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29 [M4F] [Georgia/Alabama] Older virgin still looking

Hello, I’m a 29 year old virgin who just moved to Georgia right by the Alabama border. I’m 5’8” and 190 pounds (lost a lot of weight and still losing), and Asian.

Looking for anyone who is willing to help me out, and also interested in any relationship as well. I prefer someone who is my age (23-36) and someone who is in better shape (sorry not into BBWs), but will talk to anyone in the area.

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u/-tripleu — 2 days ago

19 [M4F] [Queens, NYC] - teach a college virgin all he needs to know for college women ;)

Hi there! I’m a 6’1 200lbs 19 year old virgin in Queens. I try to stay fit, DDF, willing to share pics, and a switch.

I’d prefer a woman, from any background, ethnicity, around my age. I’d prefer the girl to be a virgin or inexperienced as well and Asian (South, Southeast, and East). I also prefer someone of a fit/chubby body type! (sorry for those who are on the larger side…)

However I am open to any and all ages and races! I’m home for the summer from college and I’d like to gain as much experience as I can.

If you read this fully, send the word coconut somewhere in your message.

Hope to talk to any of you gals soon!

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u/No-Championship-776 — 3 days ago

33 [M4F] [NYC] - Looking to lose my virginity

I’m a 33-year-old guy who’s reached a point where I’d rather build one meaningful relationship than spend time chasing casual encounters. I’ve never been in a relationship, and yes—I’m still a virgin. That’s never been because I wasn’t interested in love or intimacy. Life just unfolded differently, and I’ve always believed those experiences would be more meaningful with someone I genuinely care about.
I’m kind, loyal, patient, and a good listener. I enjoy getting to know people through long conversations, sharing laughs, trying new restaurants, watching movies, gaming, being outdoors, and simply enjoying each other’s company. I’m the type of person who values honesty, respect, communication, and emotional connection.
I’m not looking for perfection, and I’m not expecting someone to “fix” me. I’m simply hoping to meet a woman who’s open-minded, compassionate, and interested in building something real at a comfortable pace. If you’re someone who appreciates sincerity over games, enjoys deep conversations, and believes that everyone has their own unique timeline, I think we’d get along well.
My lack of relationship experience doesn’t define me—it’s just one part of my story. What I can offer is genuine effort, loyalty, affection, and a willingness to grow together. If you’re looking for someone who’s ready to invest in a real partnership and see where it leads, I’d love to hear from you.
Tell me something about yourself—what you’re passionate about, your favorite way to spend a weekend, or something that always makes you smile. Maybe this is the start of something special. I’m 6’3 tall, weigh 253 lbs, I have a preference for white/caucasian women but I’m open to all ethnicities since I’m Hispanic, half Peruvian, half Dominican. If you want to be my life partner, please message me I’ll reply to you as soon as I can, thanks :)

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u/gman18977 — 4 days ago

24[f4m][scotland UK] shy girl looking to lose virginity

Im very shy and introverted I’ve never had a boyfriend been very closed off to my sexuality and masturbation for years now I’m getting horny all the time touching myself and it feels so good I’m still shy but ready to not be a virgin anymore I’m very open minded for sex and kinks for my first time

I’m 24 5ft slim around 40kg small chest I don’t have a preference on how you look I like beard and moustaches but clean shaven is cute too I don’t mind if you’re a bit taller or much taller than me weight doesn’t matter either I just want someone that been in a similar place to me and is shy but opens up after chatting for a while

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u/curious-pickle78 — 8 days ago

6ft 27 [M4F] [London] looking for fun and connection to lose my v

dm me for pictures of myself

I am a 6ft 1, 74kg man looking for a woman.
I like Caucasian women and Asian women but those are not set in stone, I’m mostly attracted to blondies.
Physical preference wise I do like curvy women as well as fit women but I find a combination of both to be most attractive.

Looking for a woman who’s kind and confident in leading as I have no experience, and I’m sure it’ll lead to a pleasurable experience.

I’ve recently joined the dating pool and I’ve got likes on tinder and stuff but nothing happening immediately.

I recently lost 20kg and my testosterone has shot up so I do have a high sex drive (feels like it anyway lol) and I want to have fun and safe experiences. Ideally if we hit it off then I’d like to continue having future sexual experiences with the same women.

