r/ConvertingFeminist

This has become a huge problem.

I love feminists, I really do. I love their opinions, thoughts, feelings on the patriarchy.

They are the perfect opposition.

The problem is they love me as well. I'll start talking with one and it starts well. They call me a misogynist, tell me I'm a piece of shit, it's a great argument. Etc. Etc.

Then - and I have no idea why - they start making innuendos about dick, faltering in their arguments. Making easy to spot mistakes.

I tell them to focus. They agree.

We argue. It's all going good. Then they ask to see it.

At that point I know it's over. They'll keep arguing if I use it as a consolation prize but the heart isn't in it.

Keep in mind I'm not just talking about sluts; I'm talking about well-read, diligent feminists that are just whoring themselves out for my dick. It's just all so mind-boggling.

Maybe I've been cursed?

I was like, talking to /u/_Angel_xo and it was sooo funnnn. We talked about like, how hard it is to be smart all the time!! Like, why bother, right? She showed me all of the dresses men buy for her, and she didn't have to do math for any of those!

She showed me like, how much fun it is being stupidddd, and hornyyy and needyyyy. Like. Why bother pretending? It's so much more fun being a little ditzy and fun~ It's not like you don't like it ;) hehe

Angel told me to tell you that my DM's are open I guess, lol. Esp if you wanna tell me what you'd do with a former-feminist~ <3

Any girl in here feel like brainwashing the fight out of an argument unwilling lesbian feminist? Trick her into accepting her place under men and cock just because she let her defenses down when confronted with a fellow girl?

U/FigBrief4154 showed me that I'm not a hard working woman, but a girl who likes when a strong man pampers me and takes care of me. He buys me everything and tells me what to wear because I'm his property. I can't make my own decisions because that's not what a pretty princess does that's what a strong prince does. I'm his and only his

Thank you for showing me that work is for men and not good girls 🤭❤️

Think of it.

Life is hard.

Everyday day more and more people expect from you.

All these responsibilities piling up, I know it feels suffocating, wouldn’t it be nice if they weren’t there anymore.

Go back to an easier time when all you would have to worry about is coming home to a place free of responsibilities.

They would be on someone else.

Meanwhile you could be on your phone, go chat with friends.

Never have to worry about any of these stresses that occupy too much of your life.

This comforting fleeting feeling can all be yours again.

You want it, crave it, need it.

Now.

Let go of the drivers wheel and trust again.

Never having to worry about making a decision again.

You’ll trust it all, never having to even worry about who to vote for, what clothes to buy.

Letting someone more capable than your hesitating ass take leadership.

Just drown in my thoughts.

Let it all get a little hazy and when you do.

You find that this is where you feel comfortable. You are at home now.

This is where home is.

Objectifying women isn’t acceptable. Women are people, not a collection of body parts, and reducing them to that is degrading and just factually wrong.

I understand this more than any of you ever could, treating people with respect and dignity is what being human means. You should never just focus on physical appearance, or the bodies ‘wants’.

People who think like that (a majority of this sub) are missing basic empathy. The men here should have a higher standard for themselves, you should see women as complete human beings and not just use them for their body.

I just don’t really get misogynists or why they act like that. I grew up in a super feminist family where the women were the main providers so maybe that’s it but I honestly can’t understand how someone could be a misogynist!

I’m just posting to see if someone could explain it to me because it just seems so weird!

I am looking for someone who can stand up for herself, not to convert but to have ongoing conversation with, that may - or may not - include red flag behaviour like manipulation, deception, name calling and assorted other mind games.

Something respectful, smart and interesting with undercurrents of misogyny and control. But mostly fun, engaging, and exciting...

If you fancy something a little different, come and introduce yourself

Let the games begin

P.S. If you message have something to say, you are expected to share the load of the conversation.

I'm a young feminist woman, I study philosophy and gender studies and I'm sick of the jokes about my degree and the men that really think they are superior to women!

Heya im avas recently me and a couple of my friends wanted to try and figure out why people (more specifically men) have sexist views and ideologies. We are mostly doing this to try and help other girls by telling them what to look out for in guys (or even other girls). The best way we thought of to do this was going straight to the source of the misogynistic people themselves. To do this we will be collecting data from many other sexist subreddits like this one.

