u/Apprehensive_Sun4059

I have a client that I see once a month for two hours. He is a foot guy. I agreed to let him have a $50 discount because he buys shoes every month “for me” even though they are clearly not for me.

The issue is, he will not stop texting me. From the minute I get up until I go to sleep every single day. Probably 30 or more texts a day. Then, he gets upset when I dont respond in his timeline.

I have explained that I have run a housekeeping business so I can’t respond much and when i am with my clients… any of them… they get the same treatment he gets and I put the phone up when with them.

He is really nice and the money is great considering I lay there pretending Im not there so he can do foot worship, I kick him in the nether region once or twice in my new shoes and leave but the excessive texting makes it not worth it to me.

Should i charge per text? Then maybe he will be more aware of the amount of texting he is doing?
Do you charge?
If so, how much?
If not, what do you do to get clients you want to keep as a client to stop texting you constantly besides what I have already done?

Thanks

I am constantly being asked if I have a friend who could join sometime by my clients. They must think I have a girl hiding in the other room that I can bring out on demand.

I used to offer services to couples but stopped because I didn’t ever get real inquiries, just men pretending to be a couple who later hired me for their own company.

The only time I got a girl to join with a client, my client then went behind my back and started seeking her out. She told me he was trying to book her a few days later.

I understand that clients can see who they want but, as I explained to him, if you come over to the Honda dealership to look at vehicles, you don’t have the salesperson then call the Toyota dealership down the street to bring some cars to look at during the same visit. I felt like I served up my competition on a silver platter.

Lately, it seems I am constantly being asked if I have a friend to the point where I tell them no and then they still bring it up every session as if something has changed.

Today, I have a client who wants to bring someone… a female. This could be another escort, his wife, girlfriend… I have no idea because I honestly haven’t even decided how to respond. He is a regular client but this is pushing the envelope for me.

Any time a client asks if I have a friend it’s like my excitement level goes from a 10 to a 2. Maybe I am taking it personally because I find myself thinking, “am I not enough?” Or, “they can’t even go a few minutes with me what are they going to do with 2 of us? “

Am I being weird about this situation?

For context, I used to enjoy the company of women when I was in my 20’s. I am 42 now and I just don’t have any interest in them. When I did hook up with them it in my 20’s, I was always intoxicated. I am sober now and do not partake in drugs or alcohol.