(Dear mods - if this is not allowed, just lmk but I’m sincerely just trying to improve my post and didn’t see an explicit rule about not soliciting advice)
Here’s what I’ve got:
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30 [M4F] this passionate, loyal, devoted man is yearning for a collar #Tennessee
About Me:
Warm, playful, and grounded partner who values trust, honesty, and good communication. A submissive-leaning switch who’s emotionally present, consistent, and attentive without being overwhelming. Brings great conversation, emotional support, amazing food, book recommendations, and tech help (love problem-solving).
Outside of work, you’ll find me on the tennis court, behind a camera, cooking something new, hiking a new trail, or fixing/building things whether it’s furniture or tech. I’m ambitious, creative, kind, and loyal. Thrive on curiosity, adventure, and have playful streaks.
I take pride in how I present myself, but underneath it all, I’m a bit of a nerd. I’m 5’10”, fit but not overly muscular, active in local sports leagues, and I take care of myself without obsessing over it.
I’m naturally attentive and intentional and I care about creating a dynamic that feels good for both of us. I lean toward submission because I enjoy letting go and giving that control to someone I trust, but I’ve learned to be self aware and clear about my boundaries. I’m very open with communication, am consistent, and value trust, so I expect the same. I want to be with the right person so I can be fully present, engaged, and genuinely invested in building something that has both structure and connection, not just surface level play.
What I’m Looking For:
I’m looking for a long term relationship that involves an emotional and intellectual connection along with a femdom dynamic! Someone who wants to explore kink together with curiosity, communication, and fun. I usually vibe with serious yet playful. I’m happy to try almost anything once. If it makes you happy and it’s safe, I’m probably into it. Ultimately, I’d love to find something real that could grow into more.
My type is a woman who’s kind, warm, and nurturing. I’m naturally attracted to a caring and supportive nature. I value ambition, intelligence, and success in someone’s career. Hope to find someone that carries herself with confidence, class, and independence. I love people that bring thoughtful perspectives, who are curious and intellectually engaged. And bold enough to challenge me and keep me on my toes! I’d like to share an active, healthy lifestyle that is playful, full of spontaneity and joy. What matters most though is that she’s genuine, thoughtful, and instinctively caring. Someone who not only supports me but also brings stability, intimacy, and a spark that keeps our connection exciting and meaningful.
If this sounds like a fit, shoot me a DM! I’ll try to respond to everyone and am happy to share more privately.
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Let me know if you have any thoughts! Thanks!