Hi Reddit
I'm Ben, a 45yo affectionate and protective Caregiver-Big Spoon with a little pleasure Dom mixed in for funsies. Very kink-friendly and happy to discuss this in DM.
Physically, I'm honestly pretty average. 5’10”, 100kg, a little thick around the middle, broad across the chest and shoulders, muscular legs, strong arms and dextrous hands. A few tattoos, no piercings.
I try to stay in decent shape through hiking, wild swimming (when the weather permits), calisthenics and DDP Yoga.
I'm a huge cinephile, especially for horror, sci-fi and cult movies from the 80s & 90s. I'd love to find someone to snuggle with in the cinema, those big seats recline for a reason!
I'm into live music and comedy, arcade and video gaming, walking and hiking along the coast and New Forest, music on vinyl, reading and writing fiction, word puzzles, cooking and eating out.
I'm a little neuro spicy, diagnosed with AuDHD and because of that I take my, and my loved one’s, mental health seriously.
I'm self-employed as an editor & proof-reader, which is dull but pays the bills and allows me a very flexible schedule. Plus it gives me lots of time to spend with my future little spoon.
Ideally, I'm looking for:
Someone close enough to meet IRL so we can build and develop something real and lasting, a long-term/forever monogamous relationship and dynamic.
Someone 25-45, curvy/cuddly, short enough to fit under my arm when we walk together, enjoys holding hands.
Someone I can love, spoil, indulge, care for, share lives and grow & evolve with.