Preferably someone who is under 24 and from Australia (for Timezone reasons) but will consider others.
Someone who will spend money on things she doesn’t need and outright waste it while making fun of me. Please be able to take pictures and things of what you spend it on.
Looking forward to meeting you!
I want to set up games for every week this year! Bonus points if your team plays the Ravens so we can make it that week! 🖤 💜
I love to customize the stakes to your specific kinks. Here is an example I've done with a sub previously:
The odds can be anything and there's always surprises in the end! Let me know if you're interested and we can schedule some fun! 😈
help me drain my sub cause he’s excited for me to go shopping and buy new pilates clothes 😌
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LET’S GOOOO 🤭🤭
I recently had a 'fincuck' approach me (Dommes, you know the type)
He was inconsistent, and asking too much too quickly. Instead of leaning into the spiral (and giving him what he wanted) I took a breath, and took a step back.
I had already made my boundaries and expectations clear. The only way to have those respected is to stick to them!
So, I sent my payment links, and I stopped replying. He texted a lot over the next week, pleading and begging and trying every attention grabbing technique under the sun.
After a week and a half of this, he sent what I had told him to. No negotiating, no begging, just genuine obedience.
Now he's paid his 'fucking me around' fee, we actually have the opportunity to play. Now that he's learned his lesson, playing is fun.
He knows what consequences there are for disobedience, and he's motivated to obey.
It takes me back to when I first started out, how I would've fallen for that. I would've kept texting and trying to convince him, betraying myself and my boundaries in the process!
True dominance comes from understanding and respecting your own worth.
Bottom line: subs exist to serve us, not the other way around!
Stay superior, ladies
-Goddess Amber 💜 ✨
I’m tired of findom being treated like it doesn’t belong in BDSM.
Impact play can injure someone.
Humiliation can mess with someone’s head.
CNC can go wrong.
Nobody says those kinks are automatically abuse.
They say do them with consent, limits, and responsibility.
Findom gets a different reaction.
Suddenly it’s “not real kink.”
Suddenly it’s “just exploitation.”
Suddenly everyone doing it is preying on addiction.
Some people are doing it badly.
No limits.
No budgeting talk.
No “I can’t.”
Pushing someone into debt they can’t recover from and calling it dominance.
That’s harmful.
So is any other dynamic run like that.
Financial power exchange is still power exchange.
A submissive choosing to hand over control of money, tribute, or spending is not automatically a victim.
An adult who can afford it, communicate, and stop is not being abused just because money is involved.
If your issue is with Dommes who ignore consent, say that.
If your issue is with subs who use findom to self-destruct, say that.
Stop acting like the kink itself is the crime.
Consenting adults. Clear terms. Real limits.
That’s BDSM.
Curious where people actually stand on this.
Is findom valid kink to you, or do you think money automatically makes it harmful?
Instead of how I usually require tributes, I want you my adorably pathetic finsubs to honor Mrs Dolly Parton, and instead of tributing to me, donate to The Imagination Library and send proof.
I go to regular rehearsals at a dance studio and he had them sent to an Amazon locker nearby; the retrieval felt a bit like a scavenger hunt and added an extra layer of fun. Of course the iPad is dreamy, but he also included some specific self-care and wellness items that were really meaningful to Me.
I will say straight out that I love having a thoughtful, considerate and generous sub. It makes all the difference. He's currently sending to Me each week to donate to the charity of My choice, and it's an amazing feeling to receive what I deserve while still paying it forward.
There are plenty reasons and ways beyond sends and spoils that My sub inspires My dominance, but I can't deny that gifts like these inspire Me to keep showing up. I remember his first $10 silent send to Me, and now look where W/we are!
There's beauty in loyalty. There's delight in devotion. Both are incredibly rare in this space, which makes Me all the more appreciative. Here's to long-term dynamics, and the great submissives who make them worthwhile. ♥︎
Let’s see just how broke we can make my little loser.
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Keep spoiling ur favorite tattooed spoiled brat 🦇
He said he wants to break our last limit, so guess we’re going to show him how hard he’s going to feel it this time 😈 He said he wanted to be trained more so here we are! 😂
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Come and drain this finsub loser dry my Queens 👑✨🌟