u/Adept-Tea565

Hey, after being a lurker for close to one year, I have finally gathered the courage to write a post. Life has been a bit complicated recently, filled with too much of a mental roller coaster.

I consider myself a happy person, I enjoy little moments of life and keep a positive attitude. But life has started to feel like a drag and in a constant survival mode. I am not looking for a spouse bashing or changing our situations in any way, I am looking for a kind hearted and genuine person who can relate to my situation and someone whose presence feels easy, comforting and peaceful. Gosh! such a heavy post already lol.

What i'm looking for:

A natural connection where we get to know each other. A space with care and mutual respect. Someone to share the laughs with while building a lasting friendship and something meaningful if it naturally goes there. I am completely fine with it being totally online, i understand how dynamics could be in a committed/married life and i am completely aware of the limits of this connection.

A few things about me: I love gardening..it's my best stress buster. I love to cook, read books, play volleyball sometimes, yoga and morning runs are a constant part of my routine, they keep me sane and slightly less grumpy lol, I love to travel and listen to music. I also have a son.

I have brown skin, warm heart and thankfully a head full of hair lol. I am emotionally available and value consistency and honesty.

We can take things slowly, no rushing needed. I try to be attentive, truthful and respectful of boundaries of the relationship.

Tell me, which childhood memory still stiays with you the most?

Snacks and rain, Power cuts nostalgia, Long road trips to native places, Or something else..

I'll be kind, genuine and myself. Send a simple hi or a long reply, it's all totally fine.

Seeya 💛

Ohh you bratt, I told you to not click, you are a rebel aren't yaa.. I think I like you already.

Well hello there, I am planning to make some yummy pasta tonight, come join me, let's eat together 😊

What i'm looking for in a connection:

Playful, meaningful conversations and a natural connection where we get to know each other. A private space with care, affection, no judgment, and full acceptance. Someone to share laughs, inside jokes, and those sparky butterflies again, while building a strong emotional bond and a lasting friendship, with mutual effort and a sense of exclusivity.

A few things about me, including what I enjoy doing: i love farming.. i have a small farm of my own where I have grown many veggies and herbs and it's my best stress buster, I love to cook, go for long walks, jogs, hikes, sketching(still learning tbh) and sometimes singing.. but in a closed room only, shhh it's a secret 🤫, I love listening to music and I travel for work.

A fun fact: I have successfully befriended a squirrel, she comes to my farm every morning to eat something, and she is very lovely.

I am 6'1, fit and active (though yummy food has always been my weakness), brown skin, Asian descent, married (in a complicated situation, not looking for a spouse bashing at all, just letting it out), have one daughter, a head full of hair, I am financially stable and emotionally available.

I'm looking for someone who hopefully laughs at my stupid jokes and groans when I tell them the worst puns. I'd love someone that enjoys telling me what makes them happy and going.

We can take things at a pace that works for the both of us. I want to know all about you, what makes you smile, what makes you annoyed. I think all of that makes what comes after, so much more fun.

Tell me, what's a small thing that irrationally annoys you? Pineapple on Pizza? Cabinet doors left slightly ajar? Or what else.

Or,

What helps you relax after a tiring day?

A mental and emotional bond is more important to me than looks, but I do understand that many people prioritize looks and I am willing to swap pictures whenever you feel like it.

Just be kind, genuine, yourself and you are more than welcome.

Send a simple hi or a long reply, all sorts of responses are appreciated 😊

And sorry for the literal essay, I got carried away while typing.

Sometimes writing here feels like sitting down and sharing, without overthinking the words, without trying to sound impressive, just letting the truth come out the way it truly is.

I work in a creative field, so my days are usually full of ideas, people, conversations, and little moments of enjoyment and fulfillment, But outside work, life feels a bit complicated and too stressful.

I cook to slow myself down (I make great pasta but terrible salads lol), grow my own food, indulge in artsy stuff with my son, listen to music and love taking long walks and practicing yoga.

I am 38 years old, brown skinned Asian, married to an abusive partner (not looking for a spouse bashing though), i love to stay active and fit.

I’m open to long distance. I want to share my life with someone, who may or may not have grown up in a different place, someone whose way of seeing the world is different. Those differences can make a connection exciting and beautiful.

I enjoy fun and deep conversations. I consider myself emotionally mature and can tell you tons of bad jokes at the same time lol. I am looking for a connection that feels easy and warm, and grows naturally through time, friendship, and mutual efforts. I value honesty,kindness, and genuinely choosing each other without pressure.

Tell me: what helps you slow down after a long day?

If this resonates to you, and building something real sounds like a good idea, I would love to hear back from you and see how it goes.

