u/AvtrPete

This question is for guys who identify as straight and who will only have sex with women, but who have jerked off in the presence of another dude, in real life or online.

What’s your honest take on this subject? Do you feel like you’re truly straight, and having a JO bud doesn’t affect that? Do you feel like you’re “mostly” straight but with a part of you that’s a bit curious, and you honestly don’t want to go further? Or are you someone who lives a straight life, but in reality you’re suppressing a big part of your sexuality, a JO bud is an outlet for that, and you wish that you could do more?

The reason for my question is because I’m one of those guys who identifies as straight but who enjoys having a JO bud, so I’m trying to figure out what other guys in my situation think and what their motivations are.

I’m very aware that sexuality is very fluid and there’s no “one size fits all”. Thanks in advance for any truly honest responses.

I’ve realized that many times I jerk off simply because I have the time. For example, say that I’m going to have the house to myself for a few hours, my first thought is “I’m going to jerk off”. I wasn’t necessarily horny, I just didn’t want to miss the opportunity to do so.

There are times when I’m genuinely horny and I’ll find a way to get one in, but I think I do it more often just because I have a window of opportunity.

What’s your experience with this?

I’ve realized that many times I jerk off simply because I have the time. For example, say that I’m going to have the house to myself for a few hours, my first thought is “I’m going to jerk off”. I wasn’t necessarily horny, I just didn’t want to miss the opportunity to do so.

There are times when I’m genuinely horny and I’ll find a way to get one in, but I think I do it more often just because I have a window of opportunity.

What’s your experience with this?