u/AlternativeRush7301

40 [M4F] #Atlanta – Firm, loving DD looking for his soft, sweet lg

Hi there. I’m 40, 5’10”, 170, white, fit and athletic, a dog dad, a homeowner, and established in my career. I’ve built a stable, peaceful life and want to find my good lg to share it with.

I’m deeply affectionate, attentive, protective, and emotionally present. I value connection, long conversations, quality time together, and all the soft, romantic parts of a loving relationship. I want you to feel cared for, listened to, cherished, and safe enough to fully relax into me.

I’m naturally dominant and enjoy leading with calm confidence, structure, and consistency. I want a sweet lg who genuinely enjoys following my lead, making me happy, and building a deeply connected dynamic together. I can be firm, but always loving. The goal is never control for its own sake, but creating something stable, intimate, playful, and deeply fulfilling for both of us.

I want a relationship full of closeness and affection:

  • holding hands everywhere
  • cuddling constantly
  • forehead kisses
  • long walks
  • eating together
  • reading to you
  • pampering you
  • and lots and lots of playtime

I want to guide you, teach you, spoil you a little, and make you feel completely adored while also helping you become the perfect lg for me.

If you’re soft, affectionate, emotionally open, and want a DD who can both care for you and confidently take the lead, I’d love to hear from you.

Photos are on my profile and DMs are open. If this speaks to you, tell me who you are, what you’re looking for, and how you see yourself in a dynamic like this.

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u/AlternativeRush7301 — 15 days ago

Hi there. I’m 40yo, 5’10”, 170, white, fit and athletic. I’m looking for a submissive woman of any background who is interested in an ongoing M/s dynamic and possibly a long-term relationship if we hit it off.

I’m a nice, easygoing guy and respectful of boundaries. I’m happy to meet in public first and get to know each other a bit until we are comfortable. I’m not in a rush and would rather find someone I really click with. I also value regular dialogue to make sure we stay aligned and are both having fun.

Top kinks include free use, cockwarming, and body worship; but I’m open to much more. I’m never violent and not interested in causing pain or harm, but I can be rough and demanding, and I like long sessions or even all-day use. You should be prepared to submit to hours of hard, physically grueling use.

Photos are on my profile and DMs are open. If you’re interested, please reach out and tell me who you are, what you are looking for, and how you need to be used.

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u/AlternativeRush7301 — 16 days ago

I’m a man who values stability, connection, and creating a safe, loving space for someone to fully relax into. I’m looking for a young woman who wants a relationship where she can feel cared for, protected, listened to, and deeply cherished, while also being guided by a man who leads with strength and intention.

At my core, I’m a provider and a caretaker. I want to be someone you can lean on completely. I want to hold you close, listen to you when you need to talk, comfort you when you’re overwhelmed, and create a space where you feel safe being soft, vulnerable, and fully yourself. I’m affectionate, attentive, and naturally nurturing in how I show up for someone I care about.

At the same time, I’m naturally very dominant. I take the lead, set the tone, and provide structure and direction. I can be gentle and patient when you need it, but also firm and assertive when required. I believe the best dynamics are built on trust, where you feel safe enough to let go and follow my lead because you know I’m looking out for you.

In a romantic and physical sense, I’m very affectionate and passionate. I enjoy a dynamic where I can take full initiative and lead, while staying closely attuned to you. That can be soft, playful, and nurturing, or more intense depending on the moment. Either way, your comfort, enjoyment, and well-being always come first.

I’m looking for someone who wants that balance, someone who wants to be doted on, cared for, and guided, but who also desires a man who can take full control when the moment calls for it. Someone who wants to feel safe enough to give herself over to that dynamic over time.

Outside of that, I’m easygoing and grounded. I enjoy quiet time together, long conversations, checking in throughout the day, building routines, staying active, walking our dogs, spending time with family, and building a peaceful, stable life together.

About Me

  • 40, 5’10”, fit
  • Single, never married, no kids
  • Open to marriage and kids
  • Stable career in tech
  • Homeowner outside Atlanta
  • Christian (faith is important, but not rigid)
  • Work from home, flexible
  • Light drinker, non-smoker
  • Dog owner of a super sweet pit mix

What I’m Looking For

  • Single F, US-based
  • Sweet, affectionate, and emotionally open
  • Wants a caring, protective, and attentive partner
  • Comfortable with a man who leads, but values mutual trust and communication
  • Interested in a ddlg or cg/l dynamic built over time
  • Values consistency, affection, and a close daily connection
  • Open to eventual relocation
  • Loves dogs

Next Steps

Photos are on my profile and DMs are open. If this speaks to you, tell me who you are, what you’re looking for, and how you see yourself in a life like this.

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u/AlternativeRush7301 — 24 days ago

I am looking for a woman who desires complete submission, someone who wants to give up control of her life to a man capable of leading it fully, across every aspect of life.

I lead. I decide. I set the structure, the standard, and the direction of everything we do. Calm and protective when needed. Firm and demanding when required. Always controlled and intentional.

TPE means you do not carry the burden of control and decision-making. You give that to me. Your role is to follow, align, and submit fully within the life I build for us. You find peace in giving up control and fulfillment in belonging completely.

You want to be led, owned and dominated by a man who does not waver. You want a man who sets the pace, takes full control, and drives the intensity. You crave a dynamic that is frequent, physically demanding, and entirely led by me.

I decide when. I decide how. You respond immediately and without hesitation. You orient your schedule around mine and take pride in being available to me from the moment I wake until the moment I go to bed. You eagerly submit to hours of heavy use each day.

In return, I take full responsibility for you.

Your stability, safety, growth, and fulfillment fall under my authority. I provide, create order, remove chaos, and build a life where your purpose is clear and your place is secure. Your world becomes simpler and more focused.

You will maintain strong relationships with friends and family and continue to engage in your own interests, but your duty to me comes first.

This dynamic is 24/7, but I also value light-hearted moments. I enjoy deep conversations, being affectionate, shared activities and routines, time with friends and family, long walks with our dogs, and building a life that is both structured and genuinely fulfilling.

About Me

  • M, 40, 5’10”, white, single, fit, disciplined
  • Never married and no kids, but open to both
  • Work out daily, avid tennis player
  • Homeowner in a suburb of Atlanta (quiet and wooded, but with convenience nearby)
  • Educated, established career in tech
  • Christian (faith matters, but is not rigid)
  • Light drinker, non-smoker
  • Work from home, flexible, open to distance within the US
  • Dog owner of a very friendly pit mix

What I’m Looking For

  • F, any background, thin or curvy (I like both!)
  • Single, no kids
  • US-based and open to eventual relocation
  • Naturally submissive and fulfilled by strong leadership
  • Desires a true 24/7 TPE dynamic
  • Values structure, consistency, and clear roles
  • Must love dogs

Next Steps

Photos are on my profile and DMs are open. If this speaks to you, tell me who you are, what you’re looking for, and how you see yourself in a dynamic like this.

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u/AlternativeRush7301 — 25 days ago