u/AfternoonSquare6506

I’m 23F and I’ve been getting more curious about BDSM lately, but I have no idea where to actually start.

I’m wondering if it’s okay to explore things online first instead of jumping into anything IRL? I feel like I’d be way more comfortable staying anonymous at the beginning while I figure things out and learn what I’m even into.

Another thing is how finding a dom even works. Like what are some red flags vs green flags, and how do you tell if someone is actually legit and not just saying what you want to hear? Are there any apps or places that are good for beginners?

I’m not trying to rush into anything, just wanna learn, stay safe, and not do something dumb lol.

Would really appreciate any advice or tips

I’m thinking about trying Flingster for the first time, but I’m kinda scared someone might record me and post it online. Is there any way to tell if a guy is recording?