The title question is in relation to if you are in a long term relationship. I am not scared of being hurt either mentally or physically. I am scared of giving up control, but I still want to. I understand communicating this fear. Is it irrational to still have it?
I read a lot of kink. Literotica, Gromet's Plaza, Fet Library, Fictionmania etc...... Most involving male submission. Could be to a guy but typically it's to a woman. Some of these scenarios though are quite triggering.
I get that these are fantasy and not reality. With that said what parts do you think with my questions below have actually happened or are just pure fiction.
I don't understand how a TPE relationship would not turn into just emotional gaslighting. I have seen totally normal people corrupted by just a small amount of power in my life. I understand the idea behind it this type of relationship. I even agree in some respects of the premise behind it when it comes to a woman being the D in the D/s dynamic. Because men even if it's unintentional on an individual level, they still have inherent power based off societal norms.
Chastity and Feminization. To me both of these seem like male centric fantasy, meaning more guys want this than woman want to do it. (IMO)
In the case of feminization where in the stories the man goes from bf/husband to a sissy type with the end result being him cuckholded or turned out to a man/bull. I just cannot wrap my head around most woman wanting that to be the end result of their bf/husband. Even more so I just can't image someone spending that much effort and dedication on someone just to turn them out to another man, and then what leave the bf/husband?
Which piggybacks to chastity. Sure the guy in being denied, but so is the gf/wife. I mean besides his oral skills.
Sorry if this is not the correct forum for these questions and if it isn't then mods just delete the post.
I get there are all types, even those that would like everything I asked about. But in this community is it the majority or no?
I am just thinking too much into stories?