u/BeautifulCitron6820

this is a rant that im genuinely probably going to delete but anyways.

I genuinely have such bad luck. I’m a really empathetic person and honestly try to understand my subs to the best of my ability and would never ever cross limits which is why I ask. Some of them I have casual conversations with outside of their egregious humiliation kinks. I try to build some sort of connection, so it doesn’t feel like there are heavy expectations or too strenuous of a relationship, yk? And I feel like that has worked out best for me.

So, somebody approached me earlier, told me about their kinks and the ways they like to be degraded and humiliated etc. Even offered me more info on them so they can be further degraded. before I continue, no I was not scammed, they paid quite a bit actually 😭. And so I was doing what they liked. At some point I mentioned something being ‘disgusting’. Is this like some sort of trigger word?? because after that I received a sad emoji and got blocked.

I’m not sad about losing them as a sub or anything to be honest, I always have 0 expectations. I actually feel guilty for offending them if that’s even what I did because to me, I will only do what you like, i hate crossing boundaries, that’s not fun to me at all. I genuinely feel bad 😭 because I know they already feel pathetic. I wouldn’t want them to think they just wasted their money either but what I said wasn’t said to me as a limit. but lmk if this is some sort of trigger word or something (lol) so I can be more cautious because like I said, im not one to cross boundaries. Not in a way that feels like deeply disrespectful.

I wish they would’ve just told me instead so I could take it on board. I felt like we were getting along but everyone has their boundaries and if blocking is theirs, can’t really fault them for it. but I had nobody to talk to about this so, or any encounters rlly so yeah!