Ann Arbor (A2) - T4F - In search of a F or FM couple for a dynamic of sorts that is relaxed, local, and chill ^ - ^ | I'm free most evenings after 8:30ish || NO SOLO MEN - I repeat NO SOLO MEN ||
I'm a trans woman who has been married for 13+ years and on hormone replacement therapy for just as long. My wife is my best friend and we have been ethically non-monogamous with parallel partners since before we got together. She knows that I am making this post, no she does not wish to participate (but may want to meet at some point if a more long-term thing between us takes root).
Over the years most of our friends and partners have moved away for work or family reasons. Life be what it is, ya know?
- I was asked recently what I'm into and what kind of lover I am in bed. I like to think this might help give an idea..
>...Whatever feels appropriate in the moment. If you're into it, so am I. I have a tendency of "adopting" the preferences of who I'm playing with, because the greater their pleasure, the greater my own. The energy of the situation feeds into itself and snowballs with intensity.
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>I will want to nibble on your ear, breathe out hot breath on the nape of your neck, and tenderly but firmly sink my teeth into you and listen for that involuntary gasp from as you briefly short-circuit.
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>I would want to learn your non-verbal communication. How you involuntarily respond/react to my touch and stimulation. I want to learn your rhythm to match it, how you communicate a yes while my tongue is against your clit, How you ask.. no how you beg for more. How you shift to say "no not quite that" etc.. I want to listen to the sound of your breathing, listen for the subtle gasps, and while I'm going down on you, closely pay attention for tensed up moment when you involuntarily hold your breath as you're nearing climax... then finally thrust into you as you're mid orgasm.
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That communication puzzle is the closest thing to a consistent "kink" that I have. It is a puzzle that fascinates me because it has no permanent solution. It is a puzzle that requires observation as it's solution changes over the course of several hours.
Respecting consent, boundaries, and making sure everyone involved is comfortable and enjoying themselves are all paramount to me. I'm an open book and there is genuinely no such thing as TMI to me lol. Also, please don't worry about "using the right/wrong words." You would have to be overtly going out of your way trying to be actively malicious in order to upset/offend me.
Here to have fun, make new friends, and enjoy the time together that we make for ourselves with genuine sincerity
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