Whale whale whale, listen up people, do you seek:

~A long lasting, slowly build, genuine connection?

~A place filled with lots of effort, consistency, honesty and banter?

~Conversations which take you on a roller coaster ride, sometimes in the depth of your thoughts and sometimes in the vastness of your imagination?

~A beautiful escape from your everyday chaos?

~The sparks, the butterflies and all the other types of fireworks and insects? lol,

Look no further, because at this place we offer all of this and more with a smile and a great service.

About me: i am married (in a complicated phase of life), have one son, I make efforts to stay fit and active, morning runs and yoga are a part of my every day routine, besides that I love to grow my own food, experiment in cooking, do pencil sketching, read books sometimes and dance in the rain. I love rains. Music is always playing in the background and i travel for work. My skin is brown and I am 6'1".

Fun fact: I have successfully befriended a squirrel, she comes to my garden every morning to eat and she is very lovely.

I am looking for nothing and everything, something that starts with nothing and grows naturally into everything.

I should add some questions to make it more engaging, I hope it works lol:

Tell me a childhood memory that still sticks with you, any nostalgia moments of your life.

Or,

Tell me what simple things annoy you, pineapple on a pizza? cabinet doors left slightly ajar? Sandwiches cut into rectangles rather than triangles? Or something else...

This post might sound a mix of everything to you, and you might doubt about responding to me or not, lemme tell you a secret, we always tend to doubt the good, so if you are confused, just send a request and it might end up being your best decision ever!

Hope to see you soon, until than, take care! 💛

Heyy I told you to not click, now I'll have to write something good to make you stay and I am very bad at that.

Hello there, it's raining where I am right now. Cool breezy weather and a relief from the Heatwave.

What i'm looking for in a connection:

Meaningful conversations and a natural connection where we get to know each other. A private space with care, no judgments and mutual respect. Someone to share the laughs, inside jokes with, while building a lasting friendship and something meaningful if it naturally goes there.

A few things about me, including what I enjoy doing: i love growing food.. i have a small place of my own where I have grown many veggies and fruits, I love to cook, go for long walks and jogs, sketching(still learning tbh) and sometimes singing.. but in a closed room only, shhh it's a secret 🤫, I love listening to music and I travel for work.

A fun fact: I have successfully befriended a squirrel, she comes to my farm every morning to eat something, and she is very lovely.

I am 6'1, fit and active (though yummy food has always been my weakness), brown skin, married (in a complicated phase of life), have one son, a head full of hair, I am financially stable and emotionally available.

I'm looking for someone who hopefully laughs at my stupid jokes and groans when I tell them the worst puns. I'd love someone that enjoys telling me what they've got going on in life, things that make them happy and going.

We can take things at a pace that works for the both of us. With me, you're getting dependable attention: good mornings, good nights, what makes you smile, what makes you annoyed. I think all of that makes it special and beautiful.

Tell me, which childhood memory still sticks with you the most?

Tea + rain,

Power cuts nostalgia,

Monsoon vibes,

Or something else..

A mental and emotional bond is more important to me than looks, but I do understand that many people prioritize looks and I am willing to swap pictures whenever you feel like it.

Just be kind, genuine and yourself, you are welcome just as you are.

Send a simple Hi or a long reply, all sorts of responses are appreciated 😊

And sorry for the literal essay, I got carried away while typing.

Heyy I told you to not click, now I'll have to write something good to make you stay and I am very bad at that.

Well hello there, I am planning to make some yummy pasta today, come join me, let's eat together 😊

What i'm looking for in a connection:

Playful, meaningful conversations and a natural connection where we get to know each other. A private space with care, affection, no judgment, and full acceptance. Someone to share laughs, inside jokes, and those sparky butterflies again, while building a strong emotional bond and a lasting friendship, with mutual effort and a sense of exclusivity.

A few things about me, including what I enjoy doing: i love farming.. i have a small farm of my own where I have grown many veggies and herbs and it's my best stress buster, I love to cook, go for long walks, jogs, hikes, sketching(still learning tbh) and sometimes singing.. but in a closed room only, shhh it's a secret 🤫, I love listening to music and I travel for work.

A fun fact: I have successfully befriended a squirrel, she comes to my farm every morning to eat something, and she is very lovely.

I am 6'1, fit and active (though yummy food has always been my weakness), brown skin, Asian descent, married (in a complicated situation, not looking for a spouse bashing at all, just letting it out), have one daughter, a head full of hair, I am financially stable and emotionally available.

