u/Adventurebeginshere

48 [M4F] #online #UK #Anywhere- you looking for more?

Hello, thank you for reading my ad.

I am looking for a new sub who may be single or partnered ( vanilla) who may be on the lookout to enhance or explore her submissive side further. I value emotional intelligence, honest open communication, patience, and respect. I’m not here to rush into anything, but I am looking for a slow burner that allows me to indulge my passion for power exchange. So if you are looking for someone calm, emotionally aware, and gentle enough to guide you instead of judge, providing soft and firm guidance, honesty, challenge, and reassurance, then come and say hi.

I am diligent, caring, and hardworking with conservative views and dad bod. Age as above, good attitude / character with defined goals. I am a mentor and coach, so I will help you with your goals.

It is okay if you are unsure about the different dynamics within bdsm. Come and discuss each and explore whether we may be a good fit. We can also discuss our kinks, routines, rituals, and anything else that may help you have a deeper submissive experience. Are you clingy, needy, or bratty? No problem, I will not make you feel bad about this.

Hopefully, I hear from you xx

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u/Adventurebeginshere — 7 days ago

48 [M4F] #online #South, UK - a message to my new sub

Hi, I know you are exploring your submissive side at the moment - You are looking for a Dom who is affectionate and fair but also strict and not afraid to take on full control but also the responsibility that comes with it. Is your desire to submit to a Dom who will use you for his pleasure while mentally stimulated you. Do you love deep, meaningful, and complex discussions to the point of mental exhaustion? Do you crave orgasm control training and guidance in rewiring your brain to be the best version of yourself?

What I offer: Diligent, loving, caring, hardworking with conservative views and dad bod. Age as above, very disciplined in own life, enjoys leading and being in control of others. Obedience and commitment are important values to me in what I expect from myself and others. Good attitude / character with defined goals. I am a mentor and coach, so I will help you with your goals.

Important bit: I see the dynamic as under pinned by safety, sanity, and consensual relationships. Would you welcome an exploration of your hard and soft limits and boundaries to see if I can help you grow?

It is okay if you are unsure about the different dynamics within bdsm. Come and discuss each and explore whether we may be a good fit.

Let's chat about:

  1. Master and slave

  2. Dom and submissive

  3. Caregiver and little

  4. Dom/ bratty

You may have tendencies that cover all but may have more leans in one than the other. We can discuss the structure you need in your life, rewards, punishments, bondage, pain, rituals, goal setting, role play, edging or general sexting, etc. Anything that fits with the dynamic.

In addition, you love rules and structure/ discipline, but you are not good at that stuff. Ask me about this, including help with morning, day and evening routines, food, hydration, exercise, etc. Are you clingy, needy, or bratty? No problem, I will not make you feel bad about this.

You are single or partnered. I don't mind.

I would be interested in getting to know you first as part of understanding your needs. So, it's definitely a slow burner. Available to chat during the day and night, depending on our limits online. This dynamic with me would suit a girl who loves to banter and appreciates innuendos, adventure, and becoming a co-pilot.

Make a connection today. Thanks

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u/Adventurebeginshere — 11 days ago
▲ 2 r/BDSMPersonalsUK+1 crossposts

Hi, this is a message to my future Sub.

You are either a new sub looking to explore or a semi-experienced sub (of course always growing and learning) looking for an experienced Dom, to please and submit to in a long-term online only dynamic. You are looking for one who is affectionate and fair but also strict and not afraid to take on full control but also the responsibility that comes with it. Is your desire to submit to a Dom who will use you for his pleasure while mentally stimulated you. Do you love deep, meaningful, and complex discussions to the point of mental exhaustion? Do you crave orgasm control training and guidance in rewiring your brain to be the best version of yourself?

What I offer: Diligent, loving, caring, hardworking with conservative views and dad bod. Age as above, very disciplined in own life, enjoys leading and being in control of others. Obedience and commitment are important values to me in what I expect from myself and others. Good attitude / character with defined goals. I am a mentor and coach, so I will help you with your goals.

Important bit: I see the dynamic as under pinned by safety, sanity, and consensual relationships. Would you welcome an exploration of your hard and soft limits and boundaries to see if I can help you grow?

It is okay if you are unsure about the different dynamics within bdsm. Come and discuss each and explore whether we may be a good fit.

Let's chat about:

  1. Master and slave

  2. Dom and submissive

  3. Caregiver and little

  4. Dom/ bratty

You may have tendencies that cover all but may have more leans in one than the other. We can discuss the structure you need in your life, rewards, punishments, bondage, pain, rituals, goal setting, role play, edging or general sexting, etc. Anything that fits with the dynamic.

In addition, you love rules and structure/ discipline, but you are not good at that stuff. Ask me about this, including help with morning, day and evening routines, food, hydration, exercise, etc. Are you clingy, needy, or bratty? No problem, I will not make you feel bad about this.

You are single or partnered. I don't mind.

I would be interested in getting to know you first as part of understanding your needs. So, it's definitely a slow burner. Available to chat during the day and night, depending on our limits online. This dynamic with me would suit a girl who loves to banter and appreciates innuendos, adventure, and becoming a co-pilot.

Make a connection today. Thanks

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u/Adventurebeginshere — 16 days ago