the one who spoils me, listens, and quietly breaks while I tell him every dirty detail about my nights with another man. You’ll help me pick my dress, book our room, buy the condoms. And if you’re lucky, maybe I’ll let you hear me moan your name… right before I forget you exist….
I would love having a finsub who wags their tail at every interaction. Someone who is positive and obedient. Am i being unreasonable?
Have you guys ever fall in love with a sub/dom? Did anything come from it or did it ruin your guises relationship? I’m bored so I thought it would be a fun topic.
My experience:
I have only once. he had a great personality and was absolutely beautiful. and was kind and sexy. For some reason, he could tell that I fancied him and told me he felt the same.
then he told me he had a girlfriend and was planning to marry her. I got the ick immediately. I told him “if you know that you’re in love with someone else and your kink basically makes you cheat on your partner, Why are you bringing an innocent girl into this? It’s not fair to me or her.” It’s different if you’re already married and discover it in a loveless marriage but at the beginning??? That just isn’t allowing your relationship to even be given a chance.
He told me that it was super unrealistic for him to not get married over a kink, and that cheating isn’t bad as long as his fiancé wouldn’t find out. I’m very possessive over my subs so him lying to me and his selfish attitude made me disgusted, and I ended up ending our dynamic.