I could lead with all the cliches: not looking to change your situation or mine; looking for a connection; the slow burn ... and so many more. How do you find that when all the posts read the same? It turns out I might not be that different from most of the other middle-aged men posting here looking for a secret girlfriend here on Reddit.
I'm hoping to find someone who is there to say good morning to, and chat throughout the day. Talk about meaningless parts of our day, the important stuff, and more. I'm here for it all. And along the way, we'll find ourselves flirting away and smiling at our phones. Ideally we each find the person that we just can’t get enough of.
I’m a dad, have a busy job, and all the things that look good on paper. Is that you too? Things aren’t all bad at home, but the bedroom has died. If you give me free time, you’ll find me outside — doing something active. I’m pretty easy going, and save my big opinions for less important things (like chocolate!).
There are so many factors that make this a tricky game -- time zones, time in general, do personalities click, etc. So why not take a chance and see if we can find that "connection" everyone wants? If any of this catches your eye, let's jump into a conversation ... here questions to get us started:
\- Do you prefer milk or dark chocolate?
\- What is your alcoholic beverage of choice?
\- If money is no object, where would your next vacation be?