r/virginr4r

i’m 23, 5’8, 59kg.

i’ve always been told i’m a good looking guy, not to toot my own horn or anything. and people are suprised that i’m a virgin.

i feel like the pressure of a decent looking guy who needs to lose it, and the social anciety of talking to women is just insane, and the pressure of being a virgin is just eating me up. it’s one of the reasons i’ve never approached women. i act like a confident guy but crumble when things get serious. i’ve never been able to even go out on a date.

i suffered from a lot of body anxiety growing up, fromma damily who was very judgemental and i never even took my top off until i was about 22.

the reason why i want to lose my virginity is to get this monkey off my back. i feel like losing my virginity to someone who was genuine would set me off. i’ve thought about paying for escorts in the past but it’s not something i could ever live with, and i don’t support that industry.

i’m looking for someone older and more experienced than me, someone who knows what they’re doing, someone who is confident and is ok to teach someone the ropes. race doesn’t matter to me.

if you are a woman in the uk willing to give me a go then let me know. i’m willing to show my face if you are someone who seems genuine.

Looking for a respectful, clean, DnD free, patient man who is willing to take it slow and explore. It’s more about the vibe than age or body type to me. Local preferred.

Me: I’ve looked in the past but now, I have more bandwidth in my life. I‘m 46, Asian, a masculine lesbian with a guy’s haircut. People often think I’m in my mid to late 30s. I’m big — 5’2”, 210 lbs. I don’t have a big round butt but my bra size is DD and some people say they can tell I’ve worked out in the past.

I’ve started on gender affirming hormones and it’s made my libido sky rocket. My wife is giving me permission to see what this all about.

Edit: Virgins or inexperienced men preferred. I’m interested in exploring and discovering together.

Hej! I’m a 26 year old guy from Germany, quiiite a bit on the heavier side and looking to make some first experiences. I'm 177 cm tall (or small lol) and weigh over 100kg. I have a few experiences on the theoretical side and I like reading and learning about a variety of topics, including BDSM, but... well... not really experienced in the practical side... or to be honest not experienced at all. I’d really like to turn this curiosity into losing my virginity.

Besides that i'm leaning into IT or maybe rather consulting at the moment which makes my schedule quite flexible. I’m open to meeting up relatively early to see if it vibes. I'm a native german speaker, but English speakers are also welcome as i'm quite fluent in writing and speaking!

Besides work i'm usually gaming, my current go to games are probably Rocket League, Valorant, Minecraft and other co-op games, while i'm also looking forward to or games like cities skylines 2 but that was a mess so we rather don't talk about it lol. If you enjoy gaming, we could definitely try some sessions together if we vibe. I also love reading (Fantasy and Thriller mainly) and occasionally write my own stories, which I’d be happy to share.

I’m open, caring, love to explore new places and i'm always up for trying new things. Whether it’s a first experience or something more adventurous in the long run. I value communication, consent and having fun along the way. If you think it's fine to ghost or not reply for several days then we are not a match. I don't have a majorly preference on what you look like, as I think there has to be a rather mental connection. We can switch to Discord or other plattforms later on if you'd like! If you think we might click, feel free to reach out and we see where the train of life brings us... if it's not delayed like usual here lol.

I'm a 23 year old guy with an average/slim build at 6 ft 140. Personality wise, I'd say I'm easygoing, a little nerdy, and more reserved than most. My main hobbies involve computer technology and games such as boardgames, videogames, and cardgames, but I always enjoy going out when I can and doing a few sports. I've always been more focused on excelling in academics and my career. Less so with socializing beyond my good group of friends, so I've had few opportunities to meet other people around my age IRL. I'm not great with introductions and I'm not a particularly frequent socializer until I get to know someone.

I'd prefer to find someone who's inexperienced as well, as I think that'd be more comfortable, and is interested in exploring safely. Don't really have a preference physically. Something ongoing would be great if we end up connecting well. I'm pretty cautious about meeting people online, so I'd rather chat here for a little bit until we're both comfortable.

I'm in the Nashua New Hampshire area and can travel. If you're interested, please let me know what you're looking for, how'd you describe yourself, and whereabouts you are.

If you'd like to help me out, upvotes are always appreciated as well!

5’8, Black, around 230 lbs

I’m a laid back, introverted guy from Queens. I play bass and keys at a local church and recently started learning drums. Outside of that, I mostly just chill, hit the gym, watch shows, listen to music, and try to enjoy life without too much drama.

I’m into sci fi/action type shows like Severance, Dark Matter, Black Mirror, The Boys, etc. I also do a little graphic design/editing here and there for projects I’m involved with.