I'm looking for someone who hopefully laughs at my stupid jokes and groans when I tell them the worst puns. I'd love someone that enjoys telling me what makes them happy and going. We can take things at a pace that works for the both of us. I want to know all about you, what makes you smile, what makes you annoyed. I think all of that makes what comes after, so much more fun.

Tell me, what's a small thing that irrationally annoys you? Pineapple on Pizza? Sandwiches cut into half from the middle instead of in a triangle? Cabinet doors left slightly ajar? Or what else.

A mental and emotional bond is more important to me than looks, but I do understand that many people prioritize looks and I am willing to swap pictures whenever you feel like it.

Just be kind, genuine and yourself, all body types are welcome and all time zones are welcome.

Send a simple Hi or a long reply, all sorts of responses are appreciated 😊

And sorry for the literal essay, I got carried away while typing.

Ohh you bratt, I told you to not click, you are a rebel aren't yaa.. I think I like you already.

Well hello there, I am planning to make some yummy pasta today, come join me, let's eat together 😊

What i'm looking for in a connection:

Playful, meaningful conversations and a natural connection where we get to know each other. A private space with care, affection, no judgment, and full acceptance. Someone to share laughs, inside jokes, and those sparky butterflies again, while building a strong emotional bond and a lasting friendship, with mutual effort and a sense of exclusivity.

A few things about me, including what I enjoy doing: i love farming.. i have a small farm of my own where I have grown many veggies and herbs and it's my best stress buster, I love to cook, go for long walks, jogs, hikes, sketching(still learning tbh) and sometimes singing.. but in a closed room only, shhh it's a secret 🤫, I love listening to music and I travel for work.

A fun fact: I have successfully befriended a squirrel, she comes to my farm every morning to eat something, and she is very lovely.

I am 6'1, fit and active (though yummy food has always been my weakness), brown skin, Asian descent, married (in a complicated situation, not looking for a spouse bashing at all, just letting it out), have one daughter, a head full of hair, I am financially stable and emotionally available.

I'm looking for someone who hopefully laughs at my stupid jokes and groans when I tell them the worst puns. I'd love someone that enjoys telling me what makes them happy and going. We can take things at a pace that works for the both of us. I want to know all about you, what makes you smile, what makes you annoyed. I think all of that makes what comes after, so much more fun.

Tell me, what's a small thing that irrationally annoys you? Pineapple on Pizza? Sandwiches cut into triangles instead of down the middle? Cabinet doors left slightly ajar? Or what else.

A mental and emotional bond is more important to me than looks, but I do understand that many people prioritize looks and I am willing to swap pictures whenever you feel like it.

Just be kind, genuine and yourself, all body types are welcome and all time zones are welcome.

Send a simple Hi or a long reply, all sorts of responses are appreciated 😊

And sorry for the literal essay, I got carried away while typing.

Heyy I told you to not click, now I'll have to write something good to make you stay and I am very bad at that.

Hello there, it's raining where I am right now. Cool breezy afternoon and a relief from the Heatwave.

What i'm looking for in a connection:

Meaningful conversations and a natural connection where we get to know each other. A private space with care, no judgments and mutual respect. Someone to share the laughs, inside jokes with, while building a lasting friendship and something meaningful if it naturally goes there.

A few things about me, including what I enjoy doing: i love growing food.. i have a small place of my own where I have grown many veggies and fruits, I love to cook, go for long walks and jogs, sketching(still learning tbh) and sometimes singing.. but in a closed room only, I love listening to music and I travel for work.

A fun fact: I have successfully befriended a squirrel, she comes to my garden every morning to eat something, and she is very lovely.

I am considerably active (though yummy food has always been my weakness), morning yoga and jogs keep me sane than fit, brown skin, married (in a complicated phase of life), have one son, I am financially stable and emotionally available.

I'm looking for someone who hopefully laughs at my stupid jokes and groans when I tell them the worst puns. I'd love to know someone who enjoys telling me what they've got going on in life, things that make them happy and share a level of comfort to be able to tell our everyday ups and downs to each other and dive into thoughtful and meaningful conversations about life.

We can take things at a pace that works for the both of us. Tell me what makes you smile, what makes you annoyed. I think all of that makes it special and beautiful.

Tell me, which childhood memory still sticks with you the most?

Chai + rain,

Power cuts nostalgia,

Monsoon vibes,

Or something else..

A mental and emotional bond is more important to me than looks, but I do understand that many people prioritize looks and I am willing to swap pictures whenever you feel like it.

Just be kind, genuine and yourself, you are welcome just as you are.

Send a simple Hi or a long reply, all sorts of responses are appreciated 😊

And sorry for the literal essay, I got carried away while typing.