u/Agreeable_Proof_9554

Hello!

For starters, no kids for me (I might want to adopt one though). I also want a pig and a dog. So, if you don’t like animals or can’t at least tolerate them, then we can’t be together. The end goal is (a monogamous D/s) marriage.

About Me:

- 5’4”, average body size (HWP), East Asian, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, medium-light tone skin.

- Take care of my physical and mental health. I workout everyday (and fun fact, I can hold a low plank for 3 minutes) and eat very healthy.

- Introverted and will probably be very shy if I meet you for the first time.

- Extremely ambitious, hard-working, compassionate, funny, weird in a good way, sarcastic, and honestly a genius.

- As much as I have those traits above, I have my feminine side like getting dressed up, making a house feel like a home, being nurturing, and I love animals and children. (It just takes a lot to get this side out of me).

- How I spend my day: Work (entrepreneur/content creator/author), more work, and more work (and heads up if this matters to you: I don’t make a lot as of the moment). Then of course I do my hobbies and relax on the weekend.

- Some of my interests include: reading, podcasts, piano, volunteering, long walks, and a lot more that I won’t list here otherwise there would be too much.

About You/Non-Negotiables:

- Don’t have any kids and don’t want any, not married, nor separated, nor in a relationship.

- From Canada (and are willing to relocate).

- Age: 35+

- No drugs, drinking, or smoking (no vaping or edibles).

- Physical and mental health in check, workout/take care of your health, eat healthy.

- Ambitious and hard working (It would make me feel weird if I’m more ambitious/hard-working than you, so these are definitely non-negotiables).

- Educated and knowledgeable (I just finished my degree - BSc, so it’d be nice if you have at least some sort of education.

- Enjoy deep conversations.

About the dynamic:

I’m looking basically for a lifestyle 24/7 Dom/sub dynamic (TPE to an extent) including routines, structure, rituals, protocols, check-ins, power exchange, the Dom making (certain) decisions for me, etc. Psychological dominance and submission is a must. I see a D/s dynamic as something innate, not an on or off switch. So, if your answer as to why you are a Dominant is simply “I like to have control”, don’t bother messaging. As for the more “kinky” side of things, though I’m not vanilla, I would probably be considered as “tame”.

Also, if you’re the type of guy who spells properly and uses proper punctuation, you get +100 points. I’m not asking for perfection, but good grammar is something I really like.

So, if you’ve made it down here and you’re interested or curious to know more, please send me your ASL, a description of what you look like, any other pertinent information you think would be nice for me to know, and your answer to this question: What is one thing you changed your mind on in the past 3 years? And why?

Hi!

For starters, the end goal is (a monogamous D/s) marriage. Obviously at the start, there’s no pressure as I’d like to know you as a friend first. Also, no biological kids for me (I either don’t want kids or am looking to possibly adopt one). I also want a pig and a dog. So, if you don’t like animals or can’t at least tolerate them, then we can’t be together.

About Me:

- 5’4”, average body size (HWP), East Asian, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, medium-light tone skin.

- Take care of my physical and mental health. I workout everyday (and fun fact, I can hold a low plank for 3 minutes) and eat very healthy. To an average person, my diet might make me seem like a freak, but I think it’s normal, and hopefully you think it’s normal too.

- Introverted and will probably be very shy when I meet you for the first time.

- Extremely ambitious, hard-working, compassionate, funny, weird in a good way, sarcastic, and honestly a genius.

- As much as I have those traits above, I have my feminine side like getting dressed up, making a house feel like a home, being nurturing, and I love animals and children. (It just takes a lot to get this side out of me).

- How I spend my day: Work (entrepreneur/content creator/author), more work, and more work (and heads up if this matters to you: I don’t make a lot as of the moment). Then of course I do my hobbies and relax on the weekend.

- Some of my interests include: reading, podcasts, piano, volunteering, long walks, and a lot more that I won’t list here otherwise there would be too much lol!

- Most importantly, I’m kind of a brat. I’m still a good listener though, I promise :)

About You/Non-Negotiables:

- Don’t have any kids and don’t want any, not married, nor separated, nor in a relationship.

- From Canada or the US at least (and willing to relocate).

- Age: 35+ (I can be a little flexible on this)

- No drugs, drinking, or smoking (no vaping or edibles).

