u/AshNazg29

My wife and I are planning to partake in Locktober for the first time this year. Does anybody know of an app or what method does everybody else use in their life that I could use to track how many orgasms my wife has during the lockup? She is more reserved than I when it comes to kinky sex so I’d love an easy way to keep track of how many orgasms I give her and how many orgasms she gives herself when I’m not around. She’s been more open to exploring herself lately and I would love the little thrill of opening an app to find she masturbated while I was in the shower or asleep next to her in bed.

Thanks!

I’ve (28M) been using a chastity device on and off for the last 10 years but this is the first year my wife (28F) has known about it and has expressed some excitement about it. I’ve expressed to her how I fantasize about cumming strictly by giving her pleasure through various methods (I absolutely crave eating her beautiful pussy) and have brought up partaking in Locktober this year in an effort to achieve that.

I am not new to using a chastity device by any means but I do cum either through masturbation or sex probably 6 days a week when the cage is off. Locktober would put a stop to that and it’d be the longest I’d be locked to that point.

Aside from the obvious communication - my wife is self proclaimed vanilla and knows that sometimes I like kinky, but sometimes I think it’s more ignorance than dislike as she has taken well to a couple things we’ve tried and has been excited and open about previous shorter lockups. I’ve talked with her that I don’t want her to feel like she’s a kink dispenser and that if she’s not enjoying it then not only is it obvious to me and I no longer enjoy it but I’d feel absolutely awful if she felt pressured to continue.

What are some fun ideas to keep the excitement going until I cum hands free, caged and drowning in her cum?

I’ve got a panty fetish as well which she is well aware and receptive toward and frequently drops her panties off on my face if she wakes up before me in the morning. One idea I’ve had to “take back power” while caged is to go on a date with me caged and her with a vibrator in her panties and remote in my hand. The rule is she doesn’t get to cum but if she can’t take it any longer then she can go to the restroom and remove it but she must also bring her panties back to me at the table. A “hard mode” option would be to replace the vibrator with a buttplug as well as remove the panties but everything is still in discussion.

We are both excited for Locktober and want to have any toys and ideas we may want ready to go for when the times comes! This is all in fun and we still have to live our normal outside the bedroom lives, just with a cage on, so no throwing my key into the ocean or giving it to her sister or anything like that. It’s been brought up, by her, in a teasing manner about her experimenting with another woman but I don’t think that’s going anywhere any time soon.

Thanks in advance!

I’ve (28M) been using a chastity device on and off for the last 10 years but this is the first year my wife (28F) has known about it and has expressed some excitement about it. I’ve expressed to her how I fantasize about cumming strictly by giving her pleasure through various methods (I absolutely crave eating her beautiful pussy) and have brought up partaking in Locktober this year in an effort to achieve that.

I am not new to using a chastity device by any means but I do cum either through masturbation or sex probably 6 days a week when the cage is off. Locktober would put a stop to that and it’d be the longest I’d be locked to that point.

Aside from the obvious communication - my wife is self proclaimed vanilla and knows that sometimes I like kinky, but sometimes I think it’s more ignorance than dislike as she has taken well to a couple things we’ve tried and has been excited and open about previous shorter lockups. I’ve talked with her that I don’t want her to feel like she’s a kink dispenser and that if she’s not enjoying it then not only is it obvious to me and I no longer enjoy it but I’d feel absolutely awful if she felt pressured to continue.

What are some fun ideas to keep the excitement going until I cum hands free, caged and drowning in her cum?

I’ve got a panty fetish as well which she is well aware and receptive toward and frequently drops her panties off on my face if she wakes up before me in the morning. One idea I’ve had to “take back power” while caged is to go on a date with me caged and her with a vibrator in her panties and remote in my hand. The rule is she doesn’t get to cum but if she can’t take it any longer then she can go to the restroom and remove it but she must also bring her panties back to me at the table. A “hard mode” option would be to replace the vibrator with a buttplug as well as remove the panties but everything is still in discussion.

