u/Agreeable-Cabinet502

This is the first time Im buying a sex toy online.

My first time sex toy ever actually.
I looked at shipping details and it said 2 business days for them to get it shipped, 7 days a refund but no estimate on when it will be coming.

My grandparents are leaving Sunday. They are religious so I don't want them seeing this.

So I can guarantee Im home/ they're away:

Those of you that bought from peepshow how many days should I expect?

Im 20F and buying my first sex toy.

Ive been doing some research but only just realized that maybe virginity can be a factor...

I know being on this sub I really dont sound like it but I am religious and waiting for marriage. I (obviously) want my first time to be special and maybe Im over thinking it but really dont want to "ruin" it..

My knowledge on sexual anatomy is limited but I believe when you first have sex you break the hymen... I believe that sex toys can do this as well right?

So is sex after you break the hymen different?

Does a guy ( or possible virgin guy ) notice?

Is it different for him?

I know Im over thinking this but you only get your first time once and I want to not make a mistake when choosing my sex toy of choice...

Thanks in advance..

Update:

Thanks for all your lovely advice.

I want to let everyone know that I read all the comments; I just don't have the time to reply to them as detailed as I want aside from a thank you!

I feel truly grateful of all the kind hearted people in this sub :D.

( less for then men pestering me in my DM's.. Im not going to answer, sorry. I literally said in the post im practicing no sex before marriage )

If anyone is curious I ordered the Pillow Talk Racy and a water based lubricant that should be here Monday.

I'm 20F and am in search of my first sex toy.

My parents are going out of town in 6 days so still have time. But gotta make it count.

For someone who hast had a sex toy before vibrators seem logical.

But dildo's seem so hot..

Already have the perfect location where I won't be bothered. The privacy of my car, just need my first toy to be perfect!​