and needy. I cannot help but imagine how feral and raw post workout play can be.

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I'd honestly love hearing some other perspective on this.

I recently saw a video on r/softmaledom and it inspired me, it reminded me that jackhammering is simply glorified by the p*rn industry, for its visual appeal and nothing else. that video reminded me that its not important to move in a way thats visually pleasing but moving in a way that feels right is what's really important.

​

slowly slipping inside of her, balls deep and moving my hips, grinding into her in a way so that the tip rubs off and reaches her juiciest, most senstive spots, all while kissing her with the raw passion that flows through my veins everytime I see her. our bodies so in sync that it almost feels like a tidal wave. and then, when we both are ready, we let our human selves go and tap into the most primal parts of ourselves and see where the high takes us.

​

if you've reached this far then I want to thank you, I would love to hear from you about your thoughts :)

I never really paid attention to this feeling that much but scrolling through reddit and reading stories turned me on and made me realise how much I find older women (possibly mothers) who still have a fun and active sex life. just the sheer thought of how much experience they carry and how mature and forgiving they can be. the thought of pleasuring someone like that, being at her service.

​

I regularly crave a connection thats comforting, sensual, passionate and which brings me and my partner calm. I imagine us cuddling and us holding each other so tightly that we both feel each other's warmth.

​

I'd honestly love to chat about it, I'm feeling kinda low and would love some company

I recently saw a video on r/softmaledom and it inspired me, it reminded me that jackhammering is simply glorified by the p*rn industry, for its visual appeal and nothing else. that video reminded me that its not important to move in a way thats visually pleasing but moving in a way that feels right is what's really important.

​

slowly slipping inside of her, balls deep and moving my hips, grinding into her in a way so that the tip rubs off and reaches her juiciest, most senstive spots, all while kissing her with the raw passion that flows through my veins everytime I see her. our bodies so in sync that it almost feels like a tidal wave. and then, when we both are ready, we let our human selves go and tap into the most primal parts of ourselves and see where the high takes us.

​

if you've reached this far then I want to thank you, I would love to hear from you about your thoughts :)

I never really paid attention to this feeling that much but scrolling through reddit and reading stories turned me on and made me realise how much I find older women (possibly mothers) who still have a fun and active sex life. just the sheer thought of how much experience they carry and how mature and forgiving they can be. the thought of pleasuring someone like that, being at her service.

I regularly crave a connection thats comforting, sensual, passionate and which brings me and my partner calm. I imagine us cuddling and us holding each other so tightly that we both feel each other's warmth.

I'd honestly love to chat about it, I'm feeling kinda low and would love some company

I never really paid attention to this feeling that much but scrolling through reddit and reading stories turned me on and made me realise how much I find older women (possibly mothers) who still have a fun and active sex life. just the sheer thought of how much experience they carry and how mature and forgiving they can be. the thought of pleasuring someone like that, being at her service.

​

I regularly crave a connection thats comforting, sensual, passionate and which brings me and my partner calm. I imagine us cuddling and us holding each other so tightly that we both feel each other's warmth.

​

I'd honestly love to chat about it, I'm feeling kinda low and would love some company

I never really paid attention to this feeling that much but scrolling through reddit and reading stories turned me on and made me realise how much I find older women (possibly mothers) who still have a fun and active sex life. just the sheer thought of how much experience they carry and how mature and forgiving they can be. the thought of pleasuring someone like that, being at her service.

​

I regularly crave a connection thats comforting, sensual, passionate and which brings me and my partner calm. I imagine us cuddling and us holding each other so tightly that we both feel each other's warmth.

​

I'd honestly love to chat about it, I'm feeling kinda low and would love some company