u/Atypicalhades23

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I’m just a loving daddy, 30, 6’2, from Chicago. Green eyes if that matters. Down to trade pics if we actually click, obviously no pressure right away though. Also lets not judge me and reject immediately for my age. Im alot more serious about something more longterm than most of the dinosaurs here so lets not judge a book by its biological cover...kay?;)

I’ve been into DD/LG for a long time (like… since I was way too young to even know what to call it lol), im a pretty soft and strict daddy, Not in a controlling way of course. (unless you want that) you’re still your own person, but I like taking the lead, being someone you can relax around, feel safe with, that kind of thing.

I care more about building something that actually feels good for both of us, not just forcing a dynamic because it “sounds right.” Communication matters a lot to me, and I’m pretty easy to talk to.

Outside of that, I’m honestly just a nerd. Gaming, anime, sci-fi, fantasy… all the usual stuff. Nothing weird tied to it, I just enjoy it.

Right now I’m in school switching into healthcare after getting injured at my old blue-collar job. I realized I’m pretty good at staying calm when things get stressful, so I’m pursuing that

What I’m looking for is pretty simple. someone genuine, a little soft, a little playful, and actually wants something that lasts longer than a couple weeks. wasting eachothers time, dry meaningless conversation, one sided...all big nono's for me so if you reach out please stimulate my brain rather than fry it.

kinks wise im very flexible and able to cater to that of my potential person. im not a people pleaser, I just want the relationship to be both physically and mentally pleasing for all parties

Also, full disclosure, Im a very blunt and honest person. Also prone to putting my own foot in my mouth so if things come out bad...probably didnt mean it the way it sounded

If you made it this far, feel free to say hi. No need for anything fancy 🙂

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I’m just a loving daddy, 30, 6’2, from Chicago. Green eyes if that matters. Down to trade pics if we actually click, obviously no pressure right away though. Also lets not judge me and reject immediately for my age. Im alot more serious about something more longterm than most of the dinosaurs here so lets not judge a book by its biological cover...kay?;)

I’ve been into DD/LG for a long time (like… since I was way too young to even know what to call it lol), im a pretty soft and strict daddy, Not in a controlling way of course. (unless you want that) you’re still your own person, but I like taking the lead, being someone you can relax around, feel safe with, that kind of thing.

I care more about building something that actually feels good for both of us, not just forcing a dynamic because it “sounds right.” Communication matters a lot to me, and I’m pretty easy to talk to.

Outside of that, I’m honestly just a nerd. Gaming, anime, sci-fi, fantasy… all the usual stuff. Nothing weird tied to it, I just enjoy it.

Right now I’m in school switching into healthcare after getting injured at my old blue-collar job. I realized I’m pretty good at staying calm when things get stressful, so I’m pursuing that

What I’m looking for is pretty simple. someone genuine, a little soft, a little playful, and actually wants something that lasts longer than a couple weeks. wasting eachothers time, dry meaningless conversation, one sided...all big nono's for me so if you reach out please stimulate my brain rather than fry it.

kinks wise im very flexible and able to cater to that of my potential person. im not a people pleaser, I just want the relationship to be both physically and mentally pleasing for all parties

Also, full disclosure, Im a very blunt and honest person. Also prone to putting my own foot in my mouth so if things come out bad...probably didnt mean it the way it sounded

If you made it this far, feel free to say hi. No need for anything fancy 🙂

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I’m just a loving daddy, 27, 6’2, from Chicago. Green eyes if that matters. Down to trade pics if we actually click, obviously no pressure right away though. Also lets not judge me and reject immediately for my age. Im alot more serious about something more longterm than most of the dinosaurs here so lets not judge a book by its biological cover...kay?;)

I’ve been into DD/LG for a long time (like… since I was way too young to even know what to call it lol), im a pretty soft and strict daddy, Not in a controlling way of course. (unless you want that) you’re still your own person, but I like taking the lead, being someone you can relax around, feel safe with, that kind of thing.

I care more about building something that actually feels good for both of us, not just forcing a dynamic because it “sounds right.” Communication matters a lot to me, and I’m pretty easy to talk to.

Outside of that, I’m honestly just a nerd. Gaming, anime, sci-fi, fantasy… all the usual stuff. Nothing weird tied to it, I just enjoy it.

