u/Arniyamarlowe

25 [F4M] #Online #NYC Looking for a fit sub guy

I'm looking for a Fit guy for an online relationship. Someone with a need to submit and be a good boy. I'm into chastity key holding and genuine connection. I belive in both physical and psychological control is beautiful and connecting. I need to see you and speak to you and we will be having long conversations if we connect. tell me about you why u need this and send me a few pics, ill decide and let u know

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u/Arniyamarlowe — 7 days ago

Looking for a submissive guy same age or younger for online play. Prefer to have a guy ok with my time zone. We will be calling and talking about how we will proceed. U must be able have a genuine need to follow my commands. I can be nurturing and clearing also strict so tell me about u and why u need this. I'm into remote toys chastity cage joi edging and very open minded about many kinks.

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u/Arniyamarlowe — 17 days ago

Hi. I’ve always been a strict, controlling, and dominant girlfriend in my past relationships, and that dynamic is something I genuinely enjoy and embrace. I’m naturally drawn to having a strong sense of control, both physically and mentally, and I find fulfillment in guiding, shaping, and deeply connecting with someone who craves that kind of presence in their life.

Right now, I’m looking for a fit, younger guy who feels a natural pull toward seeking approval and structure from a woman like me. Someone who is a bit needy in the right ways, who enjoys attention, direction, and being told what to do, but also understands that this kind of dynamic requires trust, respect, and emotional depth. This isn’t just about surface-level attraction; I want something that can grow into a deeper, more meaningful connection over time.

I’m interested in building a relationship where both of us understand our roles and find comfort and excitement in them. You should be someone who naturally leans submissive, not forced or pretending, but genuinely wired that way. I want someone who feels good being guided, who enjoys pleasing, and who finds satisfaction in earning attention and approval through effort and loyalty.

Communication is important to me, so I’d want us to talk openly, get to know each other, and see if we actually connect beyond just the initial attraction. If you think you might be the kind of person I’m describing, message me with a proper introduction. Tell me about yourself, your personality, and why you feel drawn to this kind of dynamic—what you’re looking for, what you need, and what you think you could bring into something like this.

I’d also like you to send a few pictures so I can get a sense of you. From there, we can call and talk, see how we vibe, and figure out if there’s something real worth building. Chemistry matters, but so does mindset and attitude.

If you’re confident that you have a naturally submissive personality and you’re looking for something deeper than casual interaction, then I’d like to hear from you.

I’m also interested in exploring more niche and psychological aspects of connection and intimacy. Things like hypnosis and CBT-style dynamics (consensual, trust-based influence and mindset work) really intrigue me, especially when they’re built on clear communication and mutual understanding. I’m drawn to experiences that go beyond the surface level and tap into focus, vulnerability, and the way two people can affect each other mentally as well as physically.

I also enjoy elements of bondage and the use of remote-controlled toys, particularly in ways that enhance connection even when we’re not physically together. For me, these aren’t just about control, but about creating shared experiences, anticipation, and a sense of closeness that carries through different situations. That said, everything I’m into is grounded in consent, boundaries, and making sure both people feel safe and respected at all times.

I’m very open-minded overall and always willing to explore new things together, as long as there’s trust and honest communication.

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u/Arniyamarlowe — 20 days ago

Hi, I'm looking for a needy guy with an honest, sincere submissive nature. I'm into exploring new things, so I'm open to almost anything. Not exactly new, since all the past relationships, I have been the dominant partner.

This will be mainly online, so not into meetups or hookups, and to be honest, chances are low. so it will be mainly an online relationship. we can call and will see how things will go.

More about me is that I'm really bossy and have a temper, so my sub must have a natural patience to get along. U can send me a msg teelling me about you and why u need to be a sub for me and send m a few pics. Ill let u know what i think.

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u/Arniyamarlowe — 22 days ago

Hi, I'm looking for a needy guy with an honest, sincere submissive nature. I'm into exploring new things, so I'm open to almost anything. Not exactly new, since all the past relationships, I have been the dominant partner.

This will be mainly online, so not into meetups or hookups, and to be honest, chances are low. so it will be mainly an online relationship. we can call and will see how things will go.

More about me is that I'm really bossy and have a temper, so my sub must have a natural patience to get along. U can send me a msg teelling me about you and why u need to be a sub for me and send m a few pics. Ill let u know what i think.

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u/Arniyamarlowe — 22 days ago