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I’m a veteran raver and have done MDMA a ton of times. I’ve also used Cialis before without any issues.
Usually I’ve taken 10mg Cialis post-rave, like when I’m in the afterglow stage of the roll, and it’s worked fine. No issues and I’m able to get hard.
A couple rolls ago though, I took 5mg Cialis one day, then another 5mg the next day, probably like 3–4 hours before rolling. I ended up taking around 170mg MDMA and I couldn’t get hard at all.
So I’m wondering if the MDMA dose was just too high and basically overpowered the Cialis.
Just a little nervous doing the whole 10mg of Cialis right before the roll.
I’ve always been a little cautious about mixing the two but my wife and I have a night coming up and I want to be hard while in the thick of it lol. I know I’ve done 5mg + 5mg before and I’ve also done 10mg during the afterglow with zero issues, but taking 10mg before the actual roll makes me a little more hesitant. Healthy fit 32 male, resting heart rate is great. Any opinions on this.
Thanks everyone

My wife and I are going to a festival this weekend and we’ve been raving for a while together. When I’m rolling, I get VERY affectionate, sensual, and sexual as I feel everyone does for the most part and just want to dance with her, grab her, grind on her, kiss her, all of that.
But I’ve realized that especially on the come-up, she can feel anxious or need time to fully settle into the space and warm up emotionally before getting really sensual. Sometimes when I push the sexual energy too early, she feels pressured instead of naturally opening up. She’s Brazilian so I’ll say something like “rebola em mim” which is like twerk on me and if it’s to early she’ll say give me some time. But when she is finally open up it’s amazing, twerks like crazy a lot of sexual energy. One of the things that is so attractive is her feminine energy is just over flowing, like you can feel it and it’s so sexy.
So I’m trying to learn how to balance:
having grounded, masculine sexual energy

expressing desire confidently

WITHOUT making her feel pressured or rushed

For the ladies here:
What makes you feel safe and naturally able to open up sexually/sensually with your partner at raves? What kind of energy feels attractive vs too intense too early?
I’d love to hear perspectives from women who rave and roll with their partners.

Thank you!

Wife and I are interested in using cocaine for a sex night. We’ve had other worldly sex on MDMA and wanted to people’s opinions on it? We’re looking for hot kinky sex, just be animals with each other so I think it’s right up our alley.

Can you cum on Cocaine? On mdma it’s practically impossible.

For guys do you have a hard time getting hard if you just do one line or two? The advice I’ve gotten was stick to one line to be able to function properly.

Thank you!