We are both excited for Locktober and want to have any toys and ideas we may want ready to go for when the times comes! This is all in fun and we still have to live our normal outside the bedroom lives, just with a cage on, so no throwing my key into the ocean or giving it to her sister or anything like that. It’s been brought up, by her, in a teasing manner about her experimenting with another woman but I don’t think that’s going anywhere any time soon.

Thanks in advance!

I’ve (28M) been using a chastity device on and off for the last 10 years but this is the first year my wife (28F) has known about it and has expressed some excitement about it. I’ve expressed to her how I fantasize about cumming strictly by giving her pleasure through various methods (I absolutely crave eating her beautiful pussy) and have brought up partaking in Locktober this year in an effort to achieve that.

I am not new to using a chastity device by any means but I do cum either through masturbation or sex probably 6 days a week when the cage is off. Locktober would put a stop to that and it’d be the longest I’d be locked to that point.

Aside from the obvious communication - my wife is self proclaimed vanilla and knows that sometimes I like kinky, but sometimes I think it’s more ignorance than dislike as she has taken well to a couple things we’ve tried and has been excited and open about previous shorter lockups. I’ve talked with her that I don’t want her to feel like she’s a kink dispenser and that if she’s not enjoying it then not only is it obvious to me and I no longer enjoy it but I’d feel absolutely awful if she felt pressured to continue.

What are some fun ideas to keep the excitement going until I cum hands free, caged and drowning in her cum?

I’ve got a panty fetish as well which she is well aware and receptive toward and frequently drops her panties off on my face if she wakes up before me in the morning. One idea I’ve had to “take back power” while caged is to go on a date with me caged and her with a vibrator in her panties and remote in my hand. The rule is she doesn’t get to cum but if she can’t take it any longer then she can go to the restroom and remove it but she must also bring her panties back to me at the table. A “hard mode” option would be to replace the vibrator with a buttplug as well as remove the panties but everything is still in discussion.

We are both excited for Locktober and want to have any toys and ideas we may want ready to go for when the times comes! This is all in fun and we still have to live our normal outside the bedroom lives, just with a cage on, so no throwing my key into the ocean or giving it to her sister or anything like that. It’s been brought up, by her, in a teasing manner about her experimenting with another woman but I don’t think that’s going anywhere any time soon.

Thanks in advance!

My wife and I met in college 11 years ago and have been married for 2. She has always claimed to be vanilla and anytime we’d have a conversation about kinks she would tell me she doesn’t really have any. Anytime I poked or prodded about things I may be interested in she would never outright dismiss it but seemed hesitant or uninterested so I never moved forward on anything. Most of these seemed (in my eyes) to be significantly less kinky than chastity such as just purchasing a toy or even me giving oral which she considered kinky when we started in college. Because of this, I never approached her with chastity. I never wanted her to feel like I was pressuring her so I knew chastity was either years out and many many conversations away or something I was just going to have to accept was never going to be a mutual thing.

I don’t remember the exact rabbit hole that led me to chastity but it wasn’t long after that I purchased my first cage a couple years into our relationship. After college and due to COVID, I got a work from home position so individually dabbling in the kink became significantly easier.

Fast forward about 5 years and she’s pregnant with our second child. She’s been extremely turned on lately and has given signs of being more explorative than normal. She has come to love oral which she admitted was something she was initially nervous about because she was worried about my pleasure! That was barrier number one was just assuring her and promising her that I am in fact receiving tremendous pleasure going down on her.

I mentioned a couple weeks ago that there was one instance I remember where I was eating her out and had to pause because I had almost cum. She thought that was cute so I suggested denying my orgasms until I felt that level of horniness again to which she seemed interested. We ran with that for a couple weeks but as I was edging one day I failed to stop and came. I was disappointed in myself and let her know that evening that we were essentially starting from square one again. She wasn’t mad or anything but she got a playful, almost punishment, style tone to her voice like she knew this would happen and was now going to use it against me (again, all in good, consensual fun).

