r/virginr4r

20M, straight, 5’9, about 83kg so I look slightly overweight, and I’m based in the Midlands and commuting to Liverpool for university. I’m looking to meet a woman around 20–30 who’d be comfortable helping me have my first sexual experience.

I’ve never had any kind of romantic or sexual intimacy. A lot of that comes from being self conscious about my lack of experience, which has made it difficult to put myself out there in the first place. I’m hoping to break that cycle in an environment where I don’t have to pretend to be more experienced than I am.

I’m open to someone experienced or someone who’s figuring things out themselves. I’m also open to whatever develops between us — if we click and something more comes from it, I’d be happy to see where it goes — but I want to be upfront that my main reason for being here is to lose my virginity.
I’d like to take things at a comfortable pace and actually get to know each other first. I’m looking for someone kind, patient and understanding rather than someone who expects me to know what I’m doing.

A little about me: I love physics, play guitar, enjoy films and gaming, and I love cooking, although it gets a bit expensive when I buy completely new ingredients for a meal I know I’ll only make once.
I can’t host, but I’m very willing to travel. If neither of us can host, I’m also happy to arrange and pay for a hotel, so distance doesn’t necessarily have to be an issue.

I’m genuinely nervous about putting this out there, but I want to push myself outside my comfort zone and finally do something about the anxiety that’s held me back. If you’re interested, I’d much rather talk and see if we get along than rush into anything.

Looking to lose it, maybe to someone experienced or not. Very shy and I wouldn't be able to host. I like older women but that doesn't mean I don't like women my age. Hit me up if ur interested. Im a male who's 5'7, approx 125lb, brown hair and brown eyes. No preference on looks really but I do look Asians/goth's. Although who am I to say what I like when I have no experience. I am Hispanic, and own 3 cats if that's something. Wouldn't say I'm looking for a relationship but who knows, maybe there is a connection. I wouldn't say I'm fit but not overweight, I'm in a weird in between.

Soooooo As the title says, I'm looking for my first. Help a guy out?

Little bit about me: I'm 25, 6ft tall and 70kg, not muscular but not fat either. Long brown hair. I live alone with my cat. I'm pretty laid back and enjoy a nice smoke 🍃 I work 5 days a week (sometimes Saturdays too) as an office manager but have a lot of free time after 5pm. I enjoy making models of all sorts though im not great at painting them, walking out in nature and sometimes a little bit of ttrpg if I can find people to play with. I have a strong sense of justice and a strict idea of whats right and wrong though I judge myself more than others. Lastly I'm a huge lover of cats! If youve got one feel free to show off

Beggars cant be choosers but If I could be I'd be looking for someone white and shorter than me who can keep up in convo and walking pace

I'd like to get to know you first rather than rushing into anything so we can both make sure we're comfortable and happy If you're a kind and patient person willing to lend a hand drop me a dm with a little about yourself.

Been looking to lose my virginity for a while now. I’ll admit I was a bit nervous at first and would like somebody who is willing to be patient and not rush things.

I would like this to turn into an FWB situation but that’s not a priority at the moment. But having someone regular would be great to kind of learn and get the hang of things.

I am somebody who aims to please and would say I’m somebody is a keen on giving as much as I am receiving.

It turns me on to know the girl I’m with is turned on so I’m willing to go down on you haha. I wanna get good at eating pussy so maybe that is something you could teach me.

I don’t have any strict preferences. I don’t have any racial preferences but I am south asian so a south asian girl would be nice. Having said that, I’m attracted to all types of ethnicities and races. I am into more slim/skinnier girls but don’t feel scared to msg regardless haha.

I’m pretty picky on who I want to be my first time but I’m also very open minded so if this post sounds like a bit of you then don’t hesitate to msg because we may hit it off.

I’m very down to earth and bubbly and I can yap for days so it’s important to me we have good chemistry inside and outside the bedroom.

In terms of stats - broad shoulders, black hair, light brown skin, brown eyes. I am 5 foot 8 and about 100Kg

I’m an 18 year old male from a really small town and would like to lose my virginity. I don’t much mind if you’re experienced or not just please be kind. For looks I’m around 6ft tall and 200lbs as well as a ginger. I’m not too picky on appearance but I ask you not to be under 5ft tall, as well as not overweight or underweight in any extreme fashion. Please do not message me if you are older than 45. I would also like the drive to not be too much considering gas is expensive. I’m currently in college for engineering and am pretty socially awkward at times when in person. I do have a job in construction at the moment and love science and all things nerdy. If I had to use one word to describe myself it would be nerd. I also love being in nature and experiencing things like that. I’ve lived around nature my whole life and absolutely love things like bugs and snakes.

Hi, I’m 166cm, 62KG black girl. I’ve had really strict parents growing up and i feel like i’ve missed out in a lot of things because of them. Now that they allowed me to move out for Uni, i’m thinking on losing my virginity since i’m literally the only person in my friend group that hasn’t been in a relationship. So before uni starts i’m hoping to lose it.
I’m looking for someone in their 20s, I’m not attracted to overweight guys, height has to be same height or taller, i hate facial hair, i dont have any preference for ethnicity i do love lots of cultures so please do tell me where you’re from.
If you message me on a new account or account with barely any contributions or karma, i might not reply.
So for your first message please put your age, height, weight, ethnicity and whereabouts your from and include stuff about yourself.

I'm hoping we can chat on here a bit discussing what we both like, then meet up for drinks or a meal. Would love for someone wanting to take control of another guy's first time or for another virgin to fumble about with, without any judgements as we explore each other and our pent up desires.

I'm more than happy to exchange pics, I'm 5ft 7" and 72kg, I've been going to the gym fairly consistently for 3 years so I'm pretty muscular and toned. I would say I'm pretty well put together just terribly shy when flirting or showing my interest with women in real life.

I'm looking for someone fairly slim and/or fit but just a preference and I don't have any preference on height so don't mind taller at all.

I'm also a massive gamer and love fantasy/sci-fi shows so if you're into that too then let me know what your favourite games are!

I’m staying in Dresden until late August, and want to lose my virginity.

I’m 1.87 m, under 80 kg and quite fit. Personality wise, I’m introverted, rather intelligent and I think of myself as a kind person. I’m a university student in the UK and visiting a friend of mine who’s working in Dresden. I love reading, mostly history/economics books, and watching series occasionally. It might take a little bit to get close with me, but once we’re there we’ll likely have a great time.

I’ve had quite a bit of sexual experiences before but circumstances didn’t allow me to go all the way.

I’m looking for a woman under 35. You shouldn’t be overweight, but the whole range from skinny to curvy is fine, and height doesn’t matter either. I’d prefer you not to be pierced/tattooed but I don’t have a problem with a couple of tattoos.

I hope you understand the nervousness of the moment and can give me a comfortable good time, and I’ll try to return the favour :)

(Please read fully.) I don't know what I'm doing. Shy/Nervous about this stuff. I'm just frustrated at this point. Quiet. Kinda tall 6'3-4. 280lbs. (Probably eliminated my chances there. Small as they were anyway.) Just lonely. Kind of depressed. I don't expect anything. Yes,I'm a loser. Feel free to laugh,I guess. If you are Lonely too,maybe we can help each other,I dunno. What I'm looking for: I don't care what you look like very much. Just be a kind and clean woman,I suppose. I don't care if you are older. I'm kinda heavy,I don't care if you are on the bigger side too. Listen,I'm really not great socially. I'm trying,but if you decide to message (It is very much appreciated) please don't ask me for Discord,Telegram or whatever else. I don't have money,that's not what this was about. I also have no interest in couples. Whatever you do is your business and I'm happy for ya'. But,I'm on the shy/nervous as a chihuahua in a thunderstorm type guy. I still don't think I have a shot but,please. Nothing too crazy? Just...Single females,please? I just wanted a nice time with someone understands this frustration. I dunno. This is difficult for me. Oh,yeah. If it wasn't already obvious I'm probably not very attractive,either. (I don't really have any inkling as to whether I am,or not. Going to assume not. You are probably better off assuming that too,I guess. Just trying to be honest.) I might actually just be a waste of fuckin' time. I might remove this soon. It's making me feel alot worse actually. Maybe,I should give up. What's the point?

Hey! Figured I’d throw this out there and see what happens.

I’m 23, a pretty nerdy/goofy guy who tends to make dumb jokes at the worst possible times. I am Caucasian, tall at 6ft, slim fit build, 185 pounds, and brown hair. I’m into gaming, random YouTube rabbit holes, movies, and generally just geeking out over whatever happens to catch my attention. I’m definitely more of a laid-back, genuine person than someone who takes himself super seriously.

I’m also a virgin. Honestly, I’m not ashamed of it, but I’d really like to change that and have my first experience with someone I actually click with rather than just rushing into it with a random person.

Ideally I’d like to meet someone who’s easygoing, patient, and can laugh at herself (because I will absolutely make some terrible joke when I’m nervous 😂). I’m not expecting some perfect movie moment — I’d rather it be comfortable, mutual, and something we’re both actually excited about. I'm cool with women older than me too and body type isn't a concern, just give me some details and we'll go from there!

If you think we might get along, feel free to send me a message. Tell me a little about yourself and maybe your favorite nerdy/embarrassing obsession. Bonus points if you can make me laugh.

Worst case, we have a conversation with a stranger on Reddit. Best case, maybe we hit it off. 🤷‍♂️

26 in October but spent the full time since COVID in a job that I'm lucky to get 1 weekend off a year with. Pretty introverted too so its not been the best for any form of in person social life. 2 biggest topics I can chat all day about is history and motorcylces.Physically I'm 6 feet weigh around 80kg. Fairly average though I do hit the gym when I can. Brown hair, blue eyes and white.

As to what Im looking for is someone who can teach me how to please first in case my stamina is pretty bad. When it come to physicality I will admit haven't had enough experience to develop any preferences yet so happy with anything.

Distance is not a real limit for me, I can travel pretty far in the UK but would need fair warning to book some time off so closer is preferable. Live in the central belt of Scotland.

Posting this because its a big cause of anxiety for me whenever I try to put myself out there more.

Any questions feel free to fire off. Thanks.

24M, 5’9”, around 170 lbs, in the DFW area. I’m pretty shy and a little nervous when meeting someone new. I’m definitely an introvert, but once I get comfortable, I open up a lot and can be a complete goofball 😂

What I’m looking for: Ideally a woman around my age or older. I don’t have a super strict physical type, mutual attraction matters more to me. I’m more interested in someone who’s clean, patient, understanding, and naturally confident, especially someone who doesn’t mind taking the lead while I get comfortable.

I’ll be upfront, I’m not very confident when it comes to sex and I can get in my head about it. I’m hoping to meet a woman who’s patient, understanding, and won’t make me feel awkward about being nervous or inexperienced.

I’d rather talk and get comfortable first instead of immediately jumping into anything. Mutual attraction and feeling safe around each other matter a lot to me.

I’m laid-back, respectful, and clean. Someone who’s naturally confident and doesn’t mind taking the lead a little would probably be a really good match for me.

I’m open to something one-time or ongoing if we genuinely click.
Mainly, I just want a comfortable, judgment-free experience with someone I can relax around.

If you’re in DFW and interested, message me and tell me a little about yourself. I’m down to exchange pics/verify once we’re both comfortable.