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Weed and ED

Background: Me and my missus were together since we were teenagers. Lost our virginities. I was so into her physically. I think she has encoded my sexual experience. Anyway now in our late 40’s we’re separated. Life goes on…

I’ve been dabling with escorts to help me get back to normal with having sex with other women. For those encounters i’ve always used viagra to help with the condom’s desensitisation. And mostly it works fine.

However about 12 months ago i had the hottest girl i’ve ever been with but i couldn’t get one off and eventually couldn’t even stay hard. Even with a cialis in the morning and a viagra an hour before.

That was obviously a massive concern so this year i stopped fapping and looking at porn (the motivation that drives me to maintain this is that i want to be able to have sex with a girl - it’s a great motivator). Anyway I’ve maintained that all year and it really does change you. The only time i’ll get off is when i’m with a real live girl! 😅

Last week i was with a girl (not an escort) who was super passionate. We were kissing (for days it seemed 😅). We didn’t use any protection and i had the opportunity to go up her ass. When we were kissing it got me hard af and at the beginning we were fucking like bunnies. I think she got off a few times (who tf knows 😂). But then when it was my turn to enter her ass my dick just withered (even with cialis and viagra). When our mouths were connected i was solid. When i tried to just fuck i was withering.

The thing is i’m at an age now where i think too much. It’s not just as simple as viagra because i get hard initially but then fade with all that stupid thinking. So my solution has got to be to eradicate the thinking. I’m thinking weed. It gets me out of my head and just leaves my animal instincts and it’s just me and girl going at it like animals.

I’ll need to test this theory with the next girl but first i want to find the right dose. I don’t want to be a vacant idiot. I also don’t want dry mouth. So i’m thinking of trying some gummies and just taking nibbles until i find the right dose.

Anyway has anyone had similar experiences? If so what worked for you?

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u/Key-Beginning2675 — 9 hours ago

Shrooms and 4MMC

Looking to combine both, starting with 2g of shrooms and around 90mins-2hrs later oral dose of 150mg 4MMC.

I’ve done a candy flip before but LSD last too long and don’t fancy using MDMA as want more sex focused session.

I’m expecting the shrooms to have a body load issue but hopefully just as the peak passes I can take 4MMC to have a psychstim experience, in which I get mdma like visuals and a hedonistic stim sex drive.

Has anyone tried this combo before?

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u/darklight575 — 11 hours ago

Used to have the craziest coke sex parties when I was younger

In my mid 20s I was pretty into cocaine for a while. No drug has ever made me as horny. Like I was doing things I never would have without it

We had a few parties that got absolutely wild.

The first time we had a coke party that turned extremely sexual. There were like 12 of us, 3 girls. Got really sexual and we all started having animalistic sex. I was fucking my best friends boyfriend forcefully telling her I want him to get me pregnant?? It was genuinely the hottest thing ever. As he came in me she had the most physical orgasm I’ve ever seen. Then I was kissing her telling her to make sure he had more for me later.

Then I went around trying to test my IUD collecting every guys cum in me like it was my job. I would never!

Then later that night she called me over telling me he was going to cum again and I got on him and thrust my hips in position and told him to aim at my cervix. Genuinely crazy to type out. She just wanted to watch us kiss and his cum flow out of me.

Had a couple other parties like that before I stopped doing cocaine. It’s amazing what it will make you do. I don’t care who’s watching and the more taboo person involved the better

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u/QueanMolly96 — 18 hours ago

My boyfriend only wants to be intimate when he's high, and it's starting to really bother me

I've noticed a pattern with my boyfriend where he only really gets interested in having sex when he's high. If I try to initiate or get close to him when he's sober, he pulls back or stops me. It's starting to feel like being high is basically a requirement for him to want that connection with me and it's making me feel a little rejected or like I'm not enough on my own.
I don't know if this is about him feeling more relaxed/uninhibited when he's high, or if there's something else going on, but I wanted to see if anyone else has dealt with something similar. Has this happened to you or your partner? How did you bring it up, and did things change?
I really care about him and I'm not trying to make this into a bigger issue than it is, I just want to understand what's happening and figure out how to talk to him about it without it turning into a fight.

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u/Fun-Wolverine-5468 — 1 day ago

Sex on Shrooms

Whats a good amount to take to not be too over the top tripping and not be underwhelmed with the effects as well for shrooms? I was thinking of 2 grams but maybe a little more and have some weed we plan to smoke as well

is getting hard an issue with shrooms or more so just trying to stay focused?

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u/Cyclonefan444 — 1 day ago

Strongest Aphrodisiac for Women?

Looking for both short and long term solutions, but what's smth my partner could take that can bring her into the mood rater quickly, outside of practicing good health?

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u/FewBackground2852 — 1 day ago

Mdma gooning tips

Hi yall im gettung 2x 150mg of molly and i wana use it for a 6 hour goon trip. Now then i have sum weed and poppers and dick pills, should i take dickpills rather then poppers? If i want a long goon session.

Also should i take more molly for 6hours+ of gooning.

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u/fluffyhorni-pup — 1 day ago

First time boofing K - OMG

Last weekend it was my first time boofing any drugs. I have tried many drugs in my life (K, md, mkat, lsd, shrooms, cocaine, 2cb, weed) and my partner suggested that I should try boofing k after we came back from a party and we were planing on having sex.

Just came back from party where I was using mkat, I was like okay let me try it - thinking that it will help me relaxed (i’m gay and mainly bottom). He tried a few years ago and suggested I should do 200mg, so I go and prepare it and he injects it.

