u/Appropriate_Oil7933

Wife has recently started getting more comfortable expressing herself, as have I. Both late 30s

We switch initiation, aggression, and moving into domination

She's not nonverbal but very quiet - however she wants to develop this side of herself, and we are learning about sensory play - fabrics, oils, etc.

What might you suggest? We hear PT141 (a supplement) or Cialis might help. There are certain things our raver friends suggest to us, but that might not be our thing. We don't drink. 420 seems to inhibit that side of me.

What type of activities would you recommend for beginners? I'm not into anything too wild, just want to get tied up and taken, etc. We've done some ropes before and I've commanded her a bit but that's all.

Not gonna do it and don't want to waste any of my meds

But got that AuDHD curiosity running

I've got a cute little redhead next to me, and we know each other's sexuality pretty well.

I was thinking along the lines of "AlphaSub FemDomme" but what do you think?

Throw me some good ideas.

I have a thing for it, as does the lady.

We were wondering how to protect the mattress if we wanted to do oil wrestling on the bed. (Only shower up til now). I was thinking a tarp first, then a blanket, then plastic sheeting. Or perhaps just a tarp with a kiddie pool on top of?

What material would provide the best sensory experience when oiled up and sliding over it?

Although this is not directly drug-related, I figure that the kind of people who have sex on drugs would know.

Let's say I wanted to protect my mattresses while setting up my bed for oil wrestling. What do you think would be the best setup? I was thinking tarp over the mattresses, then a blanket, then plastic sheeting over it. But I thought maybe the tarp with a mini kiddie pool. Or maybe put mats on the hardwood floor and just put it down there over some plastic.

But what material might give the best sensory experience when oiled up and sliding over it?

I was thinking a tarp first over the mattresses, then maybe a small kids pool?

What material is going to provide the best sensory experience when sliding over it all oiled up?

I found this stuff called "Bronkade" that my buddy uses when they're out of Adderall. An anti-allergy med, you've got to sign for it at the pharmacy as it apparently could theoretically be used to make crystal. It's got ephedrine in it like the old Stackers that I used to use to get through 3rd shift. I take a few and I fuck like a beast.

It's non-addictive, although if you have an addictive personality you might abuse it.

What are your favorites?

(PT 141 and poppers are good answers too)

We have started to switch back and forth, but I absolutely love being her fucktoy. Letting her tie me down and face fuck me, rocking back and forth while she's grabbing my hair and jamming my face into those lucious, full, suckable lips until I'm covered with juices and makes me eat her ass. I'm autistic, so this is a sensory experience for me. Drives me insane.

There's also that type of power dynamic where I am a large, strong man that has lived through a lot. I hate macho redneck bullshit and scare the shit out men with some frequency. She's the only one that can put me in check.

She was rather inexperienced and shy when we got together so this has been an amazing experience, to watch her bloom like this and really rise to her full power. I love letting her use me, hopping on and riding me with a pelvic thrust like an overloaded, off-balance washing machine. 5 minutes and I'm convulsing like an epileptic, and she keeps humping me until it turns into tickle torture. We've gotten into what we call "sport fucking," basically meaning that we're trying to see how hard we can make the other one cum, how many points we can rack up.

Dominant ladies - what are your favorite things to do to extract pleasure from your boytoy? She's going to read this later and pick out her favorite ones. I already know I am going to let her whip me, and start doing more elaborate rope play. This Halloween, we are dressing up as a priest and a Catholic schoolgirl. I'm going to let her tie me at the wrists and lead me through public spaces on a collar. Although she's been taking control over me it's been pretty basic and she wants to crank it up a notch.

Also - have you ever had a threesome where both ladies expressed dominance over the man? Or where the dominant woman took both the submissive man and submissive woman? I'd love to grovel for both of them, but would also love to serve her along the slave girl. Do you have any advice about those dynamics?

So the girlfriend has come out as bi after a long time. We have been talking but not sure what we will do, if we will, how we will do it, etc. We have a great relationship with "feral autistic fucking" happening 3-6 times per week... she's got a pelvic thrust like an overloaded, unbalanced washing machine. I myself have been polished after years of her training, we like to trade dominance.