Right now I’m in school switching into healthcare after getting injured at my old blue-collar job. I realized I’m pretty good at staying calm when things get stressful, so I’m pursuing that

What I’m looking for is pretty simple. someone genuine, a little soft, a little playful, and actually wants something that lasts longer than a couple weeks. wasting eachothers time, dry meaningless conversation, one sided...all big nono's for me so if you reach out please stimulate my brain rather than fry it...and please dont waste my time if youre looking for something casual or unsure of what you want

kinks wise im very flexible and able to cater to that of my potential person. im not a people pleaser, I just want the relationship to be both physically and mentally pleasing for all parties

Also, full disclosure, Im a very blunt and honest person. Also prone to putting my own foot in my mouth so if things come out bad...probably didnt mean it the way it sounded

If you made it this far, feel free to say hi. No need for anything fancy 🙂

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I’m just a loving daddy, 27, 6’2, from Chicago. Green eyes if that matters. Down to trade pics if we actually click, obviously no pressure right away though. Also lets not judge me and reject immediately for my age. Im alot more serious about something more longterm than most of the dinosaurs here so lets not judge a book by its biological cover...kay?;)

I’ve been into DD/LG for a long time (like… since I was way too young to even know what to call it lol), im a pretty soft and strict daddy, Not in a controlling way of course. (unless you want that) you’re still your own person, but I like taking the lead, being someone you can relax around, feel safe with, that kind of thing.

I care more about building something that actually feels good for both of us, not just forcing a dynamic because it “sounds right.” Communication matters a lot to me, and I’m pretty easy to talk to.

Outside of that, I’m honestly just a nerd. Gaming, anime, sci-fi, fantasy… all the usual stuff. Nothing weird tied to it, I just enjoy it.

Right now I’m in school switching into healthcare after getting injured at my old blue-collar job. I realized I’m pretty good at staying calm when things get stressful, so I’m pursuing that

What I’m looking for is pretty simple. someone genuine, a little soft, a little playful, and actually wants something that lasts longer than a couple weeks. wasting eachothers time, dry meaningless conversation, one sided...all big nono's for me so if you reach out please stimulate my brain rather than fry it...and please dont waste my time if youre looking for something casual or unsure of what you want

kinks wise im very flexible and able to cater to that of my potential person. im not a people pleaser, I just want the relationship to be both physically and mentally pleasing for all parties

Also, full disclosure, Im a very blunt and honest person. Also prone to putting my own foot in my mouth so if things come out bad...probably didnt mean it the way it sounded

If you made it this far, feel free to say hi. No need for anything fancy 🙂

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I’m just a loving daddy, 27, 6’2, from Chicago. Green eyes if that matters. Down to trade pics if we actually click, obviously no pressure right away though. Also lets not judge me and reject immediately for my age. Im alot more serious about something more longterm than most of the dinosaurs here so lets not judge a book by its biological cover...kay?;)

I’ve been into DD/LG for a long time (like… since I was way too young to even know what to call it lol), im a pretty soft and strict daddy, Not in a controlling way of course. (unless you want that) you’re still your own person, but I like taking the lead, being someone you can relax around, feel safe with, that kind of thing.

I care more about building something that actually feels good for both of us, not just forcing a dynamic because it “sounds right.” Communication matters a lot to me, and I’m pretty easy to talk to.

Outside of that, I’m honestly just a nerd. Gaming, anime, sci-fi, fantasy… all the usual stuff. Nothing weird tied to it, I just enjoy it.

Right now I’m in school switching into healthcare after getting injured at my old blue-collar job. I realized I’m pretty good at staying calm when things get stressful, so I’m pursuing that

What I’m looking for is pretty simple. someone genuine, a little soft, a little playful, and actually wants something that lasts longer than a couple weeks. wasting eachothers time, dry meaningless conversation, one sided...all big nono's for me so if you reach out please stimulate my brain rather than fry it...and please dont waste my time if youre looking for something casual or unsure of what you want

kinks wise im very flexible and able to cater to that of my potential person. im not a people pleaser, I just want the relationship to be both physically and mentally pleasing for all parties

Also, full disclosure, Im a very blunt and honest person. Also prone to putting my own foot in my mouth so if things come out bad...probably didnt mean it the way it sounded

If you made it this far, feel free to say hi. No need for anything fancy 🙂

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I’m just a loving daddy, 27, 6’2, from Chicago. Green eyes if that matters. Down to trade pics if we actually click, obviously no pressure right away though. Also lets not judge me and reject immediately for my age. Im alot more serious about something more longterm than most of the dinosaurs here so lets not judge a book by its biological cover...kay?;)

I’ve been into DD/LG for a long time (like… since I was way too young to even know what to call it lol), im a pretty soft and strict daddy, Not in a controlling way of course. (unless you want that) you’re still your own person, but I like taking the lead, being someone you can relax around, feel safe with, that kind of thing.

