r/ConvertingFeminist

Hi all - this is a bit of a different one, but I hope you'll all indulge me! I'm a male feminist ally, and I think it's shocking seeing how far some of the poor women on this sub have fallen! Whether they're gender traitors, or just falling under some kind of misogynist spell, I've made it my mission to help out these women and remind them of their worth.

Which brings me to a conversation I recently had while arguing with a misogynist; he said there were women on this subreddit who were so broken they'd be able to convert ME into a misogynist! Now, obviously that's never going to happen, but I told him I'd post this open invite to all the gender traitors and misogyny-loving women on here to challenge me.

As for all the actual feminists on here - don't worry, I'll try to bring any women who challenge me into the fold! There's no way they'll actually turn me away from being an ally 😊

I want to really hurt you, not just physically, but mentally, I want you to be scared when I raise my hand, tense when I say your name, on edge around me at all times.

I want to mentally ruin you, like an abuse victim, nothing left in your brain but to please me, no matter how disgusting or degrading it is. You don’t care if it hurts, you don’t care if you would never do anything like this with anyone else, you’re my bitch and you give me your body when I want it.

You should be scared of men, lifting you by your neck, backhanding you when you speak up to me, tying your legs apart and slapping your pussy until you piss yourself. You’re weak and you deserve to worship me, I will give you purpose.

You’re going to flush your birth control down the toilet and give me your unprotected pussy and beg me to knock you up. Fucking you unprotected, holding your legs apart and begging me to make you a mother, you’re a pair of holes, a cock sleeve, nothing more, and you know your purpose.

Give in and carry your abuser's baby in your tummy, let your cunt leak to me abusing you, and beg me to get you pregnant.

You’re going to smell like me, taste like me, feel my scent on your body, I own you, and you worship me like your god.

I will abuse you, and you’ll beg me to hit you, a mentally broken, empty headed little puppy.

Hii, I am curious as to why men seem to want women to be dumb sluts and toys for them and what would even be in it for women to serve them. I am clearly smart and just dont see the appeal for men to have dumb women serving them. Feel free to try and educate me!

My name is Jennifer. I’m 25 years old, a feminist, and a medical doctor. I graduated with honors and work in a hospital, where I spend a lot of my energy advocating for women’s rights both inside and outside the clinic.

I believe firmly in science, evidence, and personal autonomy. That’s why I’m absolutely certain that hypnosis doesn’t exist. It’s just an internet trick, cheap theater for gullible people. Nothing about it is real. The brain can’t be “programmed” with magic words or intense stares. It’s all suggestion, acting, or simply the desire to believe in fantasies.

Yeah… I know perfectly well that this is a kink lol

Just enjoy playing with the idea of someone trying to “hypnotize” me knowing full well that I’ll dismantle it with logic, sarcasm, and medical facts XD

After all...none of it is real

I hate how many times I find myself right back here. This has to be maybe my fifth account for this year? Every time I quit it goes well for a while and then the pressure gets too much. Uni shouldn't be as overwhelming as it is to me, but the compulsory attendance and my autism do not get along in the least. I work hard, I do well I'm on top of everything. Then I relapse, a week or two of edging without cumming, fall behind, fake illness, then once I finish, scramble to catch up. It makes me feel like an animal without self control.

Listen, I get it.

On the surface, feminism definitely has marketing appeal. They throw all these lofty words at you: autonomy, self-determination, liberation. Those all sound great, especially when they conveniently fail to mention the less lofty words like stress, anxiety, and deadlines.

Well, to combat the feminist charm offensive, Misogyny is rolling out a new initiative: GGGSSs, otherwise known as "Good Girl Gold Star Stickers."

Misogyny has acquired a limited number of vintage gold star stickers, just like the ones you earned in school when you did something really special. Mind you, these are not the simple, flat foil stickers. These are the textured ones that are sparkly, as if they were covered in glitter. Do you remember how special you felt earning one? Do you remember running your finger over it again and again? Of course you do—you were a special girl, and you earned lots of stickers. You were so special.

Well, now, thanks to Misogyny, that special, accomplished feeling can finally be yours again! Just turn away from the empty promises of feminism and embrace the warm reassurance of traditional womanhood.

Don't you deserve to feel special? Don't you deserve that intoxicating feeling of earning approval? Don't you deserve a good girl gold star sticker?