I was extremely nervous because over the years the kinks have progressed from things like oral and reinforcing the idea that I absolutely do not have an issue with her masturbating if she is inclined (the idea just turns me on even more), to me enjoying the scent of her underwear (this also took a couple years for me to confess but now she playfully hands them over from time to time). I have expressed how proud I am of her for exploring, not just for my sake but she has enjoyed it as well. All of this still seemed like quite a leap to chastity, but our first child was with grandma and grandpa for the weekend and figured she is in a new mood and it may just be pregnancy hormones but I would shoot my shot.

I asked her one morning if she would be interested in reading an article that I have found around here a couple times and have had saved for quite some time.
[https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/introduction\](https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/introduction)
I pre-warned her that it was a leap from anything we have currently done but that it wasn’t anything related to something she had put a hard no on in the past. She happily accepted which was a relief because I was so nervous.

She read the first chapter while I was in the shower and then we had a longer child-free car ride where she asked a couple questions but seemed interested, and dare I say eager, to continue reading while I drove. When she was done she asked all sorts of questions but none were asked in a judgmental or annoyed manner so I opened up and answered everything I could. The immense weight I had on my chest after dabbling in orgasm denial for a couple weeks to asking her to read the article was instantly lifted.

She seemed all for giving it a shot. When I told her I had a cage or two already she seemed even more curious with a hint of disappointment that I had kept this from her for so long. Looking back, I still think it was the right move to take things extremely slow, but she quickly turned her disappointment into an “I’ll get you back once the cage is on” type of attitude.

We discussed what I was looking for with chastity which is honestly just fun with my wife. I’ve told her time and time again that if she isn’t enjoying it then I don’t want it. This is particularly evident with blowjobs. She has expressed from the start that she doesn’t get any enjoyment from them which has contributed to her nervousness toward receiving her own oral. If I can calm her nerves and give her comfort and satisfaction through oral and all I have to do is not ask for a blowjob then sign me up.

We’re not starting from zero with chastity as I have individually dabbled for years so wearing the cage all day or even a night or two when she was out of town back in college has already been accomplished. We got on the general topic of chastity and I mentioned things like 2026 kink of the year and Locktober which piqued her interest.

I’m not saying all of these things are going to happen and we may not partake at all anymore once her pregnancy hormones wear off (a couple weeks before Locktober) but I bit the bullet and let her know and now it is at least out there. She caged me yesterday and has the key on her car key fob while at work. We have an emergency key at home just in case.

She keeps saying that she’s been trying to say “no” more at work and that I’ll make a good test subject now which turns me on like crazy. If she follows through with all the “mean” things she has mentioned then it won’t be long before we’re both cumming from giving her oral.

I suggested things like a strap-on so she can still get fucked while I’m caged but she hasn’t seemed interested in that so we’ll play it where it lies for now. She’s had 6 orgasms in the last 72 hours which is a ton for her and has already made a 100:1 orgasm ratio comment to me. She really has no idea how much she turns me on but I try to tell her every time.

I thanked her for reading the article and she thanked me for trusting her with it. As I sit here caged at work under a mutual agreement and not me just solo locking for a day, I truly think she is enjoying it so far and I’m excited to see where it goes!

tl:dr - I told me self-proclaimed vanilla wife that I’ve had a chastity kink for years and not only did she seem excited but she had me caged the next day making 100:1 orgasm ratio and Locktober jokes. I love her so much!

My wife and I met in college 11 years ago and have been married for 2. She has always claimed to be vanilla and anytime we’d have a conversation about kinks she would tell me she doesn’t really have any. Anytime I poked or prodded about things I may be interested in she would never outright dismiss it but seemed hesitant or uninterested so I never moved forward on anything. Most of these seemed (in my eyes) to be significantly less kinky than chastity such as just purchasing a toy or even me giving oral which she considered kinky when we started in college. Because of this, I never approached her with chastity. I never wanted her to feel like I was pressuring her so I knew chastity was either years out and many many conversations away or something I was just going to have to accept was never going to be a mutual thing.

I don’t remember the exact rabbit hole that led me to chastity but it wasn’t long after that I purchased my first cage a couple years into our relationship. After college and due to COVID, I got a work from home position so individually dabbling in the kink became significantly easier.

