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When I first started, I thought that prostate orgasms are a myth. That its a huge exaggeration of some nice sensations you get from anal play.

I was so wrong… first time I had prostate orgasm, I was shocked that its actually a real thing.

So I thought, ok, prostate orgasms are real, but I’m 100% sure that you can only get one of two 10 second orgasms and thats it. I read about aneros users reporting 10-20 minute long orgasms, and thought its a bit of an exaggeration.

I was so wrong… when I learned to orgasm with aneros, I started to get continuous almost infinite orgasms. Mindblowing..

Then I thought, ok, aneros works because its such a subtle and precise tool to stimulate prostate, for sure you cant get any results with dildos. They are too aggressive and overwhelming to make you orgasm.

I was so wrong… turned out that dildos work absolutely amazing. They stimulate everything from anus to the depths of anal cavity, and orgasms they bring are next level.

Then I didnt believe that you can orgasm whilst riding a dildo instead of laying still, I was wrong about that too, then came realisation that I can orgasm standing in the shower, jumping on my bed, orgasming with fingers, orgasming without anything in my ass at all…

And the latest discovery became vibrators.
Today I decided to try my old prostate vibrator. Holy shit I had an amazing session. I was orgasming for hours until the battery died. I read on forums that vibrations hide subtle sensations that lead to dry orgasms, but people on forums were wrong too. Vibrations are amazing. I was overwhelmed by pulsating rhythm of constant vibrations, felt like I was being fucked non stop and had wave after wave of amazing deep orgasms.

So next logical step for me is trying out fuck machines. I think that people who say that they have amazing orgasms with fuck machines are exaggerating a bit.

I’m sure that I am wrong

Hey everyone!

Over the years I realised that one of the most important pieces of getting an amazing prostate orgasm is the right mindset.
Whatever sensations I have physically, if I’m not in the moment mentally, I cant come, or I get smaller and weaker waves of orgasms.

I cant figure out why sometimes it just clicks and I’m fully engaged in action, and sometimes I start to get either intrusive thoughts or just feel kinda “shallow” not fully submerged in the session and sensations.
For those who have mastered this side of prostate play, what is your technique to get into the right mindset reliably every session? Do you meditate, control your thought process or just wait until you are sure to be in the right mindset from the start?

Any tips would be greatly appreciated!
Stay horny and cum a lot :)

Hey guys! Just finished another amazing session and decided to give a few tips that might help someone to achieve amazing long hands free prostate orgasm.

1. lube lube lube! Good lube helps so much. One of my recent discoveries is silicone lube with Progasm Ice. Silcky silicone texture along with the smooth surface of Progasm Ice is an incredible combination that sends waves of pleasure right after insertion. There doesnt need to be a ton of lube, dont drown your ass in it, it might be even counterproductive, as you might not feel the toys texture which it a big part of the experience. Apply just enough to have a smooth ride without the toy feeling “grabby”

2. going slow and easy. I find that slow and light motions bring stronger and longer waves of orgasm. Prostate loves super tender stimulation. Ramming it might feel good, but to get to the O zone its best to be as gentle as possible. If you start to feel pressure and pleasure when your are going slow and gentle that already means that you are 70% there.
   I like to think of it as sucking with your ass on a toy

3. porn might help. Theres a popular opinion here that pornography distracts from the sensations. It might be true for a lot of people, but I think that there is a lot of people like me to whom porn can be a great helper. In general just like traditional orgasms, prostate orgasms happen when you are the most aroused, and porn can be the factor that helps to stay aroused during the session. I personally cant even cum without porn, and I guess younger guys like me might feel the same way. Maybe in a long run its best to quit porn for a better mental health and other reasons, but as for achieving results with prostate play, it can definitely help

4. find your favourite position. It needs to be a position in which you are comfortable and you feel stimulation the most. I prefer laying on my side with both knees slightly bent. I can stay in this position for hours without getting tired. I heard that a lot of guys prefer to lay on their back, which might be the way for many, but I personally cant feel my prostate as well as when I lay on my side. Bottom line is that there is no universal position, and whatever anyone recommends might work for one person but not for another. Everyone should listen to their own bodies and experiment what positions work best for them. But the key is always being comfortable enough to stay like this for hours. However this brings me to my next tip:

5. dont overdo it. We all know how easy it is to get lost in the session and loose the track of time. But I think that in order to achieve consistent results, sessions shouldn’t last more than one hour, or a few orgasms, whatever comes first. When you play for more than an hour at a time, prostate tends to loose its sensitivity quite quickly. The pleasure is still there but to chase it you might need to apply more force which in the end just tires you, your prostate, wastes a lot of time and gets you nowhere. As per tip number 2, its important to be easy on your prostate if you want it to be super sensitive and be able to orgasm quickly and reliably. After you train your prostate and your mind to have shorter sessions, any session will be a lot more intense with quicker orgasmic onsets.

That’s all for now. These tips are based on my personal experience Of course, opinions may vary, so feel free to take it with a grain of salt :)