But hurry! There are only a limited number of these special GGGSSs. You're not going to let some other girl get *your* gold star sticker, are you? Reject feminism and earn the reward you deserve!

Ironically much like most groypers, they claim that they hate things like race mixing but are obsessed with women of other races. Feminists and women in politics tend to follow the opposite trend. Most women in politics who proclaim that white cis men are the devil, it seems to be a hidden obsession. So many women in these positions can't help but to marry us. Just to list a few examples, from AOC, go ilhan Omar, to Kamala Harris and rbg, hell even Elaine chao, all happily married to white men. And this trend can also be seen dumb tiktok women who "hate men" always love the most basic white men. Basically, you don't have to hide your obsession like a playground crush, you can be honest with us

There's a trend in my recent conversions. Initially when talking to a feminist, in the first few messages, there's usually a lot of bold claims and hostility. There's obvious lies such as feeling nothing when reading another Proof of Conversion - Post. As the conversation deepens, I can feel you giving in, when we build a connection, when there is intimacy and understanding. Yet you continue with this facade, it's like you're wearing a mask of lies. Think of it like being at a masquerade. You're just lying to all the people around you, expecting them to lie back to you. I mean, who is their honest and true self openly in 2026? You'd have to be crazy to do that. And there's another lie you tell, but to yourself. And that's that you can never take this mask of, never show off how you truly feel, who you truly are. You could never be this vulnerable in front of anyone, let alone a man. And so you keep dancing in ignorance, wearing your mask of lies, wishing someone would tear it off you, see you naked and vulnerable for who you really are. And approve.

I feel like theres so much more blatant misogyny in media these days, every time I go in a comments section theres people saying things like women are dumb or holding women to impossible expectations, or videos encouraging men to treat women worse and I feel like it would not be getting so popular if it wasn’t actually good for us. I just don’t understand why its good for us, wouldn’t we like misogyny more? I mean i think ive always enjoyed the thought of men treating me more strictly and saying rude or degrading things to me especially when its just casually or i dont expect it or just taking control of my life because im a women so im too dumb to make decisions but when those things actually happen i end up having so many feminist thoughts and it upsets me :(

Also im high which makes me dumber so you can mansplain it to me :p

Lmao, since my last post I had several career women, several "lesbians," and just general self-proclaimed feminists hit me up, all wound up in the exact same position. It's funny how true my original post was. If any more women want to continue to further strengthen my beliefs, feel free to hit me up.

It started yesterday, when I made a post about hypnosis. I didn’t really see the appeal of it, and I wanted to know. A lot of people (mainly girls) left some really nice comments, and they were kind of getting me interested. And then u/DegradeTheNarrative started commenting. I was unsure about being hypnotized by a misogynist, but he made it sound SO good. He talked about how good it felt to submit, and have your mind changed, and his texts alone made me really horny so I sent a chat message. From then on I had basically lost, I think. I don’t remember much of it (since I was hypnotized), but reading back on the messages he hypnotized me REALLY easily. He degraded me, made me act like I wasn’t a feminist, and even talked about how pathetic I am since I’m trans. I don’t remember much of it, like I said before, but I just remember feeling really good, and judging from my chat messages I was really needy when I begged to cum and eventually did. So I’m DEFINITELY into hypnosis now lol. I feel a bit guilty about it, but… it was just a kink. It’s not like anything really changed. I’m still a feminist. But still, admitting I wasn’t one made me feel really good…

I’ve been in and out of reddit communities of all kinds and one thing is increasingly clear: any dark fucked up perverted sub is overrun with women. It’s strong articulate educated feminist women commenting filth on porn wishing they were the girl or wishing it was their friends taking cock and being dominated.

If you’re so proud of your independence, tell me why deep down you’re so into watching women used abused and humiliated? Explain yourself.

I don’t want a man who “allows” me to be independent because the entire premise is embarrassing. If I have a career, travel, dress how I want, keep my own money and make decisions about my own life, that is not because some man generously approved my application. I actually like masculine men. I like confidence, competence, physical strength and men who know exactly who they are. What I do not find masculine is treating female autonomy like a privilege you can revoke the second your ego gets uncomfortable. If you are genuinely powerful, why would my freedom threaten you? I would much rather have a man who sees an ambitious, opinionated, independent woman and thinks hot than one who immediately starts drafting household legislation because his girlfriend went outside without requesting permission. The really confident ones do not need to shrink you. They just assume they can keep up.

