u/Acceptable-Lakes

When i like a domme i can get really into to her to the point of obsession. Obv i wouldn't cross any lines and would always respect her boundaries but internally in my head i get completely obsessed to the point of thinking of her when i first wake up and last thing before i sleep and all throughout the day. prioritizing her wants and needs above my own. providing for her and spoiling her and pampering her. having someone to focus my attention and desire and energy on gives me purpose and not having it rn is what i miss the most about not having a domme

now i crave findom, mindcontrol, brainwashing and manipulation. i cant get aroused by "normal" things anymore. even when i try to quit findom i just end up back here. im slowly learning to accept who i am,

Im talking to a male hypnotist who is not a findom. i asked him if he can hypnotize me to send to a findomme and become her sub. he said yes and is training me. but weve come to the stage where he is asking who is the domme that i want to send to. the problem is that i don't have a domme rn. are there any dommes who would want a hypno sub who is being trained? he wants to pass me off but i need a domme and dont have one

Is there any domme who is into hypno or mind control? Ive had a few dommes who were working on brainwashing me and reprogramming me but only had one domme who was able to hypnotize me. its changed me and i miss the hypnosis badly! just wondering if anyone has experience with it?

a sub wrote an "inside a subs brain" post which was really good and i agree with. i just wanted to add one thing. for me, findom gives me access to girls who i think are "out of my league". i can talk to and even have a connection with the type of girl id crush on but could never date. the type who would date someone else while i long for her and crush on her from a distance. Even if i can't date her, findom still lets me play a part in her life and provide for her and spoil her!

We never ended up becoming long term but it was fun while it lasted. She wanted to be called queen which of course I happily did. She also had a bf so i asked her if shes my queen than does that mean he is my king? She told me to think of him more as a boss. I said okay, why? She said because like with a boss, i can give my input and he might consider it but ultimately he gets the final call.

The thought of her bf having authority over me sent chills down my spine. Its like im so subservient and eager to please her that i even submit to her bf eagerly like hes my boss and have to listen to him. im not in a dynamic right now but i still remember when she said that to me and can't easily forget it like its been implanted in my mind

So many feminists are writing posts to the effect of "misogynists think men are better than women--that's so wrong and stupid." This line of thinking misses the point completely. It's not that men are better than women, or that women are better than men. It's that men and women are obviously different. Physiologically, biologically, emotionally, etc. We have different skill sets and temperaments and therefore different roles and responsibilities. That doesn't make men better than women, just that we have different roles. It's the responsibility of men to be leaders, providers, guiders, and nurtures, even if many weak men don't live up to that, it doesn't change our divine duty.