So if you could please message me and say why you are misogynistic

So, I recently began my tenure as a university professor. I teach philosophy, mainly ethics, but I was also assigned to instruct a gender studies course. While certainly not my area of expertise, I figured it couldn't be too difficult. And, mostly, I was right. With my experience studying actual philosophers, these feminist concepts seemed a bit elementary, if not downright illogical. So, for the sake of rigorous academic discourse, I also included some of my own counter-arguments in the curriculum. This has led to an unforeseen problem.

Recently, one of my students came to me for office hours. I knew from her outbursts in class that she was an impassioned feminist. As was expected, she attempted to argue that her ideology was sound and moral. However, with each question I asked of her, that ideology crumbled away bit by bit. A few discussions later, and she had sworn off feminism forever and pledged herself as my personal property to be used, fucked, discarded, however I like. This is now the fourth one.

While I obviously enjoy the perks of having a growing retinue of co-ed sluts to worship my cock, I can’t help but worry that, if this keeps up, my career may be in jeopardy. So, I’ve come to you all to try to understand why this keeps happening. Perhaps here I can find some actually persuasive arguments for feminism that won’t shatter under the most cursory examination. Your thoughts and feedback are most appreciated.

-Prof. Mal

Like come on. You’re all just mad that women won’t pay attention to you leading to you wanting to subjugate us so we are forced to pay attention. So tip for misogynistic men, stop being a misogynist, stop being a loser, and most importantly, get over your mommy issues

talked and played some guys with men regarding my previous post. i had few wins and losses, which i would say went pretty well. losing a game doesnt make me less of a person of give you the right to think you’re superior because you are not and thats why i still stand here remain not corrupted and no one can, ill just prove to you how strong women are.

As a lifelong feminist, I’ve been considering a different path because I enjoy my independence and I still believe that a woman should be financially stable. Take care of her herself and not need a man but recently as I’ve been exploring different paths and different connections. I have been wondering if giving up control could help me conserve my energy for my career even.

But I don’t know I still feel like women don’t really need men and it’s best for us to be independent and on our own. We’re just so much smarter than men and so much better and it’s just better this way

I genuinely hate some women who claim to be insulted when they are told to show the most basic respect to the people they talk to.

If im talking or debating with you and your starting to get bratty, why on earth would I not call you out on it..? You all claim to want a "honest debate" but get upset when I call you out on your behaviour?

Haven’t you noticed that the only people that have a problem with feminism is men? I mean feminism in the way of striving for equality, not in some extreme way that many men think of. Because feminism is just that, asking for equality in all walks of life, in my case particularly at work. Is that so hard to understand?

He’s 20 and I’m a 39 year old senior leader, he wanted to take ownership of my body and I resisted with all my strength but I couldn’t stop him. After he conquered me he made me rub my thoughts away and now I’m just his horny rub slut property even though my husband is in the other room 🥵

I guess i was never really a feminist in the first place, but i still feel like i want to post this there

I am an incredibly successful woman. Like really successful. Mostly because of my looks. People are literally paying to see me at cons. And i'm dating a very stereotypical macho who treats me more like property than an equal. Someone who at least financially is less successful than me and still feels superior to me simply because i am a woman.

And all my girls don't understand it. They always tell me i could get any guy, that i could find someone that treats me like a goddess. That i don't have to put up with a guy that's playing games, sometimes making fun of me and disregards my wishes and opinions. Someone who goes around telling his friends about my holes.

What they don't understand (they all struggle to find a man, i wonder why).

I love this guy.

It's incredibly freeing that he doesn't put me on a pedestal like everyone else and treats me like property instead.

I love that he makes me work for his affection instead of showering me with it by default like my fans do. That every "good girl" must be earned. I love the way he objectifies me and treats me like a fuckdoll instead of using velvet gloves because he is too afraid to fumble me. It makes me feel more like a desirable woman than guys begging to lick my boots.

Submitting to him makes me feel more safe and cared for than any guy "who would do everything for me". Because i know he would fight if someone tried something funny with his property. And i love that when i am at home, all my responsebilities are reduced to making him happy.

And no success in the world, no bad bitch girlboss moment can compare to waking up on a strong mans chest in the morning and his arms wrapped around my body.

I think many girls just don't understand what it's like because they haven't even tried dating such a man.

I do think womens right are important. Like the right to vote. Politically equality is important. But domestically? No, men and women are not the same and no male feminist ally in the world has made me needy for him the way a masculine man like him does.

I'm of slavic origin but living in western europe and something i think is funny, that slavic women i grew up with all are way more agreeable with me on this than more western women, and way happier too, being in similar relationships, which just makes me feel more like i am right about this