I care more about building something that actually feels good for both of us, not just forcing a dynamic because it “sounds right.” Communication matters a lot to me, and I’m pretty easy to talk to.

Outside of that, I’m honestly just a nerd. Gaming, anime, sci-fi, fantasy… all the usual stuff. Nothing weird tied to it, I just enjoy it.

Right now I’m in school switching into healthcare after getting injured at my old blue-collar job. I realized I’m pretty good at staying calm when things get stressful, so I’m pursuing that

What I’m looking for is pretty simple. someone genuine, a little soft, a little playful, and actually wants something that lasts longer than a couple weeks. wasting eachothers time, dry meaningless conversation, one sided...all big nono's for me so if you reach out please stimulate my brain rather than fry it...and please dont waste my time if youre looking for something casual or unsure of what you want

kinks wise im very flexible and able to cater to that of my potential person. im not a people pleaser, I just want the relationship to be both physically and mentally pleasing for all parties

Also, full disclosure, Im a very blunt and honest person. Also prone to putting my own foot in my mouth so if things come out bad...probably didnt mean it the way it sounded

If you made it this far, feel free to say hi. No need for anything fancy 🙂

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I’m just a loving daddy, 27, 6’2, from Chicago. Green eyes if that matters. Down to trade pics if we actually click, obviously no pressure right away though. Also lets not judge me and reject immediately for my age. Im alot more serious about something more longterm than most of the dinosaurs here so lets not judge a book by its biological cover...kay?;)

I’ve been into DD/LG for a long time (like… since I was way too young to even know what to call it lol), im a pretty soft and strict daddy, Not in a controlling way of course. (unless you want that) you’re still your own person, but I like taking the lead, being someone you can relax around, feel safe with, that kind of thing.

I care more about building something that actually feels good for both of us, not just forcing a dynamic because it “sounds right.” Communication matters a lot to me, and I’m pretty easy to talk to.

Outside of that, I’m honestly just a nerd. Gaming, anime, sci-fi, fantasy… all the usual stuff. Nothing weird tied to it, I just enjoy it.

Right now I’m in school switching into healthcare after getting injured at my old blue-collar job. I realized I’m pretty good at staying calm when things get stressful, so I’m pursuing that

What I’m looking for is pretty simple. someone genuine, a little soft, a little playful, and actually wants something that lasts longer than a couple weeks. wasting eachothers time, dry meaningless conversation, one sided...all big nono's for me so if you reach out please stimulate my brain rather than fry it.

kinks wise im very flexible and able to cater to that of my potential person. im not a people pleaser, I just want the relationship to be both physically and mentally pleasing for all parties

Also, full disclosure, Im a very blunt and honest person. Also prone to putting my own foot in my mouth so if things come out bad...probably didnt mean it the way it sounded

If you made it this far, feel free to say hi. No need for anything fancy 🙂

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Hey, figured I’d give this a shot. Also let's not be picky, im not 30+ but I think everyone deserves a chance....so let's not judge a book by its biological cover.

I’m just a loving, sometimes strict, brat taming daddy/dom, 27, 6’2, from Chicago. Green eyes if that matters. Down to trade pics if we actually click, obviously no pressure right away though. Just a disclosure...not the best at pics. Photogenic is not me. Been told I look better irl and in video call

I’ve been into D/S for a long time (like… since I was way too young to even know what to call it lol), i can role with both daddy and dom, im prone to soft, but have my hard & strict side...not so intensely controlling (unless you want that) you’re still your own person, but I like taking the lead, being someone you can relax around, feel safe with.

I’m not super demanding regarding expectations. I care more about building something that actually feels good for both of us, not just forcing a dynamic because it “sounds right.” Communication matters a lot to me, and I’m pretty easy to talk to. let's go with the flow and fall into everything naturally.

Outside of that, I’m honestly just a nerd. Gaming, anime, sci-fi, fantasy… all the usual stuff. Nothing weird tied to it, I just enjoy it.

Right now I’m in school switching into healthcare after getting injured at my old blue-collar job. I realized I’m pretty good at staying calm when things get stressful, so I’m pursuing that

Last thing...please dont reach out if you have a habit of disappearing or ghosting:) kind of exhausting. Looking for something serious, not a short term conversation that will ultimately lead to nothing. Massive waste of time and effort and energy

feel free to shoot a message if you've read this far:)

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I’m just a loving daddy, 27, 6’2, from Chicago. Green eyes if that matters. Down to trade pics if we actually click, obviously no pressure right away though. Also lets not judge me and reject immediately for my age. Im alot more serious about something more longterm than most of the dinosaurs here so lets not judge a book by its biological cover...kay?;)

I’ve been into DD/LG for a long time (like… since I was way too young to even know what to call it lol), im a pretty soft and strict daddy, Not in a controlling way of course. (unless you want that) you’re still your own person, but I like taking the lead, being someone you can relax around, feel safe with, that kind of thing.

