How do I (39m) tell my partner (40f) I want other guys to enjoy her?

For months now I've fantasised about sharing my gf with other men, either them fucking her while she sucks me off, or me fucking her/going down on her while she sucks them off. How do I bring this up to her? I told her I'd had a dream about it, but when she asked if it was actually something I want to try I lost my nerve and said I'd never thought about it but I had the dream and woke up super hard and horny. We didn't talk about it any more and I'm afraid of ruining things or her thinking I'm weird

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u/AromaticCream1987 — 5 days ago

I want to share my partner - but it gets way worse

I've been fantasising about my partner being fucked by other men while she sucks me off for a few months now, but it has progressed to me thinking about tying her up face down and a line of guys taking turns on her and filling her with cum. Feel really guilty about it and wouldn't ever actually do it, but think about it a lot and have jerked off thinking about it several times. I'm definitely messed up in the head 😭

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u/AromaticCream1987 — 5 days ago

Can't stop thinking about other guys filling up my woman

Been with my partner for nearly 5 years and it's only been the last few months this has been on my mind, but I can't stop thinking about another guy fucking she from behind while she sicks me off. I'm pretty certain she'd never do it, but I can't stop thinking about it. One thing I know is I wouldn't want the guy to go down on her, I'd just want her to suck him off and let him fuck her while she was sucking me off. Anyone else have this fantasy and struggle with it?

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u/AromaticCream1987 — 9 days ago

[M39] looking to talk about my MFM fantasies with a bi guy

Been fantasising about sharing my gf for a while now, and then it turned into me doing stuff with the guy I share her with too. Never done anything with a guy before but I'd love to chat with guys who also have partners and have similar fantasies.
At first it was just a fantasy of her being fucked raw, that led to me sucking them off after, and now I can't get a throbbing cock shooting cum in ny throat out of my head.
Don't know what else to write really...for some reason it's wanting me to write a fuck ton of words to be able to post

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u/AromaticCream1987 — 1 month ago

In Birmingham this weekend looking for fun with a woman

I'm 39m, dm me if you wanna hook up for some nsa fun and you have space on Sunday daytime to meet

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u/AromaticCream1987 — 1 month ago
▲ 44 r/UKWifeSharing+2 crossposts

I'd love to share my 40f partner

The other night I got a bit of courage and while she was giving me head I told her to imagine a cock inside her pussy fucking her from behind while she was sucking me off, and she got wetter than ever before without me barely touching her. Would you fuck her? The moans she was making while I was saying this drove me crazy

u/AromaticCream1987 — 3 days ago
▲ 7 r/BiCuriousBud+1 crossposts

(M39) really struggling with my thoughts and fantasies about MFM fun

I (M39) have been having fantasies about sharing my partner (F40) for a few months now. At first they were just about the ending pleasured by both of us, then it led to me giving the other guy oral pleasure too. In the past I've done through phases of being into trans porn, but this is ok another level, the fantasies of these encounters are making me jerk off almost daily. I'm not remotely interested in men romantically, the thought of kissing a guy makes me feel sick, I just want to suck their cock and feel them throb and fill my mouth with hot cum. Does anyone else struggle with this particular fantasy?

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u/AromaticCream1987 — 2 months ago

Struggling with how to approach my fantasy

I'm 39m, partner is 40f, and I have a fantasy about sharing her with other men.

It's a huge fantasy of mine and it's getting worse, I can't stop thinking about it.

I told her the other week I'd dreamt that she was being taken from behind by another guy while she was giving me a blowjob, and her response was "I'm surprised your dream wasn't a 3some with me and another woman" then said I didn't need to be embarrassed, asked me if it was a fantasy to which I just played it down and said I'd never given it thought before it was just a dream that got me hard and horny (this convo started because she had asked me what dream had got me so horny a few weeks back).

I hadn't actually dreamt that, i don't actually know what my dream was about but thought I'd say this to her to gauge her reaction. I'm completely clueless how to approach this.

Last week I asked if I could use a dildo on her while she gave me a blowjob, so we got in 69 position I used my tongue a little and then the dildo and she came SUPER fast, as did I. What should I do next? I'd love a guy to cum inside her but she isn't on birth control and we want a child
Of our own so it's obviously not possible to take things that far...

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u/AromaticCream1987 — 2 months ago

I want my 40f partner to be fucked while she sucks my cock

I just want complete strangers to come into our bedroom and fuck her from behind while she sucks me off, finishing inside her

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u/AromaticCream1987 — 2 months ago

I (39m) fantasise constantly about sharing my partner (40f) with another man. Nothing turns me on more than the thought of him going at her raw from behind while she takes me deep in her throat. Of course the perfect scenario would be for him to finish inside of her. I've not discussed it with her, but I did tell I had a dream about it and when she asked if it was an actual fantasy I pussied out and said I'd never thought about it before but I woke up hard....she wasn't disgusted like I imagined she would be, so maybe there's hope?

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u/AromaticCream1987 — 2 months ago