u/-_-KarKaNox-_-

Like does it get completely erect just because your body needs sex or it needs to ejaculate

I have been married to my lovely wife [F38] for 17yrs now and raise 4 boys.

I believe my dick doesn't deserve to have sex and spread seeds.

Male oragasm is the only  pleasure any man rich or poor, handsome or ugly has easy access to.

So it should be regulated.

I think men who are born into privilege like me should give up on this pleasure or at least regalute it a lot.

Ejaculation from dicks of men like me and even indulge in this pleasure is very undeserving and unfair after getting so much so easily in life.

Ejaculation of dicks of men who are underprivileged men should only be allowed.

I also believe in ugenics/regulated breeding.

No where in the whole world breeding is as unregulated and free for all, but in human society.

No nature allows it nor any industry.

Nature only let's the best and fittest to procreate.

Industry only let's the best and fittest to procreate so get the best product.

We only let anyone procreate and thus, it's become a very big problem.

There is problem like height, physicality, not so good looking on world standard, not such high IQ, smallest dick size in world etc.

So, I also believe weird, ugly and small dicks should not be allowed to ejaculate and spread it seeds.

Such dicks should be be allowed to further go ahead in to generation of men.

So, only good looking and good size dicks survive in next generation of men.

So, after my 3boys my breast had gone through a lot of changes.

And since then I have been kind of insecure about them.

Recently hubby and I decided to explore sexually so we both keep sexually active and satisfied.

But due to my insecurity, I feel very shy/ under confident while approaching/playing with other people.

So, I told hubby I want to have some cosmetic procedures done before further exploring this lifestyle.

Hubby is onboard for it and even started saving up for it.

We had a couple of consultations with doctors.

But, now I am having second thoughts about it.

What should I do !?!?

Teenagers, Bachelors, Couples, Divorcee, Widowers etc !!

So, my FIL always a 'reputation' of being womanizer slutyy/horned up man. His wife had passed away in his mid-40s and he never married again.

(Obviously me/my family didn't knew about this before getting married to his son, found out later from other ladies after marriage while gossiping and all)

The signs of this started to show within 6-7 months of me moving to their house after marriage.

Him try to touch me here and there, finding reasons too, always talking talking double meaning things and pass off it as jokes and all.

Me being a young bride noticing all his behaviours and other ladies talking about all his tales, I got very anxious and nervous.

Started to force/convince to live separately.

Within almost a year we started to live separately.

Years passed, we had kids, sex life was good too, but then with hubby's stressful work and unhealthy (smoking and fast food) lifestyle it started to go downhill.

He started having issues with his libido, errection and ejaculation.

And when I suggested to see a doctor.

He started blaming me and putting his insecurities on me.

Started to shame me for my libido even at this age and becoming a mother of teenage boys or demean my looks body or dressing for his lack of arousal and errection problems.

Because of this even I started to have insecurities and self esteem issues.

Then COVID happened.

My FIL moved in with us, as he couldn't live alone during lockdowns and all

After all this years, my FIL hadn't changed a bit.

He started with his antics very quickly after moving in with us during lockdowns.

But this time I wasn't the same old nieve young inexperienced bride. I was a grown up women with kids and pent up libido.

But I still had my insecurities passed down to me by my husband.

Seeing, my FILs advance towards me made me question all this, like a man even being way old is being aroused by my presence and wanting me.

And then, Hubby (he used to go out to get groceries and all) and kids (used to go play video games at other peoples home in our society) got infected with COVID.

So, a decesion was made (I kind of influenced hubby), that we should self quarantine ourselves to two different homes.

Me and FIL at FILs house as we weren't infected yet and I can cook and for FIL.

Hubby and kids at our home, so he can take care of kids and cook for them.

So, it began.

At FILs home, with just us two.

He got more direct and open about his antics.

But, this time even I was ready and instead of letting him playing his games. I confronted about it.

He suprisingly came forth of it very openly.

Told me he knows what other people talk about him and judge him, but he has his physical needs since his wife passed.

So, even with all the name calling and judgement he did it, because he had his needs and had to give it try to make something happen and it did happened quite a few times.

I could relate to his situation, like even though I was with my husband our bedroom life had been almost non-existent for quite a while now.

We both found comfort in each other for our respective needs.

Made same ground rules about how we will conduct this arrangement of ours.

A month with him in that house was really great for me physically and also mentally.

Sex is really important for us, I feel it actually keeps us healthy.

Since, then till now we have continued our arrangement.

Life does come full circle.

The man i dispised when I was young, is now the one who is there to help me fullfill my needs.

So, my FIL always a 'reputation' of being womanizer slutyy/horned up man. His wife had passed away in his mid-40s and he never married again.

(Obviously me/my family didn't knew about this before getting married to his son, found out later from other ladies after marriage while gossiping and all)

The signs of this started to show within 6-7 months of me moving to their house after marriage.

Him try to touch me here and there, finding reasons too, always talking talking double meaning things and pass off it as jokes and all.

Me being a young bride noticing all his behaviours and other ladies talking about all his tales, I got very anxious and nervous.

Started to force/convince to live separately.

Within almost a year we started to live separately.

Years passed, we had kids, sex life was good too, but then with hubby's stressful work and unhealthy (smoking and fast food) lifestyle it started to go downhill.

He started having issues with his libido, errection and ejaculation.

And when I suggested to see a doctor.

He started blaming me and putting his insecurities on me.

Started to shame me for my libido even at this age and becoming a mother of teenage boys or demean my looks body or dressing for his lack of arousal and errection problems.

Because of this even I started to have insecurities and self esteem issues.

Then COVID happened.

