u/ArchibaldDecker

Hi there! I am a 25 year old sub looking for a Domme local to Arizona that would be interested in building a dynamic with a new sub. I have been into bdsm/femdom since I was around 18 but have never really had an opportunity to submit for someone in person, although I have had a lot of experience with online play.

I am hoping to find someone that wants to build a long lasting relationship but am open to short term as long as we are clear with boundaries/expectations.

Currently I am working full time in my field of study which I have a Master’s degree in. I am very nerdy and spend a lot of my free time playing DnD, MTG, playing board games, binging TV shows, or playing video games. I tend to get really flustered trying to flirt with strangers in person which is why I am looking on here :)

I don’t want to talk too much about my kinks on here because I really don’t want it to seem like I am just looking for someone that checks marks on my list of kinks. But in general I am looking for someone that enjoys changing between a rough-degrading and gentle-supportive style of control. The primary kinks I believe I would enjoy are orgasm control, chastity, pegging, anal training, bondage, impact play, service, spanking, body worship, breath play, and playful degradation-humiliation.

The most important thing I have learned from my experiences with online play is that open communication about each other’s wants/needs is critical so that neither party feels like they a being used/ignored.

There are a few pics on my profile so you can see a bit what I look like, but I also have a short trimmed beard and upper to mid back length hair.

Please message me your favorite season as the first part of your response so I know you aren’t a random bot account :)

Hi there! I am a 25 year old sub looking for a Domme local to Arizona that would be interested in building a dynamic with a new sub. I have been into bdsm/femdom since I was around 18 but have never really had an opportunity to submit for someone in person, although I have had a lot of experience with online play.

I am hoping to find someone that wants to build a long lasting relationship but am open to short term as long as we are clear with boundaries/expectations.

Currently I am working full time in my field of study which I have a Master’s degree in. I am very nerdy and spend a lot of my free time playing DnD, MTG, playing board games, binging TV shows, or playing video games. I tend to get really flustered trying to flirt with strangers in person which is why I am looking on here :)

I don’t want to talk too much about my kinks on here because I really don’t want it to seem like I am just looking for someone that checks marks on my list of kinks. But in general I am looking for someone that enjoys changing between a rough-degrading and gentle-supportive style of control. The primary kinks I believe I would enjoy are orgasm control, chastity, pegging, anal training, bondage, impact play, service, spanking, body worship, breath play, and playful degradation-humiliation.

The most important thing I have learned from my experiences with online play is that open communication about each other’s wants/needs is critical so that neither party feels like they a being used/ignored.

There are a few pics on my profile so you can see a bit what I look like, but I also have a short trimmed beard and upper to mid back length hair.

Please message me your favorite season as the first part of your response so I know you aren’t a random bot account :)

Hi there! I am a 25 year old sub looking for a Domme local to Arizona that would be interested in building a dynamic with a new sub. I have been into bdsm/femdom since I was around 18 but have never really had an opportunity to submit for someone in person, although I have had a lot of experience with online play.

I am hoping to find someone that wants to build a long lasting relationship but am open to short term as long as we are clear with boundaries/expectations.

Currently I am working full time in my field of study which I have a Master’s degree in. I am very nerdy and spend a lot of my free time playing DnD, MTG, playing board games, binging TV shows, or playing video games. I tend to get really flustered trying to flirt with strangers in person which is why I am looking on here :)

I don’t want to talk too much about my kinks on here because I really don’t want it to seem like I am just looking for someone that checks marks on my list of kinks. But in general I am looking for someone that enjoys changing between a rough-degrading and gentle-supportive style of control. The primary kinks I believe I would enjoy are orgasm control, chastity, pegging, anal training, bondage, impact play, service, spanking, body worship, breath play, and playful degradation-humiliation.

The most important thing I have learned from my experiences with online play is that open communication about each other’s wants/needs is critical so that neither party feels like they a being used/ignored.

There are a few pics on my profile so you can see a bit what I look like, but I also have a short trimmed beard and upper to mid back length hair.

Please message me your favorite season as the first part of your response so I know you aren’t a random bot account :)