u/Adam0774

I can imagine how skeptical you must be when you look through this subreddit. I would be too. Being blackmailed is an exciting concept on paper, but how could you trust a random stranger online? Especially those who expect you to provide every single personal detail they want, passwords to social media, nudes, so they have an easy way of demanding more. Anyone who wants to do this in a sane, safe, sustainable way would laugh at that idea. I do too.

I have a completely different route in mind and I'm looking for a woman who finds my idea not only exciting, but also possible to make it work. I believe in a slow burn, step by step corruption that will take months to build, but it will feel like a genuine, realistic way of getting trapped in an impossible situation. A situation where you know you keep compromising yourself further and further with each additional task you do, but you're hoping that this will be last. That I will be satisfied with your servitude and I'll finally let you off the hook.

To build this dynamic, we will talk first. Maybe a few days, maybe a few weeks. You're the one who has to feel safe enough to jump into this, so it's up to you. I'm not going to wait forever though, I'm not interested in someone who wants to chat about it but never commits to a dynamic. In that talking phase, I will familiarize myself with your schedule, your life situation, your hard limits, your experiences, and we will discuss safe words and boundaries. I won't skip any of these steps no matter how eager you feel, I can't and won't blackmail a stranger. I want to know you so I can use all the information against you with your consent.

When we get to the fun part, you will go through an exciting journey that starts with innocent, careful first steps and puts you into a completely vulnerable position slowly but surely. As I have mentioned earlier, this is a slow burn dynamic that means you have to be ready to invest a good amount of time into this. If you want to experience what it feels like to be blackmailed in a realistic way though, it will be worth it.

Are you still skeptical? Or can you see now that we can make it work?

Most relationships aren't perfect, but they aren't completely broken either. There's almost always a reason to stay even if you're not getting everything you signed up for at the very beginning.

That's my own reality, but if you're reading this, it's probably yours as well. Maybe we are each other's missing piece.

I'll tell you what I'm missing and looking for, and then you can do the same if you feel like my needs resonate with you. I'm a naturally dominant man with a high sexual appetite and need for kinky components. I've had relationships in the past where I could explore that side of me and I've also had an online submissive partner a few years ago. There are periods when my desires for a kinky power dynamic stay in the background, but it has been getting stronger and stronger the past few years. Now the time has come for me to find my next sub.

I'm not looking for a purely sexual connection. I want to get to know you on a deeper level and I want to do my best to fulfill all of your requirements as well. I'm very attentive, I'm interested in learning as much as you're willing to share about you. I don't want you to feel like you're just a sex toy (unless that's what you're after, haha), I want to find a healthy balance between normal conversations and the kinky part.

The list of my expectations is rather short, but they are significant ones. I'm looking for someone who is available to at least chat most days. It's okay if you're busy sometimes, but if you're never online it's not going to work. I don't have specific requirements in terms of how you should look, but I'm looking for a sub who enjoys showing off. You can be shy, you can have low confidence, but I want to appreciate your body and for that to happen, I have to be able to see you. I'm looking for someone who won't just do things for me, but also show things to me.

I also don't mind at all if you've never actually been in a dynamic like this. If you're just starting to explore your submissive side, I can help you do that. You just need to be brave enough to take that first step.

Now tell me, what's been missing from your relationship?

I can imagine how skeptical you must be when you look through this subreddit. I would be too. Being blackmailed is an exciting concept on paper, but how could you trust a random stranger online? Especially those who expect you to provide every single personal detail they want, passwords to social media, nudes, so they have an easy way of demanding more. Anyone who wants to do this in a sane, safe, sustainable way would laugh at that idea. I do too.

I have a completely different route in mind and I'm looking for a woman who finds my idea not only exciting, but also possible to make it work. I believe in a slow burn, step by step corruption that will take months to build, but it will feel like a genuine, realistic way of getting trapped in an impossible situation. A situation where you know you keep compromising yourself further and further with each additional task you do, but you're hoping that this will be last. That I will be satisfied with your servitude and I'll finally let you off the hook.

To build this dynamic, we will talk first. Maybe a few days, maybe a few weeks. You're the one who has to feel safe enough to jump into this, so it's up to you. I'm not going to wait forever though, I'm not interested in someone who wants to chat about it but never commits to a dynamic. In that talking phase, I will familiarize myself with your schedule, your life situation, your hard limits, your experiences, and we will discuss safe words and boundaries. I won't skip any of these steps no matter how eager you feel, I can't and won't blackmail a stranger. I want to know you so I can use all the information against you with your consent.

When we get to the fun part, you will go through an exciting journey that starts with innocent, careful first steps and puts you into a completely vulnerable position slowly but surely. As I have mentioned earlier, this is a slow burn dynamic that means you have to be ready to invest a good amount of time into this. If you want to experience what it feels like to be blackmailed in a realistic way though, it will be worth it.

Are you still skeptical? Or can you see now that we can make it work?

I am looking for a slave. I don't consider myself to be a particularly picky person, I believe that every slut deserves a chance regardless of age, experience, relationship status, location, and even looks can be secondary. I value attitude a lot more than anything else. That's where you have to shine.

You are a great candidate if you have a "try anything twice" attitude. You are an even better one if showing off to your owner makes you happy and you're eager to spread your legs even if you're not told to. You are the perfect candidate if you're also horny all the time and you're ready to serve on a daily basis.

If I choose you, you can consider yourself lucky. You will get a lot of attention, you can feel yourself useful by fulfilling your purpose. I'm a creative man, you will get to try a lot of various things and even if you're inexperienced, you can learn and explore at a comfortable pace. I'm not saying you won't be pushed, but you won't be overwhelmed either.

I'm looking for someone who can and wants to communicate well. Low effort messages and low activity are the biggest turn offs. I'm looking for someone who plans for long-term and is capable of opening up. I'm not a soft Dom and I'm not interested in anything superficial. I'm only interested in a deep ownership that means you will belong to me, both your mind and body. I'm looking for someone who serves me because of who I am, out of respect and admiration. Of course, I know that those have to be earned, and that's the point. We both have to earn each other's trust and respect.

The question is: how far will you go to earn mine?