I care more about building something that actually feels good for both of us, not just forcing a dynamic because it “sounds right.” Communication matters a lot to me, and I’m pretty easy to talk to.

Outside of that, I’m honestly just a nerd. Gaming, anime, sci-fi, fantasy… all the usual stuff. Nothing weird tied to it, I just enjoy it.

Right now I’m in school switching into healthcare after getting injured at my old blue-collar job. I realized I’m pretty good at staying calm when things get stressful, so I’m pursuing that

What I’m looking for is pretty simple. someone genuine, a little soft, a little playful, and actually wants something that lasts longer than a couple weeks. wasting eachothers time, dry meaningless conversation, one sided...all big nono's for me so if you reach out please stimulate my brain rather than fry it.

kinks wise im very flexible and able to cater to that of my potential person. im not a people pleaser, I just want the relationship to be both physically and mentally pleasing for all parties

Also, full disclosure, Im a very blunt and honest person. Also prone to putting my own foot in my mouth so if things come out bad...probably didnt mean it the way it sounded

If you made it this far, feel free to say hi. No need for anything fancy 🙂

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hey, figured I’d give this a shot.

I’m just a loving daddy, 27, 6’2, from Chicago. Green eyes if that matters. Down to trade pics if we actually click, obviously no pressure right away though.

I’ve been into DD/LG for a long time (like… since I was way too young to even know what to call it lol), im a pretty soft and strict daddy, Not in a controlling way of course. (unless you want that) you’re still your own person, but I like taking the lead, being someone you can relax around, feel safe with, that kind of thing.

I care more about building something that actually feels good for both of us, not just forcing a dynamic because it “sounds right.” Communication matters a lot to me, and I’m pretty easy to talk to.

Outside of that, I’m honestly just a nerd. Gaming, anime, sci-fi, fantasy… all the usual stuff. Nothing weird tied to it, I just enjoy it.

Right now I’m in school switching into healthcare after getting injured at my old blue-collar job. I realized I’m pretty good at staying calm when things get stressful, so I’m pursuing that

What I’m looking for is pretty simple. someone genuine, a little soft, a little playful, and actually wants something that lasts longer than a couple weeks. wasting eachothers time, dry meaningless conversation, one sided...all big nono's for me so if you reach out please stimulate my brain rather than fry it.

kinks wise im very flexible and able to cater to that of my potential person. im not a people pleaser, I just want the relationship to be both physically and mentally pleasing for all parties

Also, full disclosure, Im a very blunt and honest person. Also prone to putting my own foot in my mouth so if things come out bad...probably didnt mean it the way it sounded

If you made it this far, feel free to say hi. No need for anything fancy 🙂

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hey, figured I’d give this a shot.

I’m just a loving daddy, 27, 6’2, from Chicago. Green eyes if that matters. Down to trade pics if we actually click, obviously no pressure right away though.

I’ve been into DD/LG for a long time (like… since I was way too young to even know what to call it lol), im a pretty soft and strict daddy, Not in a controlling way of course. (unless you want that) you’re still your own person, but I like taking the lead, being someone you can relax around, feel safe with, that kind of thing.

I care more about building something that actually feels good for both of us, not just forcing a dynamic because it “sounds right.” Communication matters a lot to me, and I’m pretty easy to talk to.

Outside of that, I’m honestly just a nerd. Gaming, anime, sci-fi, fantasy… all the usual stuff. Nothing weird tied to it, I just enjoy it.

Right now I’m in school switching into healthcare after getting injured at my old blue-collar job. I realized I’m pretty good at staying calm when things get stressful, so I’m pursuing that

What I’m looking for is pretty simple. someone genuine, a little soft, a little playful, and actually wants something that lasts longer than a couple weeks. wasting eachothers time, dry meaningless conversation, one sided...all big nono's for me so if you reach out please stimulate my brain rather than fry it.

kinks wise im very flexible and able to cater to that of my potential person. im not a people pleaser, I just want the relationship to be both physically and mentally pleasing for all parties

Also, full disclosure, Im a very blunt and honest person. Also prone to putting my own foot in my mouth so if things come out bad...probably didnt mean it the way it sounded

If you made it this far, feel free to say hi. No need for anything fancy 🙂