- Physical and mental health in check, workout/take care of your health, eat healthy. (Hypothetically, if this works out, I don’t want any sort of junk food/heavily processed foods - and especially no pork in the house - I eat a very clean and simple diet).

- Ambitious and hard working (It would make me feel weird if I’m more ambitious/hard-working than you).

- Educated and knowledgeable (I just finished my degree - BSc, so it’d be nice if you have at least some sort of education. I also love learning and enjoy reading, so it’d be nice if we can learn from each other).

- Enjoy deep conversations.

- Caring, stern, gentle Dom.

About the dynamic:

I’m looking basically for a lifestyle 24/7 Dom/sub dynamic (but not necessarily TPE) including routines, structure, rituals, protocols, check-ins, power exchange, the Dom making (certain) decisions for me, etc. Psychological dominance and submission is a must. I see a D/s dynamic as something innate, not an on or off switch. So, if your answer as to why you are a Dominant is simply “I like to have control”, don’t bother messaging. As for the more “kinky” side of things, though I’m not vanilla, I would probably be considered as “tame”.
And, I’m not looking for sadism, masochism, or anything that inflicts pain. I’m not into that.

Also, if you’re the type of guy who spells properly and uses proper punctuation, you get +5 points. I’m not asking for perfection, but good grammar is something I really like.

So, if you’ve made it down here and you’re interested or curious to know more, please send me your ASL, a description of what you look like (or a photo is even better), any other pertinent information you think it would be nice for me to know, and your answer to this question: What is one thing you changed your mind on in the past 3 years? And why?

Hi!

For starters, the end goal is (a monogamous D/s) marriage. Obviously at the start, there’s no pressure as I’d like to know you as a friend first. Also, no kids for me. I’d rather have a pig and a dog. So, if you don’t like animals or at least tolerate them, then we can’t be together.

About Me:
- 5’4”, average body size (HWP), East Asian, long straight black hair, dark brown eyes, medium-light tone skin.
- Take care of my physical and mental health. I workout everyday (and fun fact, I can hold a low plank for 3 minutes) and eat very healthy. To an average person, my diet might make me seem like a freak, but I think it’s normal, and hopefully you think it’s normal too.
- Introverted and will probably be very shy when I meet you for the first time.
- Extremely ambitious, hard-working, compassionate, funny, weird in a good way, sarcastic, and honestly a genius.
- How I spend my day: Work (entrepreneur/content creator/author), more work, and more work (and heads up if this matters to you: I don’t make a lot as of the moment). Then of course I do my hobbies and relax on the weekend.
- Some of my interests include: reading, podcasts, piano, volunteering, long walks, and a lot more that I won’t list here otherwise there would be too much lol!
- Most importantly, I’m kind of a brat. I’m still a good listener though, I promise :)

About You/Non-Negotiables:
- Don’t have any kids and don’t want any, not married, nor separated, nor in a relationship.
- From Canada or the US at least (and willing to relocate).
- Age: 35+ (I can be a little flexible on this)
- No drugs, drinking, or smoking (no vaping or edibles).
- Physical and mental health in check, workout/take care of your health, eat healthy. (Hypothetically, if this works out, I don’t want any sort of junk food/heavily processed foods - and especially no pork in the house - I eat a very clean and simple diet).
- Ambitious and hard working (It would make me feel weird if I’m more ambitious/hard-working than you).
- Educated and knowledgeable (I just finished my degree - BSc, so it’d be nice if you have at least some sort of education. I also love learning and enjoy reading, so it’d be nice if we can learn from each other).
- Enjoy deep conversations.
- Caring, stern, gentle Dom.

About the dynamic:
I’m looking basically for a lifestyle 24/7 Dom/sub dynamic (not necessarily TPE) including routines, structure, check-ins, power exchange, the Dom making (certain) decisions for me, etc. And I’m not looking for sadism nor masochism. I’m not into that.

Also, if you’re the type of guy who spells properly and uses proper punctuation, you get +5 points. I’m not asking for perfection, but good grammar is something I really like.

So, if you’ve made it down here and you’re interested or curious to know more, please send me your ASL, a description of what you look like (or a photo is even better), any other pertinent information you think it would be nice for me to know, and your answer to this question: What is one thing you changed your mind on in the past 3 years? And why?