Fast forward about 5 years and she’s pregnant with our second child. She’s been extremely turned on lately and has given signs of being more explorative than normal. She has come to love oral which she admitted was something she was initially nervous about because she was worried about my pleasure! That was barrier number one was just assuring her and promising her that I am in fact receiving tremendous pleasure going down on her.

I mentioned a couple weeks ago that there was one instance I remember where I was eating her out and had to pause because I had almost cum. She thought that was cute so I suggested denying my orgasms until I felt that level of horniness again to which she seemed interested. We ran with that for a couple weeks but as I was edging one day I failed to stop and came. I was disappointed in myself and let her know that evening that we were essentially starting from square one again. She wasn’t mad or anything but she got a playful, almost punishment, style tone to her voice like she knew this would happen and was now going to use it against me (again, all in good, consensual fun).

I was extremely nervous because over the years the kinks have progressed from things like oral and reinforcing the idea that I absolutely do not have an issue with her masturbating if she is inclined (the idea just turns me on even more), to me enjoying the scent of her underwear (this also took a couple years for me to confess but now she playfully hands them over from time to time). I have expressed how proud I am of her for exploring, not just for my sake but she has enjoyed it as well. All of this still seemed like quite a leap to chastity, but our first child was with grandma and grandpa for the weekend and figured she is in a new mood and it may just be pregnancy hormones but I would shoot my shot.

I asked her one morning if she would be interested in reading an article that I have found around here a couple times and have had saved for quite some time.
https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/introduction
I pre-warned her that it was a leap from anything we have currently done but that it wasn’t anything related to something she had put a hard no on in the past. She happily accepted which was a relief because I was so nervous.

She read the first chapter while I was in the shower and then we had a longer child-free car ride where she asked a couple questions but seemed interested, and dare I say eager, to continue reading while I drove. When she was done she asked all sorts of questions but none were asked in a judgmental or annoyed manner so I opened up and answered everything I could. The immense weight I had on my chest after dabbling in orgasm denial for a couple weeks to asking her to read the article was instantly lifted.

She seemed all for giving it a shot. When I told her I had a cage or two already she seemed even more curious with a hint of disappointment that I had kept this from her for so long. Looking back, I still think it was the right move to take things extremely slow, but she quickly turned her disappointment into an “I’ll get you back once the cage is on” type of attitude.

We discussed what I was looking for with chastity which is honestly just fun with my wife. I’ve told her time and time again that if she isn’t enjoying it then I don’t want it. This is particularly evident with blowjobs. She has expressed from the start that she doesn’t get any enjoyment from them which has contributed to her nervousness toward receiving her own oral. If I can calm her nerves and give her comfort and satisfaction through oral and all I have to do is not ask for a blowjob then sign me up.

We’re not starting from zero with chastity as I have individually dabbled for years so wearing the cage all day or even a night or two when she was out of town back in college has already been accomplished. We got on the general topic of chastity and I mentioned things like 2026 kink of the year and Locktober which piqued her interest.

I’m not saying all of these things are going to happen and we may not partake at all anymore once her pregnancy hormones wear off (a couple weeks before Locktober) but I bit the bullet and let her know and now it is at least out there. She caged me yesterday and has the key on her car key fob while at work. We have an emergency key at home just in case.

She keeps saying that she’s been trying to say “no” more at work and that I’ll make a good test subject now which turns me on like crazy. If she follows through with all the “mean” things she has mentioned then it won’t be long before we’re both cumming from giving her oral.

I suggested things like a strap-on so she can still get fucked while I’m caged but she hasn’t seemed interested in that so we’ll play it where it lies for now. She’s had 6 orgasms in the last 72 hours which is a ton for her and has already made a 100:1 orgasm ratio comment to me. She really has no idea how much she turns me on but I try to tell her every time.

I thanked her for reading the article and she thanked me for trusting her with it. As I sit here caged at work under a mutual agreement and not me just solo locking for a day, I truly think she is enjoying it so far and I’m excited to see where it goes!

tl:dr - I told me self-proclaimed vanilla wife that I’ve had a chastity kink for years and not only did she seem excited but she had me caged the next day making 100:1 orgasm ratio and Locktober jokes. I love her so much!