r/AskMen_NSFW

Hello, I am a married 36F. I have worked in the medical field most of my life. I have always hated my job and the hours it required me to work.

Two doors down from my house. A man and his family lived and he ran his own insurance office. He had a hard time keeping employees, as he keeps a staff of only two. His wife does administation from their home.

We were/are friendly neighbors, and my job disatisfaction was well known.

He offered to take me under his wing. Help and pay for my licesnes/training, and offered me more money and a better work/life balance.

Both me and my husband jumped at the oppurtunity. My now boss was true to his word and better. He started paying me right away so I could quit my job. He got me all the study material. He would spend 2-3 hours a day with me helping me. He took me too and from any classes or testing. Always being a gentleman/professional. Opening the door for me, bringing me coffe, giving compliments.

Are schedules fully aligned and we went to the gym together in the mornings, followed by breakfast.

This man is incredibly handsome and fit for an older man, he is always dressed well. He gives me compliments and light flirting all the time!

I began lusting for him in the worst way. I started wearing more revealing clothes at the office and at the gym. In turn he has been giving me more attention and texting me through out the day.

Neither of us talk about the sexual tension but it feels like we are both about to blow.

I am at the point that something needs to be said or done. I much prefer done. We are both married, I am not trying to change that. I NEED to physiclly be with this man even if just once.

Guys! What do I do?

She (48F) reached out to me (60M) in response to a "missed connections" posting and told me she's not the gal I was hunting for, but I'm a thirsty bastard and she didn't feel like a scammer, so we started chatting. Over a period of several weeks, I learn she's recently separated from her husband after over 20 years in a sexless and loveless marriage, but she's not looking because she thinks she's not dating material because she's ugly, fat, boring and doesn't want to get her hopes up. Her divorced friends who are dating have convinced her that men are horrible, and she's fine living alone for the rest of her life.

We finally met for coffee because she seemed interesting and we had developed the beginnings of a friendship while chatting. From how she describes herself, I expected a female quasimodo, but she's astonishingly pretty and genuinely fun to be with. After several weeks of meeting up and spending time together, I make a move on her and she responds in kind. My god she is ravenous and hungry and I love it.

I'm getting very attached to her, but I'm beginning to notice some red flags: please no photos on my socials because she's a very private person. I can't go to her house because she's not ready for her adult child to know she's dating. She doesn't want to be seen together in public if we're too near her home or place of work. She comes to my place early in the morning before work, after work, and on the weekends, but never any overnights. She parks her car several blocks away when visiting. I've met a couple of her friends but they're supposedly very religious and uptight so absolutely no PDA when they're around.

Writing this down, I think I already know the answer. Damn, I'm a cliche, aren't I?

I (25F) and my boyfriend (28M) will be spending a day together after not seeing each other for a few weeks due to work and personal issues. We have an amazing relationship and have great sex but I want to take it up a notch 😅. What are some things you look for in bed (or that you’ve enjoyed in the past) that have you absolutely shocked or replaying it constantly? I want it to be memorable, fun and out of the box.

I also want to mention that I can get super shy during sex for some reason and often get in my head when it comes to me being dominant or taking over.

Help me out guysss !!

Just wondering if those guys really exist. Do you have it? Were you diagnosed?
I saw videos online and read some stories but would love to know real experiences. Your struggles, joys and everything that goes with it.

Is it weird I love sucking my youngest kids dads dick ? Like watching him go from totally soft to completely hard Is a turn on

College girrrrl here! Why am I always in to the assholes? I continue to go after guys that are selfish and only seem to care about themselves being “taken care of” but it’s fucking hot to meeee lol I def have daddy issues 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️

Anyway! Thanks for listening! And I don’t plan on changing. I love what I love 🤣

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Do you have fantasies when you see slutty BBW’s in public? Or should I be good and put them away

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24F. I'm just curious and want a guys perspective. I've never been stimulated by inserting my own finger into my vagina. I just wanted to know if it's something guys do for the girls pleasure or if they like how it feels their self.

No reason behind this question. I’m just curious

I know the whole “outtie vs. innie” debate and bush/hairless thing too. Do guys actually care about this or is it just women? Do you guys notice small details about the girl you’re with or is just whatever?

Pensate che siano un potente turn off?

Due to some Life choices I stay away from monogamous relationships but I still have a few regulars that I sleep with but lately I've been wanting more aftercare but I don't really know a good way to ask them in the moment for just like cuddles and stuff I would love some advice

I’ve seen the “First Love” theory that guys never get over the first girl they ever loved and that they try to find her in another (and usually don’t?) How often do guys think about their exes whether in happy/unhappy relationships. Was it the girl, her characteristics, body? I’m curious to hear any thoughts.

Hey I’m a 24F* and I enjoy wearing a buttplug but I’m embarrassed about telling men. Do men enjoy seeing women in buttplugs? How do I go about telling a guy I want him to play with my ass?

Genuinely curious. Occasionally, I wake up horny in the middle of the night and want to wake my husband up. I know everyone is different, but what do you think your reaction would be?

42m here. I know there are a lot of guys who would happily at a minimum show off their biceps and calf muscles, and plenty that show their abs. Are there any guys like that that are the same way about their dicks? I come from a pretty conservative background when it comes to any sort of body exposure, even just taking shirts off. I’m curious how far things can swing any other direction for some people and if there are people for whom nudity is so normalized it’s no different then rolling up a sleeve and flexing.