u/Adu_True

36 [M4F] #UK - Bucks/London Experienced Dom seeking long-term submissive connection (single, partnered, or couple)

Hey

I’m a 36-year-old Dom based in Buckinghamshire with easy access to London. I’m 96kg, gym-active, and have been actively training and guiding subs and slaves for the past 17 years — both online and in real life. I’ve worked with complete newbies as well as very experienced players.

I’m looking for a long-term D/s connection where genuine submission, structure, and discipline are central. Whether you’re single, in an open relationship, or part of a couple, I’m open to exploring the right dynamic. I’m happy to lead one sub/slave or (in the right circumstances) guide a couple.

What I offer:

  • Clear rules, protocols, and structure
  • Consistent discipline and accountability
  • Training tailored to your needs and limits
  • Guidance that balances care with firmness

Sexual attraction matters to me, but the right submissive mindset is what truly draws me in. I value obedience, communication, and the desire to surrender control.

If you’re serious about submission and crave the discipline and direction I provide, I’d like to hear from you. Please introduce yourself properly in your message — age, location, experience level, what you’re hoping to find, and any hard limits. A photo will get a much faster reply.

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u/Adu_True — 3 days ago

Hey there,

I’m a 36-year-old white British Master/Dom based in Bucks with easy access into central London. I’ve been actively living this lifestyle since I was 19 – that’s seventeen years of real, hands-on experience guiding, training, and owning subs and slaves. I’ve worked with girls who were brand new and with experienced ones, and I’ve also spent time as a Bull for couples where the dynamic was already established. I know what it takes to build something that lasts.

I’m looking for a long-term connection – not casual play, not weekend scenes. I want a genuine power-exchange relationship where you understand that your submission is the foundation, and I take the responsibility that comes with ownership seriously. Whether you’re single and ready to be collared full-time, or you’re part of a couple looking to add a real Dom into the dynamic (cuck/hotwife, stag/vixen, or just me leading both of you), you’re welcome.

Physically: I’m 95 kg, gym-active, broad-shouldered and in good shape. I take care of myself and expect the same level of effort from you – sexual attraction and chemistry matter to me. But the most important thing is mindset. I’m drawn to someone who craves structure, discipline, and the freedom that comes from true surrender. Intelligence, loyalty, and the desire to please are non-negotiable.

For the right girl or couple, I’m also open to providing financial support – whether that’s helping with bills, setting you up in a place closer to me, or simply making your life easier so you can focus on serving. This isn’t a sugar arrangement with no strings; it’s part of the ownership dynamic for someone who proves she (or you both) are all in.

If you’re serious about long-term 24/7 D/s or M/s, send me a proper message. Tell me about you, your experience level, what you’re hoping to find, and why you think we might click. A photo (face + body) will get a faster reply – I’m happy to verify and share mine too.

No time-wasters, no endless chat without intent. If you’re ready to be claimed and shaped, I’m ready to lead.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

– Sir

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u/Adu_True — 15 days ago

[M4F] [M4MF] 36yo Experienced Master/Dom (Bucks/London) seeking long-term sub or slave – couples very welcome

Hey there,

I’m a 36-year-old white Master/Dom based in Bucks with easy access into central London. I’ve been actively living this lifestyle since I was 19 – that’s seventeen years of real, hands-on experience guiding, training, and owning subs and slaves. I’ve worked with girls who were brand new and with experienced ones, and I’ve also spent time as a Bull for couples where the dynamic was already established and brand new ones to the kink. I know what it takes to build something that lasts.

I’m looking for a long-term connection. I want a genuine power-exchange relationship where you understand that your submission is the foundation, and I take the responsibility that comes with ownership seriously. Whether you’re single and ready to be collared full-time, or you’re part of a couple looking to add a real Dom into the dynamic (cuck/hotwife, stag/vixen, or just me leading both of you), you’re welcome.

Physically: I’m 95 kg, gym-active. I take care of myself and expect the same level of effort from you – sexual attraction and chemistry matter to me. But the most important thing is mindset. I’m drawn to someone who craves structure, discipline, and the freedom that comes from true surrender. Intelligence, loyalty, and the desire to please are non-negotiable.

For the right girl or couple, I’m also open to providing financial support – whether that’s helping with bills, setting you up in a place closer to me, or simply making your life easier so you can focus on serving after a connection has been established. This isn’t a sugar arrangement with no strings; it’s part of the ownership dynamic for someone who proves she (or you both) are all in.

If you’re serious about long-term 24/7 D/s or M/s, send me a proper message. Tell me about you, your experience level, what you’re hoping to find, and why you think we might click. A photo (face + body) will get a faster reply – I’m happy to verify and share mine too.

No time-wasters, no endless chat without intent. If you’re ready to be claimed and shaped, I’m ready to lead.

Looking forward to hearing from you.

– Sir

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u/Adu_True — 15 days ago