u/Acrobatic-Adagio-915

We have already started bringing a third man to our sex. She was hesitant to start, but is now showing some interest. We are not sure how to proceed. Shall we find a man and meet in a private setting, or go to a swinger club? We can have better communication by meeting in private, but that brings awkwardness. And what if we did not like the guy? With swinger clubs, we will be more relaxed with music and atmosphere, but then that might be too overwhelming for the first experience. Any suggestions?

We have already started bringing a third man to our sex. She was hesitant to start, but is now showing some interest. We are not sure how to proceed. Shall we find a man and meet in a private setting, or go to a swinger club? We can have better communication by meeting in private, but that brings awkwardness. And what if we did not like the guy? With swinger clubs, we will be more relaxed with music and atmosphere, but then that might be too overwhelming for the first experience. Any suggestions?