u/Admirable-Rip-8521

I can only cum from direct clitoral stimulation. When a partner tries to do this for me, it can take a long time for me to cum. When I do it myself or use a vibrator on my clit, I cum in about 5 minutes.

I've hesitated to use vibrators regularly because I'm worried I won't be able to cum without one. However I'm thinking maybe I should just lean into it and use one all the time, even when I'm with a partner.

My question is, how would you feel if your partner asked you to use a vibrator on her clit during foreplay or sex? Would it make you feel like she things you aren't capable? Like you've been replaced with a machine? Or would be be ok with it?

I'm 50F and just got out of a long marriage where the past 10 years there was no sex whatsoever. Since being single I have loved re-finding my sexuality but I'm worried maybe I'm going too far.

In the past two months I've had intercourse (with a condom) with two different men and I've given oral to 5 different men. Most of these have been one time hook-ups. I'm fielding a ton of requests from the online dating apps and meeting up with men of all ages. I'm scheduled to meet up with a guy next week who I've never met in person at an hourly hotel for sex which has been a fantasy of mine. Today I've been sexting with a 31yo and we're scheduled to meet up this afternoon and I'll probably hook up with him too. I'm masturbating to orgasm like 4-5 times a day.

It also doesn't help that my doctor prescribed me Wellbutrin for depression and one of the side effects is increased libido. I mean I'm not complaining. I just feel so horny all the time.

I'm having so much fun and I'm a sex positive person. So I don't think any of this is "bad" per se. But also this is new for me and I'm wondering if I'm doing too much too soon? Do I just go with this until I get sick of it or it stops being fun?

I'm 50F and just got out of a long marriage where the past 10 years there was no sex whatsoever. Since being single I have loved re-finding my sexuality but I'm worried maybe I'm going too far.

In the past two months I've had intercourse (with a condom) with two different men and I've given oral to 5 different men. Most of these have been one time hook-ups. I'm fielding a ton of requests from the online dating apps and meeting up with men of all ages. I'm scheduled to meet up with a guy next week who I've never met in person at an hourly hotel for sex which has been a fantasy of mine. Today I've been sexting with a 31yo and we're scheduled to meet up this afternoon and I'll probably hook up with him too. I'm masturbating to orgasm like 4-5 times a day.

It also doesn't help that my doctor prescribed me Wellbutrin for depression and one of the side effects is increased libido. I mean I'm not complaining. I just feel so horny all the time.

I'm having so much fun and I'm a sex positive person. So I don't think any of this is "bad" per se. But also this is new for me and I'm wondering if I'm doing too much too soon? Do I just go with this until I get sick of it or it stops being fun?