I don’t have much experience when it comes to intimacy mostly due to my religious upbringing and being more reserved growing up but my mindset has changed a lot over time. I’m open to exploring and experiencing that side of life with someone I’m comfortable with.

I’m looking for someone open minded, respectful, emotionally intelligent, and able to joke around without taking life too seriously. Physical attraction definitely matters to me too, and I tend to be attracted to women who take care of themselves and have a nice smile. I don’t really have a race preference.

Open to something casual or more if the chemistry is there. I’m not looking to rush anything blindly but I do value getting to know someone with the intention of meeting in person if we’re both comfortable.

Definitely down to exchange pics early if there’s mutual interest. Prefer someone somewhat local.

If you think we’d get along, feel free to message me.

Experienced, sensual 23F based in Boston (and open to travel!) ready to make your first time one of the best ;)

About me - 5’4, 125 lbs, slim but curvy ebony (DDDs if you care to know 🤭, pics on profile) who’s open minded and judgement free ✨

Whether you’re looking for something soft and sweet or a bit on the wild side, don’t be shy, tell me more about what your perfect night with me looks like..Any special requests or kinks? Do you prefer a dinner date or to get straight to the good part?

Preference to virgin men 30+ who are hygienic and respectful

Long story short, due to some complicated familial situation, I strived to become independent as soon as possible so I focused a lot of time on my studies and work. It made it complicated for me to have a serious relationship with someone and thus I never had the chance to sleep with a woman. I'm looking for a woman who would not mind my lack of experience to share a nice moment of fun together without pressure or judgement. I'm really interested in the sensual aspect of sex so I would love to be able to take my time to explore the body of my partner, discover what gives her pleasure and not just rush to penetration. I'm fine with both someone experienced that would show me the ropes or someone inexperienced to discover this new world together. I don't really have physical preferences as, while physical attraction is indeed important, I find many women beautiful for different reasons. I'm open to share pictures early to confirm physical attraction if you want.

To speak a bit about me :

I'm 25, 1m84 (6') for 95kg (209lbs). I'm currently a bit chubby but I'm working on that by running. I am a foreign traveler that will be in London in a few days for a week long solo trip to explore the city. I will be able to host in my hotel room or travel to your place in London. I like video games, tabletop RPG and reading books. I need some time to feel comfortable with someone so I would love to chat first and get to know you a bit.

If you're interested, feel free to send me a message and talk a bit about you.

Hey everyone,

I'm a 30 year old male from Dresden and like most here I don't have any romantic or sexual experience yet. Reaching 30 without it felt a bit heavy for a while, but everyone has their own pace.

I'm 190cm and around 85kg. When I'm not at work, I'm usually outside hiking or at home keeping my cat entertained. So yeah, expect plenty of cat pictures if we chat. I'd describe myself as more on the grounded side, but I have a dry sense of humor once the ice is broken.

I'm looking for a woman around my age (25-35 years old) with long hair and a completely normal body type, who is honest, patient and interested in building a connection. Distance isn't a huge deal for me, but ideally I'd like to find someone from nearby so meeting up for a coffee or a walk is actually possible if we match.

Weather you're also inexperienced or just an understanding person, feel free to send a DM.
Cheers!😄

Reposting because I’ll be able to host next weekend, so let’s try this again!

Hey there! I’m a 25 year old, 6’2, 215lbs, East Asian guy located in the Orange County area, but also pretty close to Los Angeles that is requesting for assistance in losing my virginity. I wouldn’t consider myself bad looking, decently average, but I’ve always had trouble when it came towards confidence in women.

As for my partner, I don’t have any preferences but please be clean and in the SoCal area!

I’m fairly introverted, especially when it comes to new people, but recently I’ve been working as hard as I can to improve my social skills and put myself more out there. I do have some confidence issues when it comes to self image, and two years of covid really did unimaginable damage to myself.

As for some stuff about me, I love playing basketball and have started running semi often. I’m always open to boba runs and new food spots, but as a SoCal Asian I have to admit I do love my fair share of gaming and going to concerts/raves as well! I also enjoy going for scenic drives and just vibing to music late night.

I‘ll be able to host next weekend! Driving isn’t an issue for me either but being around OC, LA, IE is the most local. But pretty much anywhere in CA would be ok! I’m also open to making some new friends, maybe help me practice my conversational skills, and have some fun!

But anyways, if anything’s piqued your interest feel free to shoot a message at any time! I’d be happy to send any pics you’d like as well, and answer any questions you may have. I don’t foresee taking this post down, so if you can see this then I’d love to talk to you! I hope to meet some of you soon!