She just hasn't ever gotten the chance to run with this side of herself. I think it might be best for her to go out and figure out what she wants on her own, but we haven't committed to any particular ideas.

I do know that she likes the idea of going out and being seductive and fun,and wants to make out with a couple girls. I know she likes the idea of doing some "ethical hunting." She is a carnivore. We are aware of the rules of consent, I think we are looking more for *etiquette* if anything. How to approach... I think it is something that would have to happen organically while out in the world, I don't think she would join an app.

We're not unicorn hunters, we'd actually want a person that would want to go camping, raves, dinners, etc. We are creative and fun people, generally good looking and a tad stylish in the hipster fashion. There are a lot of sexually unsatisfied women out there and I think we can show them much better... and what better way to make a lifetime friend than helping her cum her brains out? We're trying to get her to come back again.

What do you suggest we know?

We've been together for 8 years. There's nothing we need outside of our relationship, but I have always wanted to watch her work over another girl and then cum on her face.

We have been completely vanilla except for a few times when we do things like have me dirty talk to her as I'm pleasuring her. And I think she's interested, if she would be the one to be in control. But she's also somewhat shy and reserved, so I think she may want me to "break" the subbie for her and give orders for her. She doesn't want me to make contact with the subbie, but I can watch and give encouragement. I want to watch her facefuck the girl.

I don't know if she'd just want to whip her or fully dominate her, but I think the idea is that we want to find a girl next door, Southern Baptist type. Maybe even a bit preppy. We live in the South so I guess the idea of seducing somebody to the sinful side sounds hot? Maybe a bit bratty.

Any ideas? How would I set this up?

Right beside me, naked as a jaybird

Should I... Or should I...

Right beside me, naked as a jaybird

Should I... Or should I...

Right beside me, naked as a jaybird

Should I... Or should I...

I've done a great deal of writing in my time and among it are pieces of erotica. I've dusted off some of those old ideas and have some new.

The first phase of what I am wanting to write about is not necessarily femdomme, but simply the worship of the divine femininity of my partner. I love consuming her beauty, I twitch at the thought of being her playtoy.

Despite the fact that I have an education and eyeglasses, if you didn't know me any better you may mistake me for a 70's type macho guy. I am 6'2 and have large shoulders and arms. My core is like that of a tree trunk. In most situations you would expect me to be dominant, and I can be at times, but there is nothing I love more than to be in service to my wife.

It's a common thing among autistic men to desire partners that are more straightforward. But to be completely knighted in the service of your damsel is yet another thing completely.

There are few things I love more than giving her pleasure. She works really hard in a very rewarding job, so when she comes home I like to oil her down with coconut oil. The texture is as pleasing as the aroma. I have big strong hands that I use to work out the knots and the trigger points. She has gotten pretty good herself, using elbow motion to dig into old spasms that keep me up at night.

Being oiled up, a lot of times she will sit on my lap and start to slide back and forth, bumping and grinding until I start to rise to attention. The tease lasts for a while, until we get into the shower. I have an oral fixation, so I get her nice and lathered and worked over every crevice with my hands until she's completely clean about a half finger deep. I rinse her down again, as soap is an awful taste and I don't want it in my mouth. I run my hands over her nice round half-moon ass and SMACK! I slide down in the shower.

As the water drips down her body, she grips my hair and pulls my face in between her legs. Rhythmically she begins to fuck my face, pulling me in between her luscious lips. As soon as I insert my fingers, I feel the walls of her begin to tighten, begin to pull upwards as the craving builds. I suck her labia, I suck her clit. I shake my head back and forth as I pull her into my mouth... With me lying on the shower floor, she puts her knees on my shoulders and begins to grind my face over and over, swirling and rocking until her juices run with the water down my face. I crank myself, intoxicated by the sights, tastes, smells, and sounds.

Is this an appropriate place to post? If not, where?

Any suggestions?