My FIL moved in with us, as he couldn't live alone during lockdowns and all

After all this years, my FIL hadn't changed a bit.

He started with his antics very quickly after moving in with us during lockdowns.

But this time I wasn't the same old nieve young inexperienced bride. I was a grown up women with kids and pent up libido.

But I still had my insecurities passed down to me by my husband.

Seeing, my FILs advance towards me made me question all this, like a man even being way old is being aroused by my presence and wanting me.

And then, Hubby (he used to go out to get groceries and all) and kids (used to go play video games at other peoples home in our society) got infected with COVID.

So, a decesion was made (I kind of influenced hubby), that we should self quarantine ourselves to two different homes.

Me and FIL at FILs house as we weren't infected yet and I can cook and for FIL.

Hubby and kids at our home, so he can take care of kids and cook for them.

So, it began.

At FILs home, with just us two.

He got more direct and open about his antics.

But, this time even I was ready and instead of letting him playing his games. I confronted about it.

He suprisingly came forth of it very openly.

Told me he knows what other people talk about him and judge him, but he has his physical needs since his wife passed.

So, even with all the name calling and judgement he did it, because he had his needs and had to give it try to make something happen and it did happened quite a few times.

I could relate to his situation, like even though I was with my husband our bedroom life had been almost non-existent for quite a while now.

We both found comfort in each other for our respective needs.

Made same ground rules about how we will conduct this arrangement of ours.

A month with him in that house was really great for me physically and also mentally.

Sex is really important for us, I feel it actually keeps us healthy.

Since, then till now we have continued our arrangement.

Life does come full circle.

The man i dispised when I was young, is now the one who is there to help me fullfill my needs.

So, my FIL always a 'reputation' of being womanizer slutyy/horned up man. His wife had passed away in his mid-40s and he never married again.

(Obviously me/my family didn't knew about this before getting married to his son, found out later from other ladies after marriage while gossiping and all)

The signs of this started to show within 6-7 months of me moving to their house after marriage.

Him try to touch me here and there, finding reasons too, always talking talking double meaning things and pass off it as jokes and all.

Me being a young bride noticing all his behaviours and other ladies talking about all his tales, I got very anxious and nervous.

Started to force/convince to live separately.

Within almost a year we started to live separately.

Years passed, we had kids, sex life was good too, but then with hubby's stressful work and unhealthy (smoking and fast food) lifestyle it started to go downhill.

He started having issues with his libido, errection and ejaculation.

And when I suggested to see a doctor.

He started blaming me and putting his insecurities on me.

Started to shame me for my libido even at this age and becoming a mother of teenage boys or demean my looks body or dressing for his lack of arousal and errection problems.

Because of this even I started to have insecurities and self esteem issues.

Then COVID happened.

My FIL moved in with us, as he couldn't live alone during lockdowns and all

After all this years, my FIL hadn't changed a bit.

He started with his antics very quickly after moving in with us during lockdowns.

But this time I wasn't the same old nieve young inexperienced bride. I was a grown up women with kids and pent up libido.

But I still had my insecurities passed down to me by my husband.

Seeing, my FILs advance towards me made me question all this, like a man even being way old is being aroused by my presence and wanting me.

And then, Hubby (he used to go out to get groceries and all) and kids (used to go play video games at other peoples home in our society) got infected with COVID.

So, a decesion was made (I kind of influenced hubby), that we should self quarantine ourselves to two different homes.

Me and FIL at FILs house as we weren't infected yet and I can cook and for FIL.

Hubby and kids at our home, so he can take care of kids and cook for them.

So, it began.

At FILs home, with just us two.

He got more direct and open about his antics.

But, this time even I was ready and instead of letting him playing his games. I confronted about it.

He suprisingly came forth of it very openly.

Told me he knows what other people talk about him and judge him, but he has his physical needs since his wife passed.

So, even with all the name calling and judgement he did it, because he had his needs and had to give it try to make something happen and it did happened quite a few times.

I could relate to his situation, like even though I was with my husband our bedroom life had been almost non-existent for quite a while now.

We both found comfort in each other for our respective needs.

Made same ground rules about how we will conduct this arrangement of ours.

A month with him in that house was really great for me physically and also mentally.

Sex is really important for us, I feel it actually keeps us healthy.

Since, then till now we have continued our arrangement.

Life does come full circle.

The man i dispised when I was young, is now the one who is there to help me fullfill my needs.

Never expected when I got married that eventually I would end up doing all this.

Hahaha

Kind of found it wierd

We have sex regularly, at least once a week or so.

But recently due to a busy schedule with family kids work and all, we couldn't.

This, morning hubby finally had a breaking point after 3 weeks so releived him with HJ/BJ.

He ejaculated quite a bit, but the smell was so intense.

Does the long gaps between the session led to your husband/bfs cum to have a strong stench.

How do you deal with it ?

Inhaling that wiff of intence cum stench kind of turned me on....

Is this usual ?

Mahatara chi garja kay smapant nahi

So, hubby's uncle gave some financial favour to him recently.

And in exchange he needed sexual favour.

He asked me to sniff his dick to humiliate me before sucking him off, but I kind of liked it and also turned me on.

Do dicks give off pheromones actually or is it something wrong with me. Hahaha.

Has this happened with anyone else?

So, hubby's uncle gave some financial favour to him recently.

And in exchange he needed sexual favour.

He asked me to sniff his dick to humiliate me before sucking him off, but I kind of liked it and also turned me on.

Do dicks give off pheromones actually or is it something wrong with me. Hahaha.

Has this happened with anyone else?

With the boys growing up and their puberty hitting.

​

It's getting a lot messy awkward and all the things in between.

​

How do you manage all this