15-20min goes by and I am in a complete different universe, I couldn’t even have my eyes opened let alone walk - that was truly out of body experience, but sadly not in a good way. I don’t normally really like K, I never really take it it’s not my drug of choice, but I thought I’d try it. But that was truly not for me, we ended up having sex, I don’t remember most of it, I felt like I was assaulted (I communicated that the next day to my bf and we talked about it, so all good).

But yeah that was just my experience, I never heard about boofing before and was my first time trying it. I’m writing this to inform any other people that if they do it, start small and do your research as I wish I’ve done it before.

Has anyone had a similar experience?

I also want to try boofing again, but either with mkat (my preferred drug) or md. Anyone experience boofing with mkat?

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u/Entry_Left — 1 day ago

A-pvp as an alternative to 4mmc?

Curious about a-pvp mainly because it seems it doesn’t pop up on 5 panel drug tests. Heard it compares to 4mmc which I really enjoy. I know nothing about it, I heard some people say it’s a “pyro” which can be highly addictive. What more can you folks tell me

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u/DoubleSundae256 — 1 day ago

Sex on Ketamine???

Me and my wife have always had a bit of a kink for stuff like this, but have no idea how to do it. we want to try Ketamine while intimate but don't know how much she should take and what kind to have the nose spray or the dissolvable pills

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u/Exotic-Razzmatazz850 — 2 days ago

2cb + LSD combo advice

Hey everyone, I'm trying to plan the most erotic masterbation session possible. Typically, I will drop 2 tabs of LSD and go to town, but I've gotten my hands on some 2cb that I'd like to try for the purpose.

My plan is to start with 20mg 2cb taken orally, possibly snorting a small 5mg redose later on. In the event that I'm still horny and craving more towards the end I was considering dropping acid. I'm no stranger to long trips so that wouldn't be an issue. Any advice on synergy/dosing, or have you done similar combinations? Please let me know! I'm trying to get real freaky.

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u/Crazznot — 2 days ago

Preventing shits on dxm

Really wanna try dxm and anal play but I heard it messes you up down there. Aiming for 1st mb 2nd plateau. Anyway I can assure I'm not gonna abstract paint my sheets? (Has mannitol)

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u/Iate_children — 2 days ago

Here’s something I haven’t seen mentioned.

I recently decided to try a liquid Kratom/Kava mix. Bottle was two ozs and I drank half of it. Within 10-15 minutes I had a spontaneous erection that ended in ejaculation. There was no sexual thought involved no sexual activity. I tried to hold back the ejaculation but the feeling in dick was that I couldn’t. Question is has anyone else had a similar experience?

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u/Own-Cod5860 — 2 days ago

Girls get horny with opiates/opioids. Guys do not.

Even though info online claims opioid agonists decrease libido in both men and women I have found that most if not all women have increased libido on age or on other opiates or opioids. Men do not experience the turn off particularly but they will be less willing to engage in sexual intercourse and even if they do it is hard for them to come and will get tired and start getting soft soon after.

Why does this happen and why does any source online claim that opioids are substances that decrease libido for all sexes?

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u/Lisergiko — 2 days ago

Pregabalin (Lyrica) + MDMA / 5-MAPB [HARM REDUCTION]

Looking for harm reduction tips for my wife, who is on Lyrica (Pregabalin, 50mg twice a day).

We generally love MDMA but have not rolled since she started taking Lyrica. We also want to try Plür (5-MAPB), and are considering 3MMC.

What substances are safest and what should be avoided now that Lyrica is in the picture?

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u/trippy-kid- — 2 days ago

THC and your anus

I love the way cannabis makes my hole tingle. It doesn't happen every time I get high but when it does, it's exquisite. At first it's imperceptible, and I think "Am I feeling something?" Then the feeling starts to seep in. It grows more intense and eventually, I'm squirming with that need, craving anal/prostate play. Other times, it hits hard right from the first pull on the vape. I start twitching before the 2nd exhale. Either way, what a delicious sensation! If you're the same, please share your favorite experiences.

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u/b-phx — 2 days ago
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Full report on doing MDPiHP for the very first time.

Everything began relatively notmal about 60 hours aims
I started off with a 5mg line kept my lines between 10-30mg max. and spaced them out.

This went well for a surprisingly long amount of time and I even thought i might be able to sleep that night.
But goddamn, even with all the research I did, I’m just blown away at how strong and intense yet smooth this stimulation feels.
That’s going to be a legendary RC very soon, as soon as the rest of the stimfapprers/chemsex enjoyers find this one it’s over lmao. got the the rush lasts over two hours after dosing. The master tier of chemsex/stimfap substances if you ask me.

This substance is easily the most hardcore (like issue, and yeah, at this point hours just kept on rushing by and I kept on not only swapping swapping between scrolling on Reddit and tiktok. And soon the 48 hour mark was reached and the high hasn’t gotten any more or any less within the past 1.5 hours you’re basically just sitting in Russian grandmaanything and kept on doing more and more things tho me that gave me pleasure
The stimulation eels very similar to meth justway more pronounced. I Stoppard r dosing 29 hours after my first we are about to reach dose but the high still hadn’t fully worn off but my heart is chilling and not beating out of my chest. At some point the lines got bigger and more frequent but that “only” lasted about 9 hourd. I still have some left. Pray for me that I manage to keep my fingers away from that stuff until the next rave.
I started Seshing on Thursday at noon and have been Seshing ever since then over 2.5 hours because I’m just not able to form coherent sentences without severe mental. It feel like just a single half day went vorüber.

I have no idea if I said everything I wanted to say or if I even made sense at all but I just can’t keep on correcting myself over and over I feel like I’m going psychotic and I’m if I don’t stop making noises fifdgeting in this overheated. Obviously I’m Judy joking around♥️

Sorry, had to make a few more

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u/German_raver — 3 days ago