Hi Guys,
I'm just curious, have any of you ever been told by a medical doctor that it's healthy to masturbate?
If you are a medical doctor, would you ever tell a patient it's good to masturbate?
27f, currently on a friend's trip to Mexico and I really want to climb my friend 27m like a tree. How should I go about it? Can be cautious or adventurous.
I don’t hookup much but this is more something to keep in mind in the future. I’ve heard people say women expect big dicks (or at least not small) when hooking up and will straight up reject you for not having one. (21m)
As a female who actually loves feeling a cock slap my face (or clit, Titts, ect) just curious if guys actually enjoy this? If so, why?
A friend of mine told me she one time as a joke sat on her boyfriends lap while he was shitting and it turned him on and now it’s a regular thing and they sometimes fuck while he’s sitting on the toilet. Has anyone else experienced this? What would make this hot for a guy?
It's been my routine since high school. There have been very few days when I haven't jerked off or fucked first thing in the morning as soon as I wake up.
Is it just me, a fucking horny dog, or do you too feel the same urge?
(47) (m) I'm looking for new ways to masturbate other than using just my hand I have toys but am bored with them I guess looking for unique ideas. Thanks for any feedback I get.
Just curious has anyone ever done NNN? If so what was your reason for doing it? Did you feel different? When you finally orgasmed how was that?
I lowkey wanna try it just to say I can but I never make it. My longest streak was 11 days. Real talk by the 8th day I started to get that blue ball feeling. I will say I did feel a tad more energized but that’s about it.
I can only cum from direct clitoral stimulation. When a partner tries to do this for me, it can take a long time for me to cum. When I do it myself or use a vibrator on my clit, I cum in about 5 minutes.
I've hesitated to use vibrators regularly because I'm worried I won't be able to cum without one. However I'm thinking maybe I should just lean into it and use one all the time, even when I'm with a partner.
My question is, how would you feel if your partner asked you to use a vibrator on her clit during foreplay or sex? Would it make you feel like she things you aren't capable? Like you've been replaced with a machine? Or would be be ok with it?
My new boyfriend (28, turns 29 soon) is the loveliest guy I’ve ever known. I’m trying not to ask much at all as I (28f) don’t want to come across in constant need for validation as that’s not what this is, but it’s just that due to my past with unfortunate non-consensual intimate interaction (which I told him about early on as he makes me feel safe).
For context -
I have given him oral fo\*\*play etc (fo\*\*play is both of our favourite and preferred intimacy over pen\*\*\*\*tive s\*\* if we had to choose. He admitted that to me first before I was going to admit. His turn on is giving fo\*\*play).
Long story but with him knowing my unfortunate past, he understandably wants me to initiate when I’m ready for physical intimacy like him giving me fo\*\*play, as my preferred fo\*\*play is unique to him. After communicating my preference, he said he’s never experienced my preference of fo\*\*play i.e. when a female has very sensitive cl\*\* so fin\*\*\*ing or immediate direct cl\*\* work is uncomfortable/ initially painful. And so general pressure over our full ge\*\*tal area with whole hand surrounding these areas/ clothed gr\*\*ding to build full ar\*\*sal is much more pleasurable to get to the mutual desired end point to lead to pen\*\*\*\*tion.
We started talking on hinge about 4 months ago, moved to whatsapp just under two weeks after, then 3 weeks in (since meeting on hinge) we met in person and had our first date (he asked me on a date, we planned it but it was refreshingly all initiated by him asking me what I’d like to do). The first date was so lovely, no awkward silences, just super open and honest without being too much for the first time meeting in person. It’s been so nice ever since. He’s mature, confident, empathetic, funny, and very kind. He knows what he wants and was open from the first date i.e. ready to settle down, wants a family etc but doesn’t want to waste anyone’s or his own time. I am exactly the same.
He assures me he is not losing interest and that a relationship is much more than sex, that his priorities are having things in common, morals, family, and sex comes after those (we have both admitted we needed some balance with physical attraction obviously which we are both v attracted to each other physically as well as personality) and he promised me that he would always be honest in telling me if he was losing interest etc. so far I have 0 reason to doubt him as he has always stuck to his word.
Even though he can afford it, he still lives with him parents whilst actively house hunting with mortgage advisor (I am also actively looking, we both were when we met which is so refreshing as we are both independent and want to have property in own name initially for investment and financial stability and independence initially, not for long term forever home yet). So so far we have only have a couple opportunities of having over night in private, one time on a city break holiday and another on a night away. So that’s a huge reason as to why this is still happening I.e. me with this intimacy hurdle. I usually feel comfort in getting intimate with someone over time I’ve gotten used to staying close with someone e.g. my ex had his own place so I would stay over a lot and then a few months in it just naturally happened when it felt right. But obviously my bf and I don’t have the luxury of that yet.
So my main question is to men, if you really like her and see long term, how long would you wait? (Considering the above context of possible rather than just this one question in isolation).
Have you guys ever got caught jerking off by a parent or a sibling? Was it really embarrassing or just normal?
It was just once or more times?
Hi, I’m cleaning and sorting all my clothes and I just have so many thongs that I just don’t want anymore. My bf jokingly said “sell them” and we laughed then really thought about it. I’m just wondering if people actually do buy used underwear and maybe a pic of me in them? Just a dumb thought prob just gonna end up tossing them. Thanks for the responses!! 23yof:)
(m)47 I have a higher sex drive than my wife so I will masturbate quite often but when I do and I have cum I feel like I did something wrong afterward and it makes me not want to when I am horny even though I know I'm not going to get any from my wife. Am I the only one who feels like this after they masturbate or is it only me.
26 F and I personally love anal. I offer it to a good deal of my partners and almost all instantly jump at it. Most say it’s either their first time or pretty much done it one other time. Basically is anal really that uncommon?
Say you get into a monogamous relationship with a girl and over time it becomes apparent that she doesn’t have much interest in you as a person and is in fact only using you for two things: Money and sex.
It’s not prostitution in the sense that you’re paying for sex. The sex is not for your benefit, nor is it on your schedule. Rather, she’s hitting you up as the mood strikes her, which is several times a week. She genuinely enjoys it and finds you very physically attractive. There is no doubt in your mind that you satisfy her.
You are also attracted to her, and the sex is great. She enjoys PIV, giving you blowjobs, and receiving cunnilingus. You both orgasm every time.
But, she’s also using you for money. Maybe you’re covering her bills, or you just hand her a stack of cash whenever she asks. Paying for all dates, transportation costs, and contraceptives is non-negotiable.
Romantic dates are few and far between, unless you’re taking her shopping or to a nice dinner. You know she’s not cheating, but she doesn’t like to discuss deep or emotional topics with you. She’s not interested in your hobbies, friends, or family. She’s content to go with you to family gatherings or hang out with your friends, and she brings you around hers if you ask, but she’d barely notice if you stopped. She’s not cruel, rude, or stuck up, just politely bored. She will break up with you if you cheat on her, but she’s not possessive and doesn’t care if you have female friends or spend time with your boys. She will not move in with you without a ring, cook for you, or clean your living space. She doesn’t want children.
The sex and the money are equally important to her. If you fail to meet her needs on either account, she will leave you without a second thought. As you come to realize, she sees you as little more than an anthropomorphized wallet and dildo.
How do you feel in this situation? Are you satisfied, or resentful? Does the relationship more or less satisfy your needs? How long would you stay in this relationship? Could you see yourself marrying her?
(F18)
Might have to do with having less clothes or lack of thereof haha but seriously it's always the case when weather gets hot Dms open and welcome
Genuine question. Ive saw stories about girls getting that as a request but ive never experienced that myself haha
Im just wondering if its actually a real fantasy or fetish.