u/BaeAreaaaa

Hey hey 👋

I’m looking for a consistent AP locally in the Bay Area. Ideally, we can connect and create something mutually beneficial, despite our extenuating circumstances. I’ve had success in the past on here, so hoping to get lucky once again.

Personally, I’m currently in a dead bedroom situation with my partner due to a medical situation, and this has also led to a lack of emotional connection as well. Although we both acknowledge the intimacy rift in our relationship, no change in our relationship is expected atm. As partners who have historically enjoyed an active and fun sex life, it’s definitely been a challenging experience to address the new dynamic. Hence, this post.

As for a little about me: I'm in my late 30s, live in SF proper, and have followed a nonprofit to tech career arc. I’m 6'1", white, and fit - I compete in athletics outside of work. As for general hobbies and interests, I love being in the great outdoors (skiing, hiking, biking to name a few), traveling internationally, and genuinely being reflective of my position and impact within my community. I’d say I enjoy the simple things in life, whether being out with friends, attending community events, or enjoying a good meal or drink with someone.

As for some general preferences I’m looking for, I appreciate someone who pushes themselves within their own career or passions, and also enjoys a healthy, active lifestyle. No strict age range specifications, though I’d prefer to engage with someone who’s experienced more of life. And if you have a partner or family, I’ll give you the same respect I’d expect of my own primary relationship and boundaries. For me, the trust derived from this understanding is key. And strong OPSEC is required.

I’d love to connect further if you think there may be mutual alignment and interest 😊 Hopefully, we can initially chat on here and then take it somewhere more secure.

Hey hey 👋

I’m looking for a reliable and discreet AP locally in the Bay Area. Ideally, this can develop into something mutually beneficial, despite our extenuating circumstances. I’ve had success in the past on here, so hoping to get lucky once again.

Personally, I’m currently in a dead bedroom situation with my partner due to a medical situation, and this has also led to a lack of emotional connection as well. Although we both acknowledge the intimacy rift in our relationship, a change is likely not expected. As partners who have historically enjoyed an active and fun sex life, it’s definitely been a challenging experience to address the new dynamic.

As for a little about me: I'm in my late 30s, live in SF proper, and have followed a nonprofit to tech career arc. I’m 6'1", white, and fit (and if it matters, well endowed 🙈) - and I compete in athletics on the side. As for general hobbies and interests, I love being in the great outdoors (skiing, hiking, biking to name a few), traveling internationally, and genuinely being reflective of my position and impact within my community. I’d say I enjoy the simple things in life, whether being out with friends, attending community events, or enjoying a good meal or drink with someone.

As for some general preferences I’m looking for, I appreciate someone who pushes themselves within their own career or passions, and also enjoys a healthy, active lifestyle. No strict age range specifications, though I’d prefer to engage with someone who’s experienced more of life. And if you have a partner or family, I’ll give you the same respect I’d expect of my own primary relationship and boundaries. For me, the trust coming from this mutual understanding is key. And strong OPSEC is required.

I’d love to connect further if you think there may be mutual alignment and interest 😊 Hopefully, we can initially chat on here and then take it somewhere more secure.