u/AccomplishedSkin8881

So, me and my wife decided to take a step and decided to try chastity lock.. we got it just now and I will be caged for the first time in my life...

This is an update for my previous post from yesterday and I feel much better now

https://www.reddit.com/r/HotWifeLifestyle/s/Yd5vcFLmuJ

TLDR: She flirted a couple of weeks, invited for dinner, may be an oral, but ended up fucking after smoking pot.

So, I kind of slept til the evening until she called me to pick her up from work.. however, when she entered the car, she felt different..

She was unbelievably confident and said "Take me home as quickly as you can" and didnt utter a single word.. My mind was allover the place and said fine..

As soon as we reached home, first thing that came from her was "will you still stay with me?" And asked to promise her

I was very confused and assured her that she is the love of my life, and wanted know how it all happened

So she started by saying that she started watching porn after I left for my work.. and two weeks ago, around 9pm that friend texted her when she was completley taken over by porn and was pleasuring herself.. She said

"some how I pleasured myself imagining him and I did it every day for a few days"

She went to their flat last weekend to meet his wife and have a chat as she came home for a couple of days to stay with him. And during their conversation, his wife said something like

"He wants me to come every week, which I cannot.. and I found him texting other women at night"

that single sentence was struck in my wife's mind

As soon as she knew his wife left, she started talking to him.. she was enjoying his assertive moves. They flirted like rabbits..! I am flabergasted seeing their chats. She openly said him that she rejected the thought of me sharing her.. and she told him that i wanted to clean her pussy..

She said me she was confused and its getting out of her hand.. thats why she told me indirectly... and invited him for dinner..

She thought I would ask her more... but I outright said okay instead of taking it seriously, said alright (she previously threatened me for divorce when I asked her if she is interested)

She said, she wanted it to be a flirty oral, but things got out of control after they smoked pot that bought with him (she smokes pot very rarely and only with me)

She said "I was out of my mind and it spiraled so quickly, I wanted to text you for permission, but I couldnt remember anything" and both of them slept without a clue...

She said "I was scared in the morning when you opened the door, and thought its over after seeing him asleep. after all this mess I made, I deserve to do whatever you wish"

And kissed me and said "Thanks for not reacting, and accepting the situation like a man"

I said, " I didnt think it would go down so fast and I thought youre leaving me for being submissive"

We both hada a moment together, laughed it out and I said, "not when you fuck without letting me know"

She made kneel and made me eat her pussy as she she said "I really dont know whats in there, and I dont want anything in there without your permission again, I am sorry"

And both of us agreed to make rules this weekend and keep him at a distance until we both consent..

I think we both have our mistakes... its my mistake not to take her seriously and ask her more... and her mistake to shove it up her pussy without my consent when it happened...

Update: https://www.reddit.com/r/HotWifeLifestyle/s/DKtqDC08ph

Firstly, sorry for the long post

TLDR : very conservative christian wife, who threatened to divorce a few months ago upon opening up on my kink of hotwifing and threesome, had sex with her colleague in our bed while im working on my night shift

So me (30M) and missus (28F) have started to talk about sex from the past few months openly after nearly 6 years of our marriage and 8 years together..

We always had a very vanilla relationship often months without having sex. I have so many kinks I wanted to try with her like BDSM, threesomes, hotwifing etc.,

however she coming from a very conservative christian family had 0 interest in sex, and always thought of it as a tool of fulfilment for me and having kids. She never had sex before our marriage and I am the only male partner in her life. I dont blame her though!

Initially when I opened up to her about my kinks of adding a third, she was very dissapointed and felt very uneasy for a month. She said she will rather divorce and find another guy rather as it felt very bad for her and thought of it as cheating.

After a few weeks, she finally opened up a bit saying she likes being domme for me.. this was a huge thing in our sex life. I started doing some chores like dishes, clothes and maikng her breakfast daily.. she was pretty impressed and our sex life began to change... the dynamics went very well with us..

Later on I bought a toy for her and it blew the squirt off her pussy in two minutes! She really enjoyed it.. and she started to be more dominant and said she wants to explore this dynamic without introducing a third person. And we fucked nearly every day for a month!

Fast forward a few weeks ago, I had to start working nights for a few months due to the requirement... and she works days... so, it was a slowly turning weird for our sex life.. and it was going back to the previojs state..

However, day before yesterday, my wife herself said one of her male colleagues, who also lives in our apartment complex is talking to her.. I said thats great and moved on. I didnt give much thought about it as she was relatively vanilla. ( that friend and I know each other, he was married LDR and will be moving away in a couple of months )

Yesterday morning she asked me if its ok to ask him to come for dinner to our flat.. I said fine.. and she without hesitation said that she wants to try the hotwife kink. I had no words to say her.. I said its alright and upto you.

It turned out that she invited him for dinner and they both had sex on our bed.. and the hottest part is that, he was still asleep on my bed by the time I came home today morning.

I was shivering as as I didnt know how to respond to the situation. But my wife calmed me down amd said me that she explained everything to him. He woke up and came into the living room.. we exchanged an awkward smile, and greeted each other. It felt like nothing I have ever felt in my life. felt humiliating, felt strong, felt embarrasing and was super horny.. we had a coffee and assured that this is to be kept secret. All the while my wife was sitting on the side..

After he left, I asked her is this all real? And she asked me to touch her pussy. She said she will speak in the evening, got ready and left for work...

waiting for her to come back..