Hey everyone, M(24) here have been dating this girl F(26) for a month and a half now, she’s vanilla but sometimes when we have sex she says things like (who’s mommy’s good boy), and she also calls me “daddy” sometimes, so I know she knows a little about the kinky side of things. The issue is that I painted this picture about me that I am a switch even tho i am not, i am 100% submissive and I am into humiliation/degrading and I just don’t know how to bring it up, she’s a kind and sweet person and she loves taking care of me and she always tells me that she wants to make me happy, which is something i do appreciate but I just don’t know if she’d be comfortable with me becoming submissive to her. Whenever I tell her stuff like “I wanna worship you” she says something like “I appreciate that so much and I wanna do the same for you”, so it’s like she’s always replicating the stuff i do for her.
I have no idea how to bring it up and make her understand that I am 100% submissive and i want a femdom relationship.