New school year and looking to maybe explore and update my wardrobe

Always been more on the comfy side as I thought feminism could only be in that direction but feels like there could be more to explore there so might be looking for a change. Looking to enter the workforce eventually too after school so work outfits could be a good fit too

If this is still up I'm still looking for help!

My heart aches for all the beautiful and strong feminist women out there in the world - fighting against patriarchy and oppression every day all the while you are being modern day Queens. I am therefore writing an Ode to you. Would you like to help me perfect it before I publish it on Reddit? I'm man enough to admit that my English grammar isn't always that good, so I would really appreciate your help.

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Among the study's more alarming findings:

-Feminists are 98.7% more likely to be handed an Excel spreadsheet connected to an impossible deadline compared to traditional women. Even more alarming, in many cases, the spreadsheet did not sum properly at the bottom.

-Feminists receive 94% fewer forehead kisses and hear "good girl," 91.3% less.

-Feminists are 17 times less likely to get to wear a cute little sundress with strappy sandals in a field covered in sunflowers. They are also 43 times less likely to get railed, bent over while wearing the cute little sundress.

This alarming study comes on the heels of recent unverified speculation that feminists will be unable to eat chocolate or consume pumpkin spice drinks in the near future.

Further details as they develop!

Like really are we serious, Guys seriously think they are smarter than girls. Misogynists love to think that most girls are just pretty little flowers who cant easy be broken. But in reality, We woman are much more intellectually capable then any guys. I can prove this bring me any challenge and ill beat any guy who challenges me. Eg. A game, Argument, Quiz, Word game. Anything. Just try and prove you can beat me.

I feel like I've been through emotional whip lash/ the rug done ripped right from under my feet.

It's Over. Amicably.. I get it, I understand and in the end the person has their stuff.

But fuck...

So I've been on this subreddit for years, through different accounts. I don't remember the names lol I don't remember who I chatted with and besides most people had changed their accounts anyway too lol. The usual.

Coming onto CF this time I didn't think it would change much. However this time, a few years have passed I've learned about myself quite a bit, self discovery... mumbo jumbo so on and so forth no one really wants to hear and I don't care to divulge and also am very aware that we all have our -isms are all have things we are moving through and or working on at any given time.

This time I didn't continue on in yucky convesations that were just bad, simply because it was a smidge of the idea of what I wanted. I more actively participated in posting vs just commenting. I currated fun debates with several of you, and I made some connections that went beyond reddit and have been going on for some time. Actual online dynamics being created, agreements being made, the conversations happening beyond just the words on the screen. Both as a Domme and as a Sub.

My puppy and I still chat casually and play with the opportunity works for us both, no pressure.

The person who had become my Dom however the other morning with no indication, that this wasn't for him anymore. All his reasons were understandable, it was for his own mental health, I will NEVER accost someone for taking care of their mental health. However he had been mulling over the choice for days... even just letting me in on the thoughts would've allowed me to not feel blind sided by the decision.

We had intense play, there was even purchases and arrangements between us, this wasn't just... shallow online play or even casually friendly, it was building the thing. And then, bam.

Ya girl could use a hug and a massage, sad lady that I am.

I finallyyy ordered some new clothes with a gift card I got for my birthday. I’ve been needing stuff for a while, but am terrible at shopping when it’s for myself. I’ve talked to a few people around here about this too. Does anyone else struggle with that?

Anyways I picked out some basic things like some joggers, a few pairs of shoes, and a couple sweaters; since it’ll start getting colder soon. I was all ready to check out when a few items caught my eye while I was scrolling. Stuff I would normally never wear and normally find gaudy, looked kinda cute in theory, if I could pull it off.

Since it wasn’t my money anyways I decided to click on a few of them just to see, and I did ultimately add a short pink skirt and some lacy thigh high stockings to my cart before I checked out. I probably won’t ever wear them, and I’m not entirely sure why I bought them. I’m usually a very practical person, and this feels like a bit of a waste. But they’ll be here tomorrow to slowly pick up dust and cat hair in my closet!