I like younger and older women, don’t hesitate to DM me, you’ll find that I’m a chill caring man who has a naughty side to him.

i cannot host as I don’t have my own place as you know London is London.

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u/UnitedCollection8657 — 7 days ago

22 [M4F][NYC]

A bit about me physically, I’m 6’2” 170ish athletic build I can show pictures in chat. A little bit about me like to watch NY sports, go out with friends, golf, spend time outside, watch F1. I’m looking for someone to connect with and see where things go. I prefer someone with a more slender build and is athletic like myself.

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u/Visible_Passage9563 — 8 days ago
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19 [M4F][Bay, Cali] - here for the summer

I just want to see what does the bay have to offer ;)

I’m in the bay, specifically sunnyvale, this summer and I’ve been wanting to find people to explore my kinks with. thought to put this out there anyways and see what happens.

I am down for any age just have to be physically attracted and get some chemistry so let’s seee how we hit it off! Ideally someone who has experience and is more than willing to help a young college stud!

abt me: 6’2 atheltic build, around 200 lbs, and overall dom but switch, punjabi

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u/Smileistaken — 10 days ago

25 [M4F] [Cali] [inland empire]

Hello friends,
Am white/asian but mainly white physically, 6’2 and slim build. I’ve never been in a relationship and have no experience beyond kissing. Having someone with experience would be nice, but I wouldn’t mind learning alongside someone else new. I am unable to host but can drive and we can figure out where to meet.
Besides all that, I am in nursing school and I love sleeping, anime, gaming (lol, Siege, Rocket league are my top games atm)

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u/IoriginalthrowawayI — 10 days ago

29[M4A][Central Florida]Looking for first time

Hello, I'm in polk county and looking for my first time. I'm planning on going to a brothel next month to accomplish the goal before my birthday, but if anyone else is closer that wants to help out or trade v cards, that would be better and cheaper. I'm black, chubby, 6'2, 295 pounds, and into things like bowling, swimming, video games, movies, and I'm writing a book at the moment. I'm looking for someone that is ideally nerdy and on the taller side. Also has a good sense of humor. No preference when it comes to skin or weight. Feel free to message me and ask anything.

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u/PuzzleheadedWonder — 10 days ago

25 [M4F] #Dublin, Ireland/#Online - Irish lad looking for his "craicner"

Hi everyone my name is Tom and I'm 25 years old and I'm from Ireland. I have recently graduated from college with a chemistry degree. I am also a triplet.

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My hobbies are video games, chess, reading, playing badminton, watching YouTube and listening to music. I also like sci fi, Marvel and DC. I also enjoy travelling across Europe and visiting the capital cities. I've visited 16 countries and plan on visiting more in the future. I have also been to America and Canada. I also enjoy skiing.

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I am single and looking for a woman who likes the same things as me and around my age. Great if you're from Ireland but I'm open to Europe and the United States. I am into brunettes and women with a healthy BMI. In particular, I am into Caucasians and East Asians. I am am looking for someone who doesn't have any tattoos or piercings and I don't mind glasses. My ideal height is someone between 5'3 and 5'8.

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u/Adept_Surprise8267 — 11 days ago

27[M4F][Poland][EU] shy guy looking to explore intimacy

Hello.

I'll start with why. I've always been very shy and didn't make new friends easy. As such so far I've missed out on intimacy. For a long time I haven't thought about it and it didn't bother me, but recently it changed. I feel like it's been long enough and I want to get over that hurdle, because it feels like, if I don't, I won't be able to do it naturally.

So here I am. I'd like to meet someone to explore intimacy with and eventually lose my virginity. I'd prefer someone without experience as well but it's not a deal breaker. I want to talk first as I don't want it to just be a simple transaction.

I'm looking for someone kind and curious. I don't have anything specific I'm looking for appearance wise but being attracted to one another I think is important so I'd like to see you before anything goes down.

Looks wise I'm 178cm, average body at 82kg though I'm pretty athletic. I have dark brown hair a little longer reaching below my chin at the moment. Brown eyes and a beard.

Thanks for taking the time to read this.

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u/ohfridayy — 10 days ago