Married 36F Lusting for Married 46m Boss. Help!
Hello, I am a married 36F. I have worked in the medical field most of my life. I have always hated my job and the hours it required me to work.
Two doors down from my house. A man and his family lived and he ran his own insurance office. He had a hard time keeping employees, as he keeps a staff of only two. His wife does administation from their home.
We were/are friendly neighbors, and my job disatisfaction was well known.
He offered to take me under his wing. Help and pay for my licesnes/training, and offered me more money and a better work/life balance.
Both me and my husband jumped at the oppurtunity. My now boss was true to his word and better. He started paying me right away so I could quit my job. He got me all the study material. He would spend 2-3 hours a day with me helping me. He took me too and from any classes or testing. Always being a gentleman/professional. Opening the door for me, bringing me coffe, giving compliments.
Are schedules fully aligned and we went to the gym together in the mornings, followed by breakfast.
This man is incredibly handsome and fit for an older man, he is always dressed well. He gives me compliments and light flirting all the time!
I began lusting for him in the worst way. I started wearing more revealing clothes at the office and at the gym. In turn he has been giving me more attention and texting me through out the day.
Neither of us talk about the sexual tension but it feels like we are both about to blow.
I am at the point that something needs to be said or done. I much prefer done. We are both married, I am not trying to change that. I NEED to physiclly be with this man even